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okkk my friend was over and she is 12 and just started her period a day ago!.. and we went to the lake.. and she wore a pad!?!?! and it didnt leak!! why? thats wierd! and it was heavy!
it prolly was because her flow wasnt that heavy..you really DONT know unless its you. UmM..id definitally tell your friend if she wants to go swimming NOT to wear a pad! NOT safe..and it absorbs water and tonzz of BAD stuff!
ohhh my gaw guys im getting sooo annoyed...everytime im on advicenators it always comes up with this thing that says internet explorer has to close..its always been like that..but i was wondering if anyone elses does or if my computers just gay or what?!?!!
*jesikuh977
mine use to..i got a virus from aim its called spyware..its a virus i guess..get your computer rebooted..or if you dont wanna pay for that..do a scan disk and delete stuff and then disk defragmenter..((you cant be on ANY other program when this is running)) it works SO well tho!
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im a 14 year old female and well my best friend that i have known forever adn seh has been dating this guy for almost a year now and it seems like she is forgeting about me...she ditches me to hang out with him and when she doesnt do that she is always talking to him on the phone and never wants to hang out and even if i did i would have to wait till she was at hers dads house cas whens shes at her moms house she is either hanging out with him or talking to him i feel like i have to wait in line to hang out with her and its not fair to me or her boyfriend and i dont know how to bring it to her attention?
i think you should call her one time..and if shes on the phone with her bf..tell her you really need to talk to her ((see if she hangs up with him for you)) if she does..thats great! if she doesnt then you deff have a problem! anyways..call her up and be honest and nice about it just be like "Look ----, your my best friend...i really respect you being with ---- but you never have time to spend to hang out with me your always with him." act like your really upset about it..cuz it seams like you are!:( just tell her how it is! Ask her if you guys can hang out sometime soon so you can chat a little bit more. Just tell her how you feel..and how you dont liek how all her time is devoted to him! I hope this helps out a bit!
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whats that band that there nickname is A7X??
haha! I didnt know this one so i looked it up on google..it came back as the group "Avenged Seven Fold" hope that helps!
I was wondering if there was any way that you can see who rated you and what they rated you. I appreciate the help! And if you just want to drop in and answer this to say hello that's great too! I rate.. specially for nice people =c)
Love, RacheL
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When people ask you a question, and you answer it will appear in your advice collum! In there somewhere it says Read Feedback..then it will bring u to a new page that has what ppl rated you. you can click on their rating to see what question it was they asked.
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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked y he even bothered to ask me out if he felt like that nd he said "i wanted to at the time, but i think i wanna get to know you better" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..
Naw..im sure he definitally likes you! Its just guys work in a strange way..they talk before they think..they really needta get their act together hua? haha! But anyways..yah, im sure he likes you..especially after waving and being nice to you about the whole situation! Just go along with the whole getting to know eachother. Ask him to call you or talk on aol//aim so you two can get to know eachother..play a game of 20 questions!:) Its kinda fun..you really get to know eachother that way! Just hang out with him out of school aswell..Invite him over or go to the movies!:) Have fun with it! Dont get all tense! hehe! But im sure you two will end up together in the end..you just have to give him time!! if he gives you TOO much time..then you should start questioning it! ((a month or two..is too much time!))
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What does it feel like to give head? I was just wondering, because my boyfriend asked me to give him head, but I want to know what it is like first. Please help me out!
Dont give him head unless you really want to! Id advise you to ask him to push you away when he is about to cum..((ive hear it tastes NASTY!!!)) but it doesnt really feel like anything that bad..it feels like..idk? haha! its hard to xplain! but dont do it unless you feel comfortable doing it!
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i have a 14g in my ear now, i want to go to a 6g does anyone have any advice for gauging my ears or cartilage??
ive heard..that u need to slowly progress..idk how they run ((im not into that)) go from 14 to 13..or w/e comes next..do it slowly! cuz if you do it too fast it will hurt SOO badly, bleed and possibly get infected because its not use to it. My friend it took about 3 months to go from 14-6..he waited about a week for each..until he reached where he wanted it!
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I am always seeing people wearing Livestrong bracelets. I understand it is for a good cause and I would like to purchase one but where would I go to get one? What store has them?
all nike stores and outlets..simply because they are becuase of cancer patients and all the money goes to them!! its a HUGEEEEE help!!
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Hey, this is really great, and i to help out with advice. i was wondering... is there any way i could make my own? like seperate from this... my ?
thanks!
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yah make your own advice collum! just sign up!:) if you need help with a layout..then just IM me!:) my sn is SiLenTxfAiRy!:) its pretty easy!
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ok well i cut and stuff but i really want to tell my mom about it because i meen i want to get help but i just was wondering like how could i like talk to her about it? me and my mom are like really close and stuff but i think it would like kill her! should i tell her or no?
well..how i told my mom when i did it was i showed her..didnt say a word just showed her. and she got the point and got me help! thank god she did!!:) im really..REALLY happy you want to get help about it! its the right thing to do! my mom cried about it..and i felt horrible which made me stop aswell..to see your mom cry is so horrible!:( but..she needs to know
((tell me how things work out!))
