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Q: Does anyone have any tips about make up for the summer?

put on a light blush. a touch of brown mascara. a white shimmery eye shadow and a clear lip gloss with a little but of sparkle. it makes the face look better but still like there is no makeup on it

Q: i have the game Sims Bustin OUt which is my favorite game but it has 2 many scratches on it. How can I fix it?any home remedies? if it works ill rate high if it doesnt ill still rate high

um well it is a cd right. blow on it then use your shirt to wipe it of but very gently

Q: ok so i just started using tampons and like when i put on in it feels like it falling out does that mean its not in all the way or is that just how it feels??

plz help ill rate high to anything thats not ignorant

well try again. it might just feel that way for some people. for me it felt like it hurt on one side. you just have to get used to it

Q: ive got all these fruit flies. i think they've nested somewhere in my room! wat can i do?!? how can i get rid of them?!?!?

well that is because you have food in your room. that happened in my house and it was GROSS. you should either put fruit somewhere else in your house they would either move or more would come. or you can spray bugspray all over your room and take all the food out hope i helped

Q: I'm having a party tonight and i dont know what games we should play. Does anyone have any suggetions. Please no dirty suggestions b/c my parents will be home!!!

well a lot of fun games are manhut. where when it is dark you go outside get a partner and play hide and seek. you can also do a dance contest that is always fun. truth or dare (nothing dirty in it) or you can play like a water drinking contest or say like see who can eat the piece of cake the fastest. HAVE FUN

Q: Ok, well my mom has REALLY bad mood swings when she's not on her PAXIL! and sometimes even when she is on it she completely loses her mind and cant control her temper. This ususally happens about once every month or two. But today she got upset because i didnt clean my room and she totally lost it! Well she didnt punch me in the face or anything, but she slammed my face on the floor, and was pulling my hair and was punching me on the back of my legs, and with all that happening, my lips were busted open, and i have a black eye, and it bled a little, and even make-up wont cover it completely! Also she keeps threatening to send me to live with my dad (who lives in a semi-nice house, but is addicted to marijuana, crack, cocaine, crystal meth, and he pops pills)...So i was wondering if this was considered Child Abuse.....Thanks Alot for reading this, and im sorry if its Long!

oh hun poor you of course it is considered child abuse. even if you love you mom i think you should tell the police or family friend about this. i hope all works out

Q: okay, so ever since i came to my school, in second grade, this girl, we'll call her "teresa" has been my best friend. we could like write a book about eachother. sometimes i think she noes me better than i noe myself. haha! but, the thing is that ther were a whole bunch of new kids this year. one of them we'll call "melanie" and the other we'll call "claire". when melanie came into school, teresita was being her friendly self and started greeting all of the new kids and introducing herself etc, etc. so her and melanie supposedly become really close. oh, she can have a friend! but i couldnt make friends w/ another one of the new kids, which is claire. so, teresa, knowing that melanie calls me a bitch and kinda bullies me around. i mean, my gosh, she's a real bitch! but i mean, gosh, sumtimes i dont think i realize how much shit i take in from a lot people. im too nice to those those people. but thats just the way i am. the only way i can really blow my top is by writing here. i hardly ever get this way w/ people cuz im too shy to tell them off. but i put my foot down. im not taking crap from those people anymore! so, i tell teresa, right? i tell her that i'm sorry. but i cant be friends w/ sum1 thats friends w/ her b/c she is a serious bully. i mean, we've even had to talk 2 the principal about it b/c the girl is out of control! she thinks that she's hot stuff, and shes not even close to it! and its silly, at my age, it really is. im 14 yrs old and i just think that its really silly that i hav 2 talk 2 the principal @ this stage! but, the thing is that the school has its own network and its like my school e-mail. and she's sending horrible e-mails during school hours! so... yeah. it had to "be brought to the attention of authority" haha! anyways. and she IM's me such mean things, that i had to block her! and teresa is like nothing. hanging out w/ her, laughing. and everyone is accusing me of ditching her and hanging out w/ claire. just b/c teresa decides to go w/ a girl that cant stand my guts. i dont know how to explain this to her! people even told me that i had to choose between them and claire b/c they dont like claire. but u noe, its really stupid. b/c sum1 that i thot was a true friend, look wat she did to me, and this girl is just sum1 to hang out w/ since my friend ditched me! its like she's on her side. thats so unfair! i've always been ther for her! why duz she like melanie so much if she's that way w/ me? its really just annoying. please let me know what you think. i rate high!

ok well mabye she dosnt realize how mean melanie is. also this might be hard to understand but she has been your best friends for a long time and your a boy so she cant tell you EVERYTHING. now with melanie around she can tell her more because they are both girls and have the same problems. Why dont you tell Teresa that you dont like melanie but you really want to keep on being her friend. mabye you can even print something that melanie said was mean to you on the internet and show it to teresa so she really knows how much she hates you. hope i can help

Q: hey my family is wealthy...we have like houses all over tha world...i got a hummer h2 SUT for my birthday...i used to go to skool in a Limo...my mom and dad have ashton martins...but now people are juss trying to be my friend cuz they think that i will pay for them to go everywhere and stuff...what do i do?

wel mabye you should stop going to school in a limo. just act like a normal person and dont mention that you are rich or anything. i mean i am rich but i never talk about or mention it and i have the best friends ever.

