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i mean, i watched The Matrix yesterday, when she was out, but i didn't really think it would be an issue, even though its rated R for Violence. It was really cool, and even the violence wasn't really scary.. I've been more scared in some PG-13 movies than the Matrix. And there was like 1 kiss in it, so I don't think it was also rated R for sexual stuff. so since i liked it, the next day i got the 2 sequels, and i just started watching the Matrix Reloaded. My mom came back from work and walked in the room RIGHT when Neo and Trinity were having sex. Geez, if i had known that was going to happen, I would have just skipped it, but no, my mom overreacted, and after finding out it was rated R, told me to take out the DVD. and since i got it from my library and im 13, she went like balistic. she was like talking on the phone and saying how its wrong for the people to give R rated movies to kids like that. Before i got out Pretty Woman cause my friend saw it and said it was good, but i didnt watch it cause my mom had saw it and knew it was R so she didn't want me to see it. but the thing with the Matrix.. I think its wrong. The 2nd one, I looked at the "parents guide". the violence is mostly bloodless, except for one part where some object goes through some guy's stomach and blood splats on the screen. the cuss words are cuss words you'd normally hear, like prick, fuck, but they don't cuss that much. and yeah the only like "sexual" part is where neo and trinity have sex but theres NO nudity!!!!!!!! yeah like my mom would listen to that. I know R movies are for 15 year olds but i cant wait that long just to watch the 2 movies. I really wanna watch them, and my mom actually said she's gonna talk to the library people not to give R rated movies to kids not looking over 15. i guess i could look like im 15 since im tall and stuff, but I dont see whats so wrong. there are other R rated movies that really are gross but the Matrix isn't as bad as my mom makes it to be. Help! is my mom right or what can i do to like fix this whole thing up and possibly convince her to let me watch it?

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well technically you have to be 17 to go to the theater or to rent an R rated movie....no the Matrix isn't bad...I honestly never realized why it was rated R...but some movies are...your mom is only looking out for you...she probably doesn't know all of the movies that are good or bad...she just sees the rating and thinks that it could be bad...and if she hasn't seen it then she's going to automatically assume that it's not good because of it's rating...cut her some slack...she's only doing what she thinks is right. I personally think she is in a way...if the library isn't checking people to make sure that they are old enough but they look old enough they could be giving like American Pie to a 10 year old...so yes your mom has a point in that...but next time you want to watch an R rated movie talk to her about it...find out why it's rated R and maybe watch it with her...she'll probably feel better if you don't hide them behind her back.


Alright so i read the harry potter book the day it came out since the first book. I mean i grew up with Harry and Hermione and Ron and now the series is over. I thought it was the best book i have ever read, but so sad. How can i get over it???? I mean like i have never cried this much over a book!

also, i have formed an obsession with Tom Felton who plays malfoy in the movies haha and its like i cannot stop thinking about him. I watch youtube interviews with him and like i think im going crazy. How do i get him off my mind??!!?? (link)
Every girl goes through some sort of obsession...its what we do...and obsessing over celebrities is our specialty (mines Daniel Radcliffe lol)...you just have to realize that you and Tom will never be together...it's not going to happen...but he's nice to look at so think about him as much as you want....there's nothing wrong with that...as for the book...I'm in the same boat...I read the first Harry Potter book when I was 8 years old...and now I'm 18 and it's all over...It took me a bit to come to terms with it but once I was watching JK Rowling's interviews on NBC it really helped...she was talking about it and things she liked and things she'd go back and change...it really helped me out...you can watch them on youtube.


Okay well I need to, & want to lose at least 10 pounds in one week, & I need to know what can I do to lose that much. I don't want to do any crash diets because I'm not trying to hurt myself, just get healthier and fit. What are some foods to completely avoid, & what kind of exercise can I do to accomplish my goal? (link)
well you can't do it healthily...you'll be losing 3 lbs of fat and 7 lbs of muscle...which is super unhealthy for your body...I'm sorry that you want to lose that much weight in a week but it's completely unrealistic...even with crash dieting you wont lose 10 lbs in a week...nothing will do that...but avoiding foods that are super high in sugars and eliminating soda from your diet completely will definitely be a big help...try that...you'll be surprised how much weight you lose.