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Hey i'm not allowed to get a tattoo, so i really want to get a henna. where can i get a really good henna kit, thats not expensive?
thanks.
wally world! ((wal*mart)) they have some good ones..itll prolly cost you like 10-20 bucks..not bad! there are also TONZ of places along the beach or pier if you have one near you that will do a great job for about 10 bucks!
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Just wondering, what is the best brand of contacts and can you use them underwater? (like diving into 12 ft)
their reallie arent ANY contacts that are good for water cuz they all can fall out. I use acuvive ((sry about the spelling)) and they work pretty good! idk about water though..your best bet if you want to wear them underwater is to ask your doctor. if you have a mask on to protect your eyes from water then im sure any brand will be fine!
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okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop
tell her that you cant ditch her since shes not around~ its not your fault you have a life other then her. just tell her flat out how you feel without being rude ((cuz im sure you dont want to loose her as a friend
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i have this boyfriend. but hes black. i really really like him and we`ve been on and off for like a while now im just afraid my family wont approve..they arent racist they jus dont exactly approve of this kind of thing maybe because the only black man brought into out family happened to be involved with drugs and violence pleasee help me i dont want to listen to my family bcause i care for him so much isnt that what counts?
Definitally tell your mom that you have been with someone of diffrent race. If you really care about him then it doesnt matter what color, height, weight, or anything he is or may not be! Be truthful..and if they are going to be all racist on you be sure to speak your mind and tell them hes not like that and you really care about him! Get to know him before judging him!
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OK When I was about 14 my mom told me that when I wanted to go on birth control that all I had to do was ask her about it. Well its been over a year and I dont know how to bring it up. We're not really that cloce. She meant when I'm 'in love' and I want to do it with that special person. Well thats kinda not the deal rite now I'm not in love at all. I dont even have a bf. But I want to go on it .. how do I ask her ? I cant just bring it up out of nowhere..
Umm..there is no reason to go on birth control if you havent had sex or isnt even thinking about it. Really!! Its just kinda an added hastle to take it. When your thinking about having sex that is when you should ask her about it, just casually say something about it! She'll get the hint!
If you say I don't kiss and tell are you saying I don't kiss a person and then tell if they were a good kisser or I don't tell who I kissed?
Also, i've heard the saying preaching to the choir a whole lot...what does it mean?
If you can answer only one it's fine. Just need this to clear up a little confusion!
"I dont kiss and tell" that means after a kiss that person doesnt go about and blab on if he/she was a good kisser aswell as that they kissed them. Keep your lips sealed! Kisses are suppose to be secret in their own way!:)
Preaching to a choir..ive always thought that meant dont announce yourself and problems to everyone..but im not too sure about that one!
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the first day of school is coming up and i really want to be noticed. i hav some new clothes and i got a haircut but mostly i want to change my mkae up application slightly so that people will look at my eyes. I have greenish-hazel eyes and i really wanna draw attention to them. so my question is how to make my eys stand out and make people think, "who's that girl?"
Also im gonna be an eigth grader so i dont wnat to do somethign TOO dramatic.
well..in 8th grade that year was ah huge change for me!:) start out with your clothes..pick out the outfit you like the most!!:) as for makeup and eyes..use coverup, it will make your skin look more darker aswell as smooth and natural (even tho natural is not using anything! haha! newayz!) use a little bit of blush on your cheeks...(dont use the RED blush thats too much! there are blushs out there that match your skin tone) apply that gently! dont use TOO much!! next..find an eye liner that matches your eyebrows..then use that to go along the bottom of your eye. It gives it a dramatic effect! next use either eye shadow or another eye liner on the top part of your eye!:)
if you need any more ideas..look into YM or teen people, they always have makeup tips!
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uhmm..ok...this guy (that iz my frend) asked me out a lot but everytime i give him some sort of excuse. This past time it was cuz of skewl. Now i like this guy n i wanna go out with him but i cant say yes 2 cuz then the 1st guy will kno that i lied n that i just dont wanna go out with him! i kant b mean! Help me pleeeez!
Its not being mean..if you really want to be with the 2nd guy then be with him. the 1st guy should get the hint that you dont like him and kinda had to lie to him about it. he should have gotten the point that you didnt want to be with him the first time! dont lie to yourself and not be with the guy you like because of the other guy that is kinda stalking you! haha!
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i was at my friends house with a bunch of other friends and we got drunk. the whole night i was hanging all over the kid i liked ( who happens to be a good friend) and i refused to talk to anyone besides him. i tried to kiss him when i was drunk but he wouldnt kiss me. does that mean anything besides he only likes me as a friend?
No that doesnt really mean anything other then he held enough common sence, aswell as respect for you not to kiss you when you were drunk. It doesnt mean he doesnt like you, it means he wasnt about to take advantage of a drunk girl! It shows that he REALLY respects you!
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