Q: Ok, so... I have a regular body. I'm pretty skinny, and just... well... regular. I dont have huge boobs or anything like that. I'm just a typical young teen. But I would consider myself more "pretty" than "hott". I'm not trying to sound conceided... but I have a prettier face than anything. But, it seems like all guys care about is "hottness". It's like they could like some of the most ugly girls just because they have a "hott body". Does anyone think... or know if guys will ever grow out of this and start actually looking at girls faces and caring more about beauty than hottness? please let me know

thank you

yes they eventually will. while they are young all they care about are the "girls" you know they dont even consider what there face looks like. all i am saying is wait because they will notice you

Q: You are in 5th grade and u thin kjtaht victoir secet is the best place ever?

going into 7th grade lol one of the best

Q: can you swim when you are on your period?

yes as long as your wearing a tampon

Q: I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX

well this might sound like a typical answer but no there is no way. also you could go to victoria secret (best place EVER) in montgomery mall and buy a padded bra. dont even need to stuff it just wear it it works lol

Q: ok how can you get a guy when you are

1. taller than most of the guys that i like
(i am 5'6'')
2. plump
(i dont look like i weigh 165 pound but i do
weight like that)
3. you dont look same as other kids because
I AM ASIAN!

i got quiet few guy friends but they all think of me as friend because all the things i've listed

so how do i get a guy who is Nice... and sweet, i dont really care about the look unless they are like really ugly and smelly and stuff, but i care for wats on the inside, unless they are really social zero.

so pleeeeease help me lose weight and get a guy who is sooo sweet...

and help me not try to steal my friends' boyfriend
yes i tried but i cant get him out of my mind

and its not really my fault if i wanna call him because he gave me HIS number first...

so pleeeeeeease help~
i rate 5 if they are good
and 4 if they try to help and
1's if you are going to be makin fun of me

well if you want to lose weight just dont eat sugar thats what helps me. also i think your height is awesome. it is the PERFECT hight. asian people are always beautiful so dont worry about that. well i dont think you should go out with your best friends boyfriend i mean you get a choice between one of them and lose the other. also i think you should just keep looking because every one has someone out there for them

Q: f/13
ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ?

ehmagod i have the same problem. i think that it is that you have gone out with so many people and have had your heart broken already that you are just to afraid to take anoter chance

Q: Ok so I wanna dye my hair henna red. Do you know where I can find a level 2 (washes out in 28 shampoos) hair dye? My hair is kind of dark brown (not THAT dark darker than just brown). thx a lot!!!!

well you can get it at target. they have this stuff that i use to dye my hair blonde. it comes out in 28 days. it is a small rectangular box with a metalicy, plastic orange cover on it with a piture of a cartoon.

Q: O.K. I have been on my period since the middle of sixth grade and I'm now in eighth grade. I have skipped a lot of periods in the past and I was wondering if that has anything to do with having kids. Will I still be able to have kids and is this serious? Now, my period has been going for a MONTH! Is that normal for a 13 year old girl, even if I started almost three years ago?
Signed,
Kayla

well hun the skipping is ok once in a while but not to scare you or anything it is NOT normal for your period to be going to a MONTh i think you should tell your parents. i mean it is nothing serious just go check it out incase

Q: My friend (when i say friend im really talking about my friend not myself) but anyway she had a bf then he dumped herr and other day he likes her again and the next he hates her...shes going out with a guy that she doesnt love as much as she loves her ex...and does anyone know how to help her?

thanks and much lovee

well i think you should tell ehr that. tell her that you think she sould get back together with her ex because he is way more important but most important it is her life and her desicion and whatever she decides will be her choice out of her toughts not yours

Q: I read your answer somewhere... toothpaste for pimples... LOL. Do you just squueze it out of the tube n rub it on your face???? LOL thanks

well i never really done it but all my friends do it all you got to do it sqeeze it on your finger and dab it on your zits

Q: i was on vacation for a while and i came back and tried to talk to my best friend who i havnt been able to talk to in a while and he told me he wasnt ever my friend and stuff and i dont no what to do it seems everything is dieing he was the only one i could talk to him about anything and everything and i miss him and i dont no what to do help me please

well why dont you tell him you miss him and ask him why he is not your friend anymore and that you want to be friends with him

Q: Okay, i've just decided to try tennis, but i have friken clue of how the hell to play it. lol I keep trying to find out things online, and it's telling me things about how u need 4 points to win a game, 6 games to win a set, and 2 sets to win a match, but i have no clue what they mean by "game" "set" or "match", I dont know what they are!!lol I also don't know how you get scored on this. If anyone would like to take the time and explain to me thoroughly and define these 'terms' to me i will love you!!!!

thank you so much
_Janine_*

lol well i played tennis for five years and i loved it. to tell you the truth i cant explain it online just get lessons. it is easy to pick up

bio

13/f! wow i just luuuv answer questions. heres some stuff bout me so u can get to no me betta. i in middle skewl have tons of friends popular 3 kittys and love boys. thats sounds cheesy but w/e. also i am bootyful inside and out and love helping people with there prob. such as mackeup and all that sheeawt haha well i am always heer if ya need anything and u culd always e-mail me @ PerfectPrep13 @ aim well kissesss oh PP.SS hah (inside joke) if ya need anyhelp with boys i am your girl to ask cuz i have only had my share of them!!!