This is a follow up question to a question I recently asked:
So I wanna run 3 sessions for about 30-40 minutes.
That will be about 2 hours a day at least...And I was wondering if its bad, like if I can over run. The reason I'm doing this is because I need to run a timed mile with in a week
So is running about 2 hours a day for a week too much?
Like can you over run yourself (Like I know you can over drink like water and you can drown your intestines)
15/f EXTREMELY athletic (link)
It doesn't matter how athletic you are...instead of doing 2 hours a day cut it down to an hour...you'll wear your body out and you'll most likely become highly fatigued...not to mention excessive running is terrible on your knees...rather than just running...I'd work more on an approach to the mile...try different running styles at different times and see which one gets you the best time...but don't overrun yourself...I wouldn't suggest any more than an hour and a half a day at maximum.


Yes I got my first period and its my 3rd day. Today i started to feel like i need to pee even with i already did T_T I feel silly telling you this. But Is something wrong with my bladder or is that just my period comming out? O_O (link)
it's just your menstrual blood or your "period coming out" it's perfectly normal...we all feel that.


I have a little bit of light-colored hair on my upper lip. However, it's enough so it's noticable. So, I'm planning on using that NAIR facial hari removal stuff. So, i'm wondinerg - has anyone ever used it for the purpose of upper lip hair removal? is it effective? for how long? etc. i've never used Any kind of NAIR, so im not sure what to expect.. (link)
it works...but the hair has to be long enough for it to work...most waxes and depilatory suggest at least 1/4 inch hair...otherwise it wont work too well...or at all...but if the hair is that long it will work...but it smells horrible...even if you get the kind that are supposed to smell like fruits or something...they smell worse actually...so if you can stomach the smell go for it...but if your hair is long enough for depilatory I suggest waxing...it's a lot faster, doesn't smell, and the hair stays away longer.


I asked the same question yesterday but I was told that I should give more information,so here it goes:
A few days ago I noticed that my ribcage seems asymmetrical.On the left side,about an inch or two under the breast area,my ribs seem to go in a little more than the right.There's no pain or redness and it feels just about the same as the.Could anyone tell me what this could be? (link)
it's normal...no one is perfectly symmetrical...no one...no matter how badly they want to be...my right rib cage is about an inch longer than my left...I was worried about it at first too but after talking with my doctor I found out that there is nothing wrong with it...its normal...but if your truly worried ask your doctor.


If you have zits on your body or just face, what should I use instead of proative, that is too expensive and actually works. ooh and something that doesn't dry out your face. Thanks!!!! (link)
I suggest neutrogena oil free acne wash...it comes in a body wash and a face wash...it doesn't dry out your skin...it just removes the oil thats necessary...i use it and it works great...I used proactiv for a while but found that it just takes up too much time in my day...I started using this stuff and never looked back...and proactiv knock-offs don't work...I also suggest using an astringent in the morning and right before bed time to help with zit removal...I suggest sea breeze...it's 3 bucks and works great. hope I helped.



i didn't know what to put this under so..

my brother has a ringback tone on his phone, but he has cingular. like, when you call him, it DOESN't say "please enjoy the music while your party is reached" or whatever, it just goes straight to the song. i asked him how he got it, but he said his roomate did it for him. is it possible to have a ringback tone on a cingular phone? i really want one but i didn't know.

thanks (link)
just go to the cingular website...go to shop, answer tones and click on the one you want...put in your phone number and it will send it to you in a text where you will connect to the internet to buy it...then download it...it's really simple.


