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i hav a friend . lets say her name in mary . well mary has always been bad to me in the past. me n her hav gotten into a lot of fights in the past three yrs. . for some reason i always keep crawling back to her and we become friends again . shes stolen from me in the past about twice now and she denys when i know she did it and shes talked behind my back many times , even if were still friends . and she laughs about it like its no big deal . my parents have told me to keep away from her in high school next year b/c nobudy will like u for hanging out with her . i know there right , i havt had a decent friend treat me good in a looog time . since ive been frends wit this girl . i kno its time for me to let her go as a friend . shes hurt me n my family in the past and i dont want to have evryone hte me for hangin out wit her . please help . what do i do!!!!

Go out to a place where lots of people your age hangout and just start talking to other people... Introduce yourself, get outta the house. Find someone that you have something in common with.... Its easy... As for not being friends with her anymore, dont be mean about it. Just say Hey, Im moving on with my life, I think you should too. OR just take the other way around and avoid all contact until she gets the hint.
Hope I helped

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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone.

Just introduce yourself to other people. Let them know that you are going on the trip and ask them if they wanna hang out while yall are there.

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ok i started my period when i was 10 i am now 13 i was wondering when will the menstrual cycle end how old will i be like in my 40's or wut? can someone tell me im just very curious

Probably like late 40's - 50's

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why do girls wear bra and thongs all they seem to do in my appen is make girls and their moms spend money

Cuz we need them

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Why do we all wear clothes it would be a lot better if we did not wear them

I know right

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Hi ummm everytime Im on the beach playing Vollyball Im in my bikni, and boys just keep trying to get my attintion alot!! umm and it makes me feel weird, why is that??? Im 15/fm

They think ur sexy ;) maybe u just dont like that kinda attention

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Ok, I love Linkin Park and Coldplay and I'm looking for music like that. Anyone got any suggestions? Thanks a bunch

Linkin Park is my FAV! band EVER!!! Korn (the new stuff), Hoobastank, Trapt, Staind. Greenday blah blah blah

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i really like this song but its kinda old and i dont kno the name of it or who sings it but i kno the lyrics:

im a bitch, im a lover, im a child, im a mother, im a sinner, im a saint, i dont not feel ashamed im your health im your dream im nothing in between you kno u wouldnt want it any other way

Merdith Brooks

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Im anorexic, i dont know how to stop, i try to eat, but when i do i throw it up, i was on a diet to loose weight but i dont want to loose to much, im 13, 5'6, i did weight 122 pounds and now i weigh 78, i think im at the perfect weigh, but im feeling tired and lightheaded and my face is pale, i really need help and im afraid to tell anyone :(

You have to tell your parents, something could go wrong, you could die!! Dont be afraid to tell. Its a very serious thing, and it needs help ASAP

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im 13 and 5'4 and weigh 108.. is that ok?

yes

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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me !

you.....doctor.......now

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ok im a girland today i just found out that my really close cousin thats a guy is bi and i found out today and now i dont kno how to act around him...i mean i feel weird knowin that hes bi and yea...so wut should i do? how do i react to this?

Hes still the same person, so dont act diff. around him. React? Accept it......

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Ok I created an account on here a couple days ago, I loved giving people advice and was so happy! Well when I told my mom what I was doing she kept getting on my case and wanted to know EVERYTHING that I was doing and saying to people. Well then she told my sister and my sister got my mom on her side and they are saying that I shouldn't give people advice b/c it may backfire! Well I mean should I still visit this site and give people advice even if my mom and sister say not too?


P.S.-If it does backfire it wouldn't really be my fault would it? The person didn't have to take the advice, I was just giving them ideas and voicing my opinion right?

Yes, still give people advice..I dont see how it could backfire

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well me and my bf have been going out for 3 months (ish) and we havn't got past kissing on the cheek. i really do want to kiss him properly and he wants to kiss me but we're so shy. what do we do? i'm a 13 year old girl.

suck it up. Just do it :)

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i've missed two periods, there's no way i'm pregnant, i've never had sex. is something wrong? i started them about 11 months ago now.

Perfectly fine . But once youve had your period for atleast two years they should start to be more regular. If not, see your doctor.

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I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )

- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ?

Id do a cotton Candy Pink, they sell it at Sallys Beauty supply , Its caled MANIC PANIC. I did my hair with that once and it looked really cool. But sticking to your preferred ones I would say Neon Green or Electic blue :)

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ok.. does anyone else get lyk.. rEaLLy dumb questions.. but when you delete them or wutever.. tha people IM you and get mad??

Yes, now i just answer even the dumb ones ha

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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think?

skinny . Im 5'0 and 101 :)

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does anyone kno any good shampoo that makes highlights look better and/or healthy? i just got highlights and just wondered if u need any special kind of shampoo or anything. thx, erin

I use AVON ADVANCE TECHNIQUES Radiant Silver. Its shampoo for gray and highlighted hair. Its purple :) You use it once a weeek and leave it on for about 3 mins :)

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well I know everyone is diffrent but i just wanted to know what the average size for a 12 year olds boobs to be i wear a 34b is that bigger than normal are what???

I think thats bigger than normal, well for me lol Im just now a B and Im 17 lol

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