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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things.

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ok so i see like a hot guy on tv and ill be like "oh he's hot i wanna have sex with him". Like ryan seacrest for example...or simon cowell....or a couple guys at my school....is this normal?

yeah, thats totally normal.

BUT SIMON COWELL!? HE'S SOO NOT HOT.
jk, its your taste :p

i know there is red, green, yellow, and orange concelaer. they all have different purposes and each color goes wtih a different purpose. which one goes with which?

green: pre-coverup for zits.
yellow: undereye circles.
i dont know about the others.

how do you communicate with your boyfriend when your in the same class? like all lovey dovey, or like.. as friends? idk.. i just got my first boyfriend today and i dunno how to act tomorrow.. he sits near me for like 2 classes and we already had our first kiss.

just be sweet, and comfortable. follow his lead.

I really want a job, but I'm only 14.
DO NOT SAY BABYSITTING.
There's NO ONE I know who needs a babysitter.
Anyways..
I kinda wanna work at Tim Hortons, but I'm not sure if it'll be 'fun'.
Any ideas?
Thanks :]

see if your school has a job board, or the jcc or whatever. or look at restaurants, or something. seventeen.com has a section about teen jobs.

do your boobs grow faster if you have your period?

no, but sometimes they swell while or before you have it.

ok like the other day my friend was like tapping on her fingers going johnny johhny johnny woo johnny woo johnny johnny .... I dont get it?? Shes like its soo obvious but I wont tell you untill you figure it out!???

you have to repeat exactly what she does, but ususally they touch their ear or elbow before, and you have to do that too.

ok so i just got a new razor and im trying to set up my voicemail but i cant seem to find the number and i already treid hoolding down #1. help?

*86 should do it.

O.K. well you here people like saying they want to hit 2nd base in a relationship.... what does that mean? like what are all the bases & what do they mean?

there are a lot of different bases, but here's the most common ones:

1-Hook up: make out, french, etc.
2-Feel up: under shirt, on butt; not fingering.
3-Hand job or blow job: fingering, hand job, giving head...
4-sex

For the past week I've been coughing my brains out, literally. I don't know what to do because last week I went to the doctor and I ended up having strep and bronchitis (I spelled that wrong). I swim year round and had 3 meets, so I swam in them saturday, sunday and monday, but did horribly because I basically couldn't breathe. I stopped everything after monday because i wasn't getting better at all. Since I haven't gotten any better, I went back to the doctor yesteday and had to get a chest x-ray. I don't have pneumonia so they gave me cough medicine. How can I get better faster so I can get back in the pool?

just stay on your meds and rest, and youll recover faster.

the guy i like is really confusing me. I know he likes me back but he acts kind of weird.
like i'll IM him and he'll barely even talk but then like 2 days later he'll IM me and we talk for a while. I dont really see him in school alot becuz hes a grade above me and its a vocational school. Does it sound like hes just being shy?

Guys are like that. They don't do small talk, so they don't really talk unless they care about the topic. Or, they really care about you. Is he the kind of guy that gets a lot of girls, and kind of a player? Because those guys tend to play hard to get to make you want them more. But they're not always good at it. but hey, he could be trying that.

You should see how he's taking the conversation. Don't IM him first for a while, and give him his space. if he ims you, talk to him. but don't im him for a week or two, then im him and be like, "hey, havent talked to you in a while, whats up?" also, try and get together with him; it would probably be better in a group. if you like him, act flirty.

I have Windows XP, and in my photography class at school we have iMacs. I really like the operating system a lot more than XP, and I want to know if there are any things that I can download to make it more similar, like the dock.

Thanks.

Oh, sorry.
You still can't really make the operating system more like a Mac operating system.

is it true she is dead?

Yes.