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v338/idahasfun/hair/uglydte.jpg

what would you call that kind of shirt? (link)
it's just a character screen tee


I found a great pair of skinny jeans on the Urban Outfitters website, but they have weird siezes like 25, 26, etc. All of my jeans are either a 2 or 3, so what size am I in that weird size? How do I measure it? (link)
it's just your waist size...measure it...remember to leave about an inch so they're comfortable...so if your waist measures 25 tight against the skin then get a 26 or 27.


yea thanx you give such great advice but yea i dont know im not no more cuz that is just hoey but you know what type of mexsickan pretty boiz im talking bout?? like with the lip piercings and ears n ?? (link)
yeah I know what your talking about...but like I've said from the beginning it's totally up to you and what you feel your ready for



for cheer tryouts we have to do a dance to the remixed version of dum diddly by the black eyed peas.
it's not on itunes or any other place i could find, could somebody PLEASEEEEEEEEEE find it for me?
i need it ASAP! (link)
you can find it on Limewire and on youtube theres a video for it...check those out.


yea i guess you are right and see i cant tell my parents that cuz he is a little pretty boy gangsta lol he is so cute though but that doesnt mean yto loose it to him have you been through the same thing?? (link)
yeah..I really liked this guy and he liked me to and we started dating and he wanted to have sex with me so bad and I just wasn't ready...I told him that and he said he would wait for me...but he ended up going behind my back and having sex with other girls to get his fill. I told him that if he wasn't going to wait for me than he wasn't worth my time and I broke it off with him. I don't want the same thing to happen to you.


Are people really going to have to get something caleld a verichip? And when? I read about it on a forum called gaiaonline.com (link)
there is a thing called a verichip...its not mandatory and isn't legal in the US...yet...they do use them in Japan some...but I highly doubt that we'll start using them...and even if we do legalize them they aren't going to be something you just have to have...don't worry.


bUt what should i do cuz like i like marco alot.. and he want to rake my virginity.. (link)
well if you don't want him to you need to tell him that and if he wont wait for you to be ready then he's not worth your time. he doesn't respect you and your boundaries.


I already have natural curly hair (not spirals, but still really curly) and the only way I can seem to keep them in control all day is through hairspray which often leaves my hair crunchy. Help please...I want soft hair!

This is my hair care:

At night I shower, and comb Aussie mousse through it. Then I put it in a large hairband in a ponytail, and then sleep on it.

In the morning I dry it , use Aussie hairspray and Aussie 12 hour dehumidifier.

Help?

Do curl conditioners and shampoo actually help, especially even if I use mousse afterwards? (link)
use a specific curl mousse too...but the thing with curls is that we have to gel them or put hairspray in them for them to stay...I'd consider getting some rollers...not hot rollers just sponge rollers and while your hair is damp roll your hair and put some hairspray in...then blowdry your hair with the rollers in...that will help make the curls more defined...you can sleep with them in and blowdry in the morning or get your shower and stuff in the morning...you could do it at night but you risk deflating your curls...but its up to you.


but when this boy marco gets a new he blows me off and wont talk to me until he dont have a lady no more why..?? (link)
he probably doesn't want to feel like a cheater....tell him how you feel...talk about why you all aren't together and why he goes off with other girls instead...you really just need to talk it out.


MAn im going to a new private school i dont want to go i would be going to a reg high shool with my homegurlz but my mom dont want me to go how can i get through this wack school??


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Private school really isn't that bad...I've done both and I actually liked private school better...just be yourself and you'll make loads of new friends. Don't try to impress them because they wont be impressed...just show them the real you and you should be just fine.


so, i recently lost a very good friend of mine. i'm having a rather hard time thinking of a song with quality lyrics about departing this earth, death, or anything that has to do with the loss of a friend.

in our friendship, we shared a love of music, and i need a few quotes from lyrics. any genre of music will do, i'm not picky.

thank you very much, in advance. (link)
Tears in Heaven by: Eric Clapton
Jumper by: Third Eye Blind
Wind Beneath My Wings by: Bette Midler
Only The Good Die Young by: Billy Joel
I Will Remember You by: Sarah McLachlan
Angel by: Sarah McLachlan
Total Eclipse Of the Heart by: Bonnie Tyler (not necessarily about death but you'll get some good quotes from it)
I Will Follow You Into The Dark by: Death Cab For Cutie
Candle In The Wind by: Elton John
Here's To The Night by: Eve 6
100 Years by: Five For Fighting

those are just a few of them if you need more message me.




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