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I know that being religious is good and stuff but my mom is forcing me to do communion. But she isnt forcing my older sister! It makes me so mad that i have no choice and she does. I am the middle child so i usually get treated like this. I want it to be my decision if i want to do communion or not becuz i dont like feeling that im forced to do something. Plus our family never goes to church so it doesnt make any sense. She is gonna sign me up next year to go ther on monday nights but im gonna be in ninth grade and it will probably interfere with school and i wont be able to get my hw done. Can someone please help me get my mom to her senses?
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heyy .. just sit her down and explain to her that you do not feel that making your commuion is her descision and you think it should be yours and that religion is something serious and you should not be forced into it

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Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
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heyy .. you could try maybelline, mac, covergirl,or marykay they are all good and you should apply more makeup and carry your makeup to school in a backpack or hangbag you could also keep it in your locker

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My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore. (link)
heyy .. uhh the best thing to do would be to tell her because chances are there will be a time where she suggests or asks you to wear those earrings and you will not have them she is going to find out anyways so just tell her and that your really really sorry

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I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =) (link)
heyy .. umm im not sure what song you are looking for about trick daddy but i know a good song that is never by him its call sugar and another good song is back in the club by mashonda

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hi this mite be really weird, im dyslexic and im in my final year, my computer teacher is always really nice and knows what to say when my confidense is low if i cant do sumething,the thing is his wife was in a car crash so he hasnt been in, and ive really missed the attention that he usully gives me. its nothing like sexual atraction.. he leavin at the end of this yaer and i dont know if it the attention im missing or him?
if its the attention how can i stop being so stupid?
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heyy .. forget about the attention and just get close to the teacher who is subbing and then when he gets back everthing will be alright

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i don't know if i'm bi or not. i like guys but lately i've been attracted to girls too. i found out this girl was bi and now i'm really attracted to her and i like alot of other girls. but not just any girl, i only like really pretty girls. i don't want to be bi and i defnately can't tell anyone, that's not even an option so don't bring that up. so am i bi? tell me more about this. (link)
heyy .. im not sure if you are bi but its totally normal to find girls attractive because you think there pretty its okay and if you are bi then thats okay also

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idk wat to write exactly but theres this guy in my school and hes a couple years older then me but i think he likes me like once he asked for my number but his friend distracted him or soemthing but idk if he does or not but i wanna say something caz idk if it will go anywhere if i dont but im not good with first moves, any advice? (link)
heyy .. have a friend tell the guy you look that you like him or like ask him to be your tutor and for homework help and then give him your number and say its because he might have to re-schudale a tutroing session with you even tho its really not

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this might seem a little gross but, i was wondering what is a discharge? and what is too much? if someoen was getting it for about 2 years shouldnt they get their period by now? arent you supposed to get it soon when you have that? -- thanks (link)
heyy .. no your not supposed to get your peroid after you start getting discharge and dischrage is this clear substince that looks sorta like condictioner and i have discharge for about as long as you and still haevnt gotten my peroid yet either so its complety normal

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my friend called and asked me for a blank Cd and I told her I can't get her one b/c they are my brothers.She kept saying 'oh just ask him' so I said 'i can't, because i had my other friend over and we were watching a movie`I am constantly giving her stuff.i'm not even kidding. I give her clothes,i bought her lunch today(didnt even ask her to pay me back!)when i told her i couldnt she's like 'ok, whatever bye'i thought that was really rude.when people say the word 'whatever' to me i find it offensive and she hung up on me.what should i do? i did nothing wrong and just stuck up for myself... (link)
heyy .. dont let her bother you its not your fault and tell her that your not going to supply her eeds anymore its not your job its her parents job and continue sticking up for yourself

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ok so i really like this guy and we went out once for 3 days but i have been trying for him for 2 years.He dumped me because he liked this other girl and they went out. He knows i like him and still does and yetserday his gf broke up with him. He seems happy and all and he has really been talking to me. does he like me, what should i do. please help me. And he told my friend that he was bi so i really don't know what to do now but i REALLY LIKE HIM!!! (link)
heyy .. i dont know if he likes you or if he is really bi the only way you can find that out is by just simply asking him just try that out and tell him you like him or ahve a friend tell him

