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Jazzy**

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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him

y are you scared and if he leave you bc u wont get close you dont need him .

Jazzy**

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Okay here is my story ...

I'm 23 and I live with my bf ...I never had a real bf before so all this is kinda new for me..

I did'nt know what sex was and he taught me ..everything was going great but I still hold back ..he does a great job ..he turns me on and everything..I feel great when we have sex but my problem is I don't feel the need to do sex although it's great ..I just never ask him to do sex he is the one who always has to ask ..I never do it or sometimes I just don't feel like it

Last night I asked him how he thinks our sex life is going ..he said to me that it was going great but that I have to do more..... like ask him more often to have sex ..losen up more etc etc

Help me I don't want to lose this guy he is the best but I cann't help it ..whatever I do I keep holding back .,.....

I don't have nobody to talk to ...My mom left us sins we were 12 so as you understand sins than I have been anwsering my own questions but this is one question I can't answer that's why I need help.....

thx

hi im much younger than you but girls usually hold back when their not that confident in what their doing so next time just have confidence in yourself no matter what you do your bf will love it you can do it . you got this

Jazzy**

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I have been with my boyfriend for a year but we have been sexually active for three months. He broke my virginity. And he takes care of me so I won't have to work and quit school. But his sex is very aggressive and I really don't like it most of the time. He even freaks me out by some of the things he tells me. Like he is going to let his boys get some of me and stuff like that. What should I do. I love him and he takes care of me. I don't have anyone else but him what should I do???????????????????????

if you love him dont let him go just yet sit down face to face and tell him how you feel about everything if he love you he should understand

Jazzy**

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ohkay.. well my "best friend" since 5th gradee me and her have been fighting likee crzy this WHOLE YEAR over everything and i can never hang out with like other people unless she gets mad and "cries" and then won't talk to me and thne makes me feel like crap the rest of the dayy and then ughh it makes me soo madd && so idk what to do b/c shes just not nice to mee && it dosn't help that i'm in every noe of her classes this year so idk what to do and i need help!!

- confused

hey confused if she was your friend y would she treat you like crap have a nice long talk with her or write a letter if she's really your friend she should be able to see where your coming from and you can see how she feel hope it works

Jazzy**

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PLEASE READ. need adive now. =DD

background info:13.f -- alright so i have a really good best friend who ive known since kindergarten. (amanda) she considers all the people who sit at our lunch table to be her 'best friends'. but they're all quite annoyed by her. We had a chat about her, and she never gets invited anywhere, and while i admit that i was part of those things -- i hated it. so my other best friend was having a 'party' this weekend, and amanda figured, "oh ill be invited," and when she wasnt she asked me if my other best friend still liked her.

& what was i supposed to do? If someone didnt like me id want to know. so, i told her. and she got really upset and started to cry. and she decided to corner my other best friend and ask about everything. I asked her to say i hadn't told her -- but she did.

So my other best friend did what she always does, and denied everything, the chat, parties, behind back talking -- everything. And amanda being who she is, forgave her without even an explanation.

I got back from school that day and signed online and my other best friend was reall p/oed. she kept yelling, 'ew' at me. and saying things like, 'you screwed yourself over more than you did me' and then stated she didnt want to be my friend anymore. So tell, me -- how am i screwing her over by telling someone SHE DOESNT LIKE, thats she doesnt like her?

Being in seventh grade, theres drama. its funny how many people hate my other best friend. You love her or you hate her.and up till this point, id pretty much been her follower. and then she jujst makes everything more confusing by putting amanda on her away message. why would she do that if she hates her? trust me, she hates her.

and during the im conversation, i said i was sorry a million times. because i hate getting into fights especially with this one friend. she freaked out even more. and was being quite a bitch. so of course, things work out really crappy. shes not mad at amanda, but now she says im not even her friend. i didnt go to lunch yesterday becuase i had no place to sit, so i stood out by my locker the whole time. Its almost my birthday and it'd be a sucky present to lose who ive considered one of my best friends.

Help? adive -- opinions? please. ill rate 5s for any help if you bothered reading this thing. xx

hey i understand that you dont want to lose your bestfriend but is a bestfriend. bestfriends dont just through away thier relationship over something that can be worked out and if yall are really bestfriends everything will work it self out so have faith.


Jazzy**

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Is giving a handjob to your boyfriend considered a sin?

NO NO i dont believe it is and it's really up to you to decide. you do what you believe in

Jazzy**

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15/f, so there is this guy friends that i like and i am pretty sure that he is interested in me, we talk all of the time and other stuff as well. the problem is that i'll put my head on his shoulder, and i have several times, and he will lean into it as well, but he won't ever initiate anything, like arm around the shoulder or holding hands. i am going to a movie and later next week a play, and also a ballgame with him and friends. is there anything that i can do then or now that lets him know that i am interested, and i want him to take some more initiative that wont be too awkward?

hey im going through the same thing right now the only thing you can do is just sit back and wait to he's ready to make a move. you never want to put any pressure on them so just wait he'll come around. i'll be waiting to so let me know what happen with you.

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