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lately ive been noticing my dark circles under my eyes get worse everyday and i hate them! i go to sleep around 10 or 11 and for some strange reason been waking up around 4 am i know strange anyone got tips on what to do?
hey, no matter how many hours of sleep i get or what time i go to sleep, i get them. there horrible and dark. i just got used to them. each day i put coverup and bronser on them to hide them a bit. it sucks, but you have to live with it.
Ok, im 14/f. My boyfriend doesnt think i love him anymore, he thinks im back to liking him. but i dont kno wut i think.
How do I kno if I do or not? And sumtimes i kno i do but other times i question it. And he wrote me a note sayin a whole bunch of stuff saying he still loves me and he dont kno wut to do and he thinks that i stopped loving him and im only liking him now.
and if i tell him wut i think or feel he'll get mad at me again and i cant have him get mad at me again or he'll prolly break-up with me...
wut do i do? how do i kno.. & please dont say that i should if i like/love him or not.
Thanx in advance!!
hey, alright well i know you said not to say this, but its so true. love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone. i can already tell that you dont love him because you said that you only feel like you do sometimes. i believe that its just a strong like and that your holding on to him and the relationship out of habit. you need to talk to him about it. the two biggest parts of relationships are trust and comfort. if your not comfortable around your partner and cant talk to them comfortably about your feelings, thats also another problem. he shouldnt get mad at you for expressing your feelings or if your feelings have changed for him. if he does, hes immature and obviously not ready for a relationship. i wish you luck.
my dad once told me that if i keep eating or chewing gym rather everyday that my teeth will be messed and fall out i'll have bad teeth
although i brush every day i use mouth wash and i only bascially chew trident gum the healthy kind yes i have some cavitys but that shouldnt matter so will my teeth fall out if i still chew gum everyday
hey, nope thats not true. sugar free gum isnt bad for your teeth at all.
I've known my best friend for about 5 years now. We met in high school and were in a couple classes together. We were pretty much aquaintances that only talked at school. Around graduation I started dating someone and since this guy was one of his friends I got to know him more and more. Pretty soon we were great friends, best friends. I got engaged and even moved out of state and then came back only a short time later having left my fiance. This was last year. This past January I was preparing to move into my new apartment and decided to call my friend because I was bored. He wanted me to hang out until he was done working so I drove to his work and was there until about 2am, where then we went back to our friend's place who was away. He had been asked to watch their dog. We started watching a movie and well, long story short we ended up kissing and having sex. His girlfriend had just broken up with him, so he said that with me everything was so comfortable. He talked about it being a one time thing and I thought no big deal of it. Pretty soon I realized that I really liked him, and was soon starting to fall for him. He felt very awkward afterwards and we didn't really talk for about 2 months. We've just started reconnecting since the beginning of this month and it made me realize how much I really do care about him. I want to tell him I how I feel, but I'm afraid he'll get freaked out again, and I hated losing him as a friend for these past couple months. A friend told me he said he didn't want to "hook up" again because he didn't want to ruin our friendship. Sometimes though I get a vibe that he could have more feelings for me, but doesn't want to jeopardize anything, but they could just be lost hope. What should I do?
hey, well i think that you should let him know how you feel. who knows - maybe you guys were suppose to have three kids together. also it will feel good to get all of your feelings off your chest. explain to him basically what youve explained to us. about the whole not wanting to ruin the friendship thing etc. give it some time to sink in first. dont get all defensive if hes quiet and shocked at first, because like i said, he`ll need time for it to sink it. if things dont work out from there, it just wasnt meant to be. good luck.
why do guys think it is hot when a girl masturbates?
hey, even though im a girl, im going to give this a shot because me and my boyfriend were talking about this last night. he said that there really is no reason why except that it turns him on, makes him horny, and he just thinks its sexy. so basically, if your looking to turn a guy on, masterbate.
do you no were i can get free learning to dance website and im male thanks
hey, well i dont know what kind of dance that your talking about, so im going to give you a bunch of websites.
http://www.askmen.com/fashion/how_to/42_how_to.html
thats just general dancing.
http://www.doubleveil.net/tips.htm
thats belly dancing.
http://www.ohiodanceinc.com/step.html
thats more proper dancing.
http://www.arthurmurray.tv/Dancetips.htm
if you scroll down, theres the dos and donts of dancing.
if thats not what your looking for at all, try using google. i used google, but you know more of what you want so you`ll probably have better luck.
http://www.google.com
13/f
My hair is really flat and greasy at the top, and then all sticky-outy and frizzy at the bottom. Does anyone know how to solve this problem?
hey, well for the greasey problem, you need to get specialty shampoo and conditioner for that. ask your hair dresser or just search around places like cvs, walgreens, or brooks. as for your overall hair problem, you could get a perm or get your hair temporarily straightened. if you didnt want to get those down professionally, you could always just flat iron your hair everyday. if you wanted the curl look, you could use a diffuser. if you have any questions about what ive said in this advice, please send me something in my inbox. i dont want to leave you confused.