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i am like deadly obsessed with the tv show the oc. tonight it said on my tv guide that it was coming on(like it does every thursday) but it didnt and this president bush thing did. did this happen to anyone else? whats up with it will it b reschedualed? please answer this is an emergancy!!! (link)
heyyy .. same thing happened to me with a differnet show and mine came on after the bush thing so yours might too

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Well i was on the bus...and 5 of my friends and i got put up front split away from each other...and i was not even doing anything!!! please help me!!! i do not want another detention for sumthing that i didn't even do again!!!! (link)
heyy .. umm i think you could have figured this out yourself dont do anything against the rules and you wont get in trouble

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ok..i'm definetly not sexually active but when i was little i didnt know better and im a girl but i kinda had sex with a girl.I'm straight but I was only about 7 when it happened.I'm 14 now so how would I know if i got HIV or something? Would I know by now? (link)
heyy .. i dont know really what to tell you except go to www.teentone.com and try to find something about it there sorry i couldnt help much

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I'm new this year at my private school, and it's really strict! I mean, REALLY strict. Anyway, every year they have a picnic at the park, with water balloons and good food. (Finally! A time to dress casual at school!) but I just found out that girls have to wear skirts...at a picnic?! I don't know what to wear when I go, and how I can stay comfortable and look good too. It also has to be something I can get dirty because we're gonna have water guns and stuff. If you have a sollution on where to shop, thanks!
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heyy .. umm kohls and target have cute skirts and if you want comfort you could try a skort which is a pair of shorts under the skirt if you didnt know

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>on first I wont tell you that I'm from Poland and my english is quite good (link)
heyy .. who cares dont chnage for anyone try to have your friends get into the certain stuff you like and maybe then you will blend in better

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Alright I am 14 and have been going to my church youth group for about two years now. Luke .. My pastors son. He is 16 and totally cute! And I would love fer me and him to be friends. I would call us friends now, but we make fun of eachother alot. But I wanted to see if anyone can help me find a way to talk to him. I tried to tell him straight out i liked him. But he hates when girls do that. Thanks for the help. (link)
heyy .. just keep it as a cool friendship for now and then in like a week or two start flirting alot with your eyes and cute smiles and always look really good and if that doesnt wokr just ask a friend to tell him he heard that you liked him and then he will probably ask you

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Is it at all possible to loose muscle without turning it into fat? Ive played softball most of my like so Im pretty muscular. Not disgustingly muscular. It looks like fat sometimes even though its not. If there is a way, how? Thanks in advance. (link)
heyy .. i dont know but like the other advicenator said go to www.toneteen.com and search there it is the best way

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I just got started this break with my girlfriend and the advise i've gotten is that shes bored, shes unsure, shes unfaithful, but what i want to know is what should i do forget her or try to win her back over the guy she wants to date last time i was able to do just that. but know i just don't know, i trully love her with a my heart. OR should i just forget about her and how should i go about doing this all? (link)
heyy .. dont win her over if she is bored with you then why stay with her just forget about her there are plenty of other girls that wont be bored with you and if you try to win her over and do she will always still like the other guy

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there is this boy i like him but of course my luck he has a girlfriend my friend said that he likes me and he lied to his gf to talk to me on the phone because shes very paranoid and dosent trust him at all. what should i do? should i act on the opertunity because we like each other or just leave him alone? (link)
heyy .. just leave him alone at least until he breaks up with his girlfriend dont get involed in there little fling/relationship it was just cause fights and if he really likes you he will break up with the other girl and thats when you can make the move to go to him

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is it possible to gain breast tissue through pills or creams (link)
heyy .. yes there is pills creams that would help you but i wouldnt use them your breasts will groww sonn enough dont worry but if your really into it i guess you could try the pills and there are also shots to make hem bigger too

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