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i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?

13/f

Try to make you own guy friends instead of hanging out with theirs. Be more assertive when you arent with your friends then you will get to know guys that they dont know.Good luck and i hope i helped :-)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas?

hehe...you can have so much fun with this. Just be like.. "ok...? do you want a cookie or something for being so perfect?" or "and i care why?" Thats what i do. I cant preplan an insult, but those are just some basic comebacks that you can use a lot. HAVE FUN!
~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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I want to get rid of the hair on my upper lip. I don't want to get it professionally done, I want to do it myself. What should I try to remove it (I don't want to use a razor).

hm...well you can use this stuff called Nair. Or you can bleach it. Nair would be your best bet if you want to get rid of it.

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i REALLY like this guy...but im not sure if he likes me ... he flirts with me ..alot..but then not alot if you understand that ..but also i just really wanna know who he likes..but since he knows that i like him i dont wanna ask him ..wat do i do?!..also he is like dropping signs ((i think and my best friend thinks)) that he likes me ....i cant really explain the signes but yeah..wat should i do?

Well, since he knows that you like him he either a. doesnt like you (sorry) or b. is too chicken to ask ya out (i know a TON of guys like that, lol) But if he likes you just wait it out and dont worry. And if you want to know who he likes get a friend to ask. or something...i dunno, thats a thoughy. Good luck, i hope i helped a little :-)

~*~*~LoLo2454~*~*~

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ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks!

Lol. aw! That's so cute! He likes you too chica! He put his number on your phone as an invite to call him to hangout sometime. CALL HIM!!! :-D GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN ;-)
~*~*~LoLo2454~*~*~

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Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love?

Of course. Puppy love doesnt actually mean for younger people. It is just the love you have for someone when you start out a relationship. Hope I helped :-)
~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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How do you know when your in love?

You just know...you cant be away from them for 5 seconds and when you are in their arms you feel likes you can defeat the world. and when they kiss you...its like you are locked in time forever...but thats just ok with you.

I leave you with one warning...be careful with love...Its wonderful to be apart of...but it hurts when it ends.

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Ok, theres this guy who is my friend and who has been hanging around me but like in a wierd way. He gives me "happy embarassed" looks and likes to sit by me at lunch. My friend told me she thought he liked me, but he denied it. Do you there is any possible way that he really does like me. I really need to figure this out. Please help.

PS. He also flirts with me alot alot alot!!!!

OMG YES! he totally likes you ;-) Go for him! Thats so adorable how he always wants to sit next to you. and the "happy embarassed" looks are always good. It means he is really interested.

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freshman/m i like this girl, but i can't really see us goin out. my friend also likes the same girl. i asked one of my female friends how i could get to know the girl better without being too obvious and she sed to "write her a note and say hey and stuff." but don't u think if i "write her a note just sayin hey and stuff" she will think somethings goin on? i'm not sure i want to let her know that i like her just yet. is there any other way? thx

No worries, happens all the time. If i were you i wouldnt write a note. I am a girl and if a guy friend wrote me a note i would def. get the vibe that he likes me. Just talk with her more often. Be flirty. Be touchy feely. Not to the point where you are practically raping her (lol) but so she gets the hint that you are interested. Good luck! Hope it turns out for the best :-)

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ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???

Dont worry about what other people think! Which is more important? Your friends LIFE? Or your reputation? Its no contest for me...

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I have these dark circles under my eyes. They're huge though, and I can't cover it with makeup! They go from my nose (by my eyes), and go down in a round motion (which lines up with the end of my nose). They fade as they go down. How do I get rid of it??

Hun, there is only one way to get rid of it...SLEEEP! I had the same problem. I had huge rings under my eyes and everyone noticed it no matter what i did. It was because of my lack of sleep (i always stayed up late talking to my friends on the phone or finishing my hw that i slacked off doing). The only thing i could do was to do those things earlier in the day and sleep as much as possible. or it could be a cause of stress. Just try relaxing. now, i may be way off with my answer but thats how i solved it. GOOD LUCK! :-)

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ok so lately all ive felt like doing is crying whenever someone says something to me i wanna cry even if its nice and im always yelling at my mom n my sister just so they leave me alone and i get annoyed by the easiest things.and my sister is MR(mentally retarded) n she gets on my nerves sooo bad cuz she doesnt know when to shutup! i hate being mean to her! n like yesterday we were out and these 3 guys were making fun of her and i just went off on them i dunno what happened it just came outta the middle of nowhere. i get pissed off so easily..but i never used to be like that.ive been sleeping alot n being really tired.Whats wrong wit me? i rate high! thanx!

Hey, this happens to a lot of girls (i am asuming you are a girl...sorry if you arent). My answer really depends on what your age is and if you have hit puberty yet (an embarressing topic for all girls). When i hit it i blew up at every little thing. Even when someone tried to crack a joke that wasnt funny i called them a moron and just walked away. But it just turned out i hit puberty. also when you get older for some odd reason sleeping in is the best thing in the world and the only thing you want to do is sleep. this is because you are changing a lot in this stage in your life and stress is causing a lot so sleep is good. This is nothing to worry about at all. Good luck with everything, and dont worry.

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I'm in the same situation as the girl who asked the first question. But, I don't sit near the guy i like, all i can do is "admire from a distance" so to speak. And in the afterschool activity that we're both in, some people know that i like him. Apparently it's obvious to everyone but the guy. So it's kind of hard for me to not look all desperate to those people and still be near the guy and talk to him. I usually don't care about what people think but...I also don't want it to be obvious. Any ideas on how to strike up a conversation from across the room? Or even on how to walk up and start a conversation without getting one of those infamous "What are you doing?" looks that guys sometimes give? Thnks

Here's what you can do... You can flirt with him (somewhat) after school in your activity thingy. Then you can play hard to get ;-) So it leaves him wanting more. And it will make him more interested. Most guys like mysteries girls, leaves 'em hangin. Plus playing hard to get will make it less obvious that you like him to everyone else. Hehe, good luck!

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Alright, let me be the first to ask for advice...or one of the first. I'm 15 and a chick and I really like this guy. I kinda feel like we should or could be a little closer. I'm in a couple of the same activities as he is so hey, i have the opportunities...I just get shy and weird and I don't talk much. but I guess that's because I'm not sure of what to talk about. Any Ideas? And Hey, I'm kinda curious...what do you think are some signs that guys give girls when they like a girl?

Heck, I have the exact same problems. I get nervous around guys i like a LOT. So you're not the only one. First off, some signs that a guy likes you would be major flirting (of course). Or always coming to talk to you when you are in the room, or catching him staring at you. But, if he doesnt like you yet, you can always make him like you. Take advantage of the fact that you have classes together! Make small talk like the assignments you had and then build off of that conversation. I know that might not be the best advice, but it sure works for me :-) Good luck! I hope I helped.

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