So this guy I like, ryan, wont even talk to me now....I really like him but he isn't over his last girlfriend....He wont even talk to me a school.
My exbf called my best friend to tell her that he was going to ask out this girl janet...She is the reason why we broke up. he just wouldn't tell me that, but he didnt have to...i knew...
So she told me and I was upset....so i texted ryan telling him i needed someone to talk to and if he was still awake to call me...but he didnt...and then today he wouldnt even say hello to me...
I'm so mad..I really like this guy and he sometimes acts like he likes me...I mean we went on a date...and he told me that he likes me but something is holding him back...what should I do?
Should I just wait it out with this guy? Just sit back and see what happends or just forget about him and try to find someone else?
hey, alright well hes not over his ex. that obviously means that he would get back with her if he had the chance. why hasnt he got back with her yet? did she say no? whats the deal? it seems to me that your this kids "fall back girl". what i mean by that is, when something is going wrong with there relationship/friendship or she doesnt like him anymore, he goes crawling back to you. the reason that he does this is because he knows that you like him and hes hoping that you`ll replace that other girl, but since his feelings for her are so strong, once they makeup, your out the window. thats the reason that hes nice and sweet to you on the dates you go on. when he asks you on the dates, hes probably fighting with her. when your together, he doesnt think about her. once hes at home on his bed thinking about you two, shes the winner. you need to move on. you deserve so much better than someone thats willing to use you like this. ask your friends to introduce you to some new guys. remember, you dont just have to stick with the guys that are in your school. sorry if that was harsh, but i just didnt want you to get hurt.
i have a short tongue, and whenever i hook up with a guy i feel like i'm not good at it because i can barely even get my tongue in his mouth. what can i do about this??
hey, theres nothing in this world to make your tongue longer. youll just have to be thankful for what you have and just make do with what you can. im sure your really not that bad of a kisser. just dont think about it. im sure that your making a bigger deal out of it than nessasary.
How does one make out?
I know you use tongue and stuff, but I want to know actually how to. I wouldn't feel comfortable asking any of my friends or my mom. Any techniques would be good to.
i know know to fake kiss....
(:
Please don't give me any websites, just advice. Thanks : ]
hey, well there is no right or wrong way to make out. you kind of just go with the flow. one tip that youll most definately need tho is to keep your eyes close while you makeout. its very creepy and unpleasant to have someone staring at you.
I'm 15, I've been getting colds very frequently. Before spring break, (wich was 4 weeks long) I seemed to be getting them every other weekend. My weekend would go normal, and then on Sunday I would start to get runny nose, sore throat, fever etc. etc.. and then I end up being absent from school on Monday.
Well I just got back from break (no sickness at all the whole time), and this past weekend was my first weekend back, and i'm sick again. I'm guessing its either from stress of going back to school and getting my homework done Sunday night, or not lack of sleep. (wich I get up early on both Saturday and Sunday for church)
Can someone clear this up for me, so I know exactly what I need to be doing diffrent to avoid getting so sick every week ?
hey, well it could be pretty much anything. it could be the changing of the seasons, stress, or anything. just grab some common cold medicine at like cvs and wait it out. thats all that you can do.
this kid, Max, and i are pretty good friends. well he has a girlfriend, Jane. well, there's a dance this weekend that has a reputation of a little of dirty business going on there (that i'm going to). well he was like saying how i'm such a s*** for going to it, and people only go there to have sex with clothes on and he kept calling me a s***. he pretended he was joking but idk if he was. then he was like why are you going to it and i said something like "im just trying to have fun what happens there stays there" or something, and then he radnomly said "omg i wanna make out with my girlfriend soooo bad". it was weird. what could he mean by all this? why is he acting that way?
hey, well yeah your right, those are some bad mixed signals. im just taking a wild guess that this might be the problem. hes jealous that your going there and he knows that his girlfriend wont go there or would never go there. he cant go without her, so hes stuck in the situation of not being able to go. hes trying to make himself feel better by putting the dance and you down. i also think that he likes you and is mad that he cant go with you.
