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Okay so i admit, i've never had a boyfriend. im 14 years old and going into 8th grade. ive been told by guys that im really pretty and have a great personality. im not overweight, im not unpopular or stuck up. what keeps me from being something guys like? i have guy friends, but whenever i like a guy, they never like me back as much. i dont think highly of myself when im around people. i actually tend to be more shy then anything around guys. but, what can i do? i know every guy is different but... ugh im so stumped!! please help, if you answer my question good ill give you a rewarding 5! =) thanks!
ps: im not just trying to get a boyfriend because of people around me having them, its whenever i find someone i like, they dont feel the same... (link)
Most guys dont have the guts to ask out girls tell their alittle bit older, so maybe they do like you their just not ready to ask you out. When school starts you should take the time to choose someone you really like and ask him out. Remember to choose carefully because if he says yes then this will be your first boyfriend and it should be someone that you really like.


I'm looking for a guy that woud fit me well but each time i go out with the guys i fing something i hate about them right away...what should i do? (link)
you should probably be alittle more open to guys, but its okay if you havent found Mr. Perfect yet because im guessing your not too old. Someone will come along sometime and there will still be things wrong with him, but there will be more good than bad. Good Luck !!


Im asken this ? again cuz i still dunno wat 2 do n im hopeing this time i will get more responces! Well i went out wit this kid last year.. in september, lets call him 'Bob'. N we went out for mayb a week or two, then he broke up with me.. n me n bob i know both feel this way cuz he told me many of times, that wen we were with eachother... it just felt perfect, n even tho we have a 2year age difference it didnt even matter! N omg wen im with him it just feels soo right like i wanna be with him forever.. even if im 13 n hes 15 i mean like i -CANT- say yeah i wanna marry this kid but thats just how it feels kinda, i mean not marry him.. but i wud stay with him for very long n try to make it last as long as possible. But newayz after we broke up we argued alot, then in december, close to my birthday we started talken again, n i gess we kinda liked eachother, even tho i always had feelings for him. But then sumthing happend, he went away til umm June. Wow that was probly the hardest time i hadta face so far in life. I went crazy, i thot about him a few times a week, eventually i thought about him less and less. Then he came back. We talked alot, i told him i still had feelings for him, he told me he thot bout me wen he was away, then he went out w.sum girl, we lost touch for a lil, then started talken again. N i read him 1 of the poems i wrote wen he was away, i never thot i wud read that, but i did, n i dunno we were talken n i dunno if he likes me or not, itll be a year of likeing him this september, i mean i went out with other ppl in that year, but it wasnt tha same. But now.. he kinda likes sum girl, lets call her 'K', n i tell him to go out w/her n stuff, but i am really jealous, i just act like i want him 2 be happy... well i do, it just wont make me happy if hes with her. Wat shud i do? i rate very very good just please help me!

x0x signed confused n depressed (link)
It sounds like this has been a very confusing time for you. First of all make sure he knows how you feel, which im sure you will have no trouble doing because you sound like your very close to him. Telling him to go out with 'K' is a mistake, because even though you want him to be happy, which is very nice of you, you will regret it. I know if i was in his place i would want to know how you felt. Do your best to talk to him about this and if he decides that he wants to date her and not you stay friends with him, because it sounds like you have a hard time when you two are apart.


I'm going into my senior year of high school and I haven't had a boyfriend in almost a year. (its by choice) But my question is (link)
If you really like the guy then it is a good decision but you shouldnt go out with someone just to be going out. If you can relate with this person then go for it but if not just live it up! This is your senior year so have as much fun as possible boyfriend or not.


ok well yeaterday at about like 2a.m. I went driving in town with my cuzine and her older bro (he's only 17) he drove us around and well he was smoking pot in the car so I got totally nervous and I didn't know what to do so I just staid in the car worring my butt off and when I got home at around 10 my dad smelt the pot and asked me if I smoked but I didn't pin it on my cuz did I do the right thing? I rate high:D (link)
You might have done the right thing by not getting him in trouble, but now he might do it again and get himself or his sister in a serious accident. Its dangerous to drive under the influence, so you should talk to someone about it. Who knows maybe in the future he will thank you. If you dont feel comfortable telling anyone atleast make the choice not to drive with him again!


ive been dating a guy for six months, and im totally in love beyond belief. so was he. he went to camp and met a new girl that he likes and she likes him. he says he loves me. but notas much as before. he also said hes going on vacation to decide who hes going to choose. he mentioned as well, that if we got back together, he might do this again. omg, what should i do? just when i thought i was over him, i had a dream abouthim. im so lost (link)
This guy should be just as crazy about you as you are with him. If he can put girls above you that easy than you might want to have a talk with him or find someone else who is going to treat you like the wonderful person you are, no matter who likes him!




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