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i CANNOT tell if my best guy friend is gay or not..he talks TOTALLY valley girlish and has a totally girly voice and walks like a girl and acts realli girly...but he says hes not..he had a gf tho but still.. then we went to dinner the other night and we had a gay waitor and somehow we became really comfortable with him and starting talkin wit him and making jokes..and my best guy friend was kinda checkin him out and tellin us to talk to him..the waitor was 20 and my friend was like tell him im 19 n stuff...i dunnnnooo what do u guyz think?

Your friend is probably gay but just isn't ready to come out. He needs to feel very comfortable so don't pressure him into telling you just let him take his time and when he is ready to come out he will

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i used to b 5'5 107 but the i got on a travel soccer team and i eat a LITTLE less junk food (didnt each that much b4 newayz) and weight is literally falling off of me. now i weigh 102. wth? i was already skinny y am i losing weight

Your losing weight bc your on the soccer team and your active and buring off all the calories that you take in plus some more

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whats a handjob n how do u do it to a guy? whats fingering n how does a guy do it to u?

a HJ is when you masturbate for the guy. You do this by rubbing the end of it and taking your index and middle fingers and making a V with them and rub that up down the guy. also while doing that take your other hand and make a fist and massage between the balls and dick. There is sooo many ways to do it but mainly just massage and rub it. And for fingering its when the guy or girl the rubs your clit and sticks their fingers inside you.

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whats the best way to stuff...to make it look like ur boobies are bigger when they really arent?

water bras, push ups, and padded bras

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My boyfriend told me that, when you have sex your first time, there's no way to get pregnant.

I can't remember -exactly- how he explained it but it has to do with a certain thing, that cannot be penetrated by sperm, coating the male organ. And this -only- happens when a girl has sex the first time.

Is that true? Or is it equally possible to get pregnant when you have sex for the first time?

it is equally possible to get pregnant the first time you have sex with the 100th time you have sex.

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Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore, because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy?

nothing is wrong with you at all for stopping him. And if he doesn't like you anymore bc of that then its a good thing that you stopped him b4 anything else happended

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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!

Kati

Don't worry if you haven't kissed a boy yet. You don't want to remember having your first kiss with some random dude. Also find a boy who is understanding about your fear and everything should go right. Good Luck

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IM moving to newton, MA (near boston) form tx and i dont know anyone. if anyones is in the area or knows so one in the area to just talk to online tell me cause i need a friend
anyone live around there and wanna talk?

thanks

I live kinda near Newton,Billerica to be exact. Massachusetts isn't too bad. But if you have any questions about the area just ask me either on here on AIM.

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ok what if you were doing the dishes and you put your hands under the water after and then dried them off then you fingered yourself are you gonna get a disease?

you might bc the water might have bacteria in it so after you get done the dishes and wash your hands with antibacterial soap to get rid of anything that might be on ur hands

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I hear all these 13 and 14 year olds asking about sex and i am 13/f (almost 14) and i think they are too young but i kinda feel weird cause i am still prude. i dont understand y they wanna do it with all them std's and stuff out there arent they worried? cause i know that condoms dont protect you from std's and sometimes not pregnancy. well i was just wondering... does anyone feel the same way i do?

ok first condoms made of rubber do protect from STD's, preganancy and HIV its the sheep-skin ones that don't protect you from STD's or HIV only preganancy. and yes 13-14 is wayyyyy to young to be having sex. Your body isn't even done growing. Why have sex that young?? So don't worry if your still a virgin you have your whole life to have sex.

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wuts the best way to get over someone uve loved for just about a year...???

find someone new and find a way to get really busy so you won't have time to think of them

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how do you get the absolute freshest breath for like, the whole day? im tired of having bad breath after lunch and stupid things that shouldnt even cause me to get stinky breath. any products? like: gum, toothpaste, mouthwash, toothbrushes, methods of cleaning, mints, etc!

those Listerine Pocketpacks. Also chew on that Altoid Gum its soooo good

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i was jsut wondering if a girl masturbating is gross or is it heathy or what!?!?

its perfectly healthy and normal

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hi. im a model and im very thin. im about 5'6 and only 98 pounds (good matobolism, im not anerexic) and everyone thinks im anerexic, and i dont really care. the only thing is theres this fat girl who tortures me. shes ALWAYS calling me anerexic girl n anerexic n stuff. she even writes it on my stuff when im not looking. i no shes jealous but its so annoying!! what should i do! shes even threatening to come to my modeling shoots! :( ahh

wow that girl needs a life. She's sooo jealous of you. In middle school whenever this girl would get mad at me she would say well I'm least i'm not a fucking skinny minnie and anerexic. I was probably around your weight but a little shorter. So the next time this girl starts with you just ignore it. And if she shows up at your modeling shoots she could get arrested for stalking and also if its really bad tell like your teachers or something bc it is harressement

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can you have sex while your on your period?

yes but its kinda gross to have sex while on your period

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Does anyone know what kina of pills make people feel high or halucinate when u take more than ur sopposed to?????

adderall, ritalin, and some other ones I forget tho

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What is a uti? and how do you know if you have one? write me back..

Urinary Tract Infection

its basically when E.Coli get in ur Urinary tract. You can tell if you have one if you feel a burning sensation when you go pee, also you will feel like you have to go very often but barely anything comes out. You have to go to a DR. to get treated. They will give you antibotics

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know a good site where it doesnt cost anything and u can like put ur pictures on there?

webshots

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Does ne1 know how to make razor burn go away... i have been shavin since i was leik 8 and i just started to get razor burn really bad on my legs everytitme i shave it started liek a month ago...and i use shaving cream, new razor and everything but idk ive tried everything and it hurts, burns and itches so0o0o bad!! i shave my arms and other places to but i dont get razor burn at all just my legs!! ive tried everything water, ice, dry shaving, shavin with every razor and shavin cream there is, razorless shavin, intution, hair conditionar, soap, shampoo, baby soap, everything... guys aftershave girls aftershave...everyhting... can ne1 help me on this... liek how to make it stop or wat to use leika razor or sumn!! PLEASE HELP IT HURTS!! ( only on my legs tho) thnk u!!

Did you try a different brand of razors?? Because I know some have different nyumber of blades, some have 2 and some have like 4. The more you use the worse the burn can be. Not all hair on your body is the same. So if that doesn't work I don't know what to say but I hope I helped

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