Ok, this ? is for mostly boys around 13
what makes guys like girls, like what do guys look for in girls, but nothing peverted, cause i REALLY like this guy but i dont know if he likes be back
please help me!!!
hey, im a girl, but im pretty sure that this answer will be the same as most guys. guys like different things in girls. some guys like athletic girls, while other guys like girly girls. it varies very much depending on the guy and his personality. if your looking into one guy in particular, look at the types of girls that hes dated before. if you dont fit under those types, dont worry. guys change there types that they look for and sometimes go for something a little different. remember, dont change for anyone or any guy. just be yourself. flirt a little. if he doesnt like you, its his loss.
i was just wondering does masturrbatiinngg make your period come sooner/later? also is there any way to make your period come sooner/later? cause like i'm going to florida next week and i'm expecting my period to come. thanks lots. oh yeah 15/f by the way.
hey, nope masterbating doesnt effect it at all. there is also no way to control when your period comes. sorry.
18/f.
University student.
Am working on a project that's due tomorrow (in 8.5 hours, actually). Right now, it's 1:30am. This project was assigned over a week ago and I just .. agh, got distracted, etc.
Does anyone have any tips for me so I won't procrastinate? I already don't get enough sleep during the week (5 hours max), and it looks like tonight's another all nighter. So what should I do?
Please don't dare say the words "time management"... Because obviously, I need help managing my time and I don't know how to. That's why I'm asking this question.
And share personal experiences and improvements afterwards please...I'll be working on the project and checking here once in the while...
Vei.
hey, well this is all on you. its your own fault that you didnt manage your time better. therefore, this project of yours might not be your best work. yes, its going to be another all nighter. why do you think that the teachers assign the projects so far in advance? they do it so that you dont have to cram it all in one night. you suppose to do it each and every day and space it out. this advice that im giving you isnt for now because you cant change what you did, its for the future.
I have dealt with a huge skin problem in the past. So now I have scars all over my body:my legs, arms, and back. They look so obvious, and it makes me feel so self-conscious that I have to cover it up with jeans and long-sleeved shirts. However summer is close and I want them to be gone, or less-noticable at least. I want to look better again. Is there any treatments or surgical procedures I can do to get rid of the scars?
Please give me some hope with this because I look so ugly! Thanks
hey, well i know that they sell scar medicines at cvs, walgreens, or brooks. you can always try those. i would see a dermo or even a doctor. they would probably give you better medicine or ointment than any of those pharmacys that i mentioned could. by the way, medicines from anywhere probably wouldnt get rid of the scars completely, just fade them out a bit.
I have an iPod shuffle the older models but something happened and it won't play. I turn the back switch on and the green light goes on. It should only be on for two seconds but it stays on continuously. The music doesn't play either. It is not on hold, battery is fully charged, etc. I don't know what to do. Help!
Thanks in advance,
Mimzy.
hey, well what i would do is go to the apple store itself or visit there website. on the website, they will give you contact information.
can someone explain to me like, the difference between the imperfect and the preterite tense? and give examples of ar, er and ir verbs. i'm just really confused & google isn't helping. i can't ask my teacher anyway + she's totally weird and would probably confuse me even more. thanks :)
hey, well did you try google language tools?
http://www.google.com/language_tools?hl=en
im not sure if thats much of a help, but its worth a shot.
14f this is so gross but im a virgin and my v seems to produce alot of cum and i cant seem to find anything to make it stop i shower daily (always have) but still no luck does anyone know what to try?
hey, well the only option is to wear pantyliners and change them often. that way your underwear will be protected and it wont feel as gross.
Well i didn't really brush my teeth when i was younger and now my teeth are hurting very bad.. I didn't lose any teeth. Is it possible to lose all my teeth at this age? I am going to start brushin my teeth 4 times a day now for 2 minutes? will i still lose my teeth at a young age??
hey, well its very possible. my grandmother did the same thing, but she was much older when she started taking care of her teeth. she ended up getting false teeth at an early age. you should see your dentist and see what he tells you. he`ll be able to help you more than any of us could. good luck.