Okay so recently I have read the book,
Twilight. It's about vampires ( I know sounds
weird ) But let me tell you this book is awesome.
Have any of you read it?
Well anyone.. to my point, I was just wondering
if anyone knew if this will be made into
a movie anytime soon. And if not, is there somewhere I can go ... somewebsite, and e-mail a company to read the book and suggest it as a new movie? Thanks in advance

unless you're a very powerful person, you can't really suggest that they make it into a movie.

im going to florida
and if i have my period then..
i dont wear tampons, ive tryed amillion times to put on in. never works, so i wear pads. But can i swim in a pool with my period?
because doesnt it like stop it
or will blood go everywhere
xo thanks

Sometimes swimming makes the blood less apparent, but not always. Also, sometimes, when you get out of the water, your legs could be reddish from the bloody water that could be by your legs.

how do you get rid of hives??? I had a huge red bump on my cheek this morning in school and it was so embaressing!! I was thinking of going to the nurses and have an ice pack and put it on there. But my friends said that would make it redder and bigger. How do you get rid of hives?
Oh yeah and theres a red bump on my head that itches like crazy!

I know this isn't what you want, but you shouldn't put coverup on it. That could irritate it and make it redder. Some tinted lotion might be okay, though.

Hi, im 18yrs old/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a lil over a year. We've only just start having sex for a couple months. We always used a condom. Im not on the pill bcuz i dont have insurance any more. Well its feb. 8 and i was supposed to have my period yesterday. My period has been known to be irregular. It usually comes between the 1- 17. Im scared i might be pregnant. Ive been grumpy and certain things make me mad and ive been craving sweets. Thats how i usually act when im PMSing. I took a test and came out negative. Ive been under alot of stress from losing my friends and other situations. Ive also been really worried bout being pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have stopped having sex and hes just been fingering me now. Could that delay a period? Please help me. Im a mess. I dont want to even think about kids right now. Im not mature enough or ready to raise a child.

I honestly doubt you're pregnant. You said it yourself, your period is irregular. The pregtest said you weren't pregnant, you're PMSing, calm down. You're probably just late.

I need help, ASAP.

Ok so me and my ex tried sex (no condom).. but he couldn't go in cause I was too tight, he didn't cum because we did stuff before it and he wasn't rejuvinated, and I really don't think he precame. So anyways, this was a while ago, probably like a month or more.

Also, I am a virgin and my cherry hasn't been "popped."

I got my period, but it was alot lighter than usually, and only 4 days instead of the usual 7, and I had no signs that i would get it, like usually I get cramps and swollen breats. I got swollen breats now, about a week after my period.

I have also been eating alot, I cannot get full.

I do weightlifting frequently, would that throw stuff off? Then again E have been doing weight training for 3 months pretty much.

Also, I tore something around my left pelvic region, could that effect it?

Or can I be pregnant?

PLEASEEE help me!

If you're doing more weight training, then your period could be slower.

You should just get a pregnancy test, just to make sure.

i have been dating my boy for a little over two years now. when we had been dating a year & a half we lots our virginity to eachother. since then we have been having sex about twice a week. i dont really enjoy it. it feels good and all but i could live w. out it. im on the pill but i always get parinoid before i get my period that i might be pregnant. i decided that i dont want to have sex anymore kas it stresses me out so much and i told my boy and he got mad. i knew he would but how do i convince him that we shouldnt anymore? & how can i get him not to be mad at me?

It's obviously too much stress for you.
If he can't do this for you, then he doesnt deserve you.

If you're comfortable, tell him that you're still okay with other things, like giving him head and fingering, but you just don't want to have sex for a while.

ok there is a big school valentine's say dance coming up next week--
i really like this guy his name is derek but he doesnt know i like him. But the weird thing is my friend guessed i like him and i have never liked him before and i never gave her any idea that i like him. She is really good friends with him though, and she was like im surprised you dont like derek he seems your type. Then i said even if i did like him he wouldnt like me and she was like im sure he would. ( by the way my friend's name is ashely) Do you think that he liked me and told her not to tell me ?? because i no that she would keep his secret. I'm so confused !! and by the way i want to wear something to the dance next week that will impress him. Is there any certain make-up or hair styles that guyz love on girls ????? PLEASE HELP ME !!

-Jennifer

It's very likely that he likes you, but I wouldn't be sure. But, from what you said, it sounds like he does.

And for hair, you should maybe make it kind of wavy, and tousled. Or, you could do a french twist, with some wisps hanging down. What sexy is a wavy, tousled look.

Iam trying to fit into a skirt and i want to lose 5 pounds how can i do that in a healthy fast way?

You should only snack on healthy things, like granola bars and fruit, and cut out dessert.

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