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Ok my friend Terry (26) and I (23) are always very flirtatious, but really good friends too. And yes I do have a crush on him. We have been friends for a few years. I always catch him staring at me and when he realizes I catch him he just smiles because he loves it when I catch him. Like when I sit in a skirt he shakes his head and just says stuff like "Err that's not fair." like when we are at karaoke or watching a movie. He is always wanting to get caught doing something. and that is one thing that is exhilarating to me. Well with all our flirting we have gotten a little touchy lately. The other night we were watching a movie with some friends and we were cuddled up (like usual) with him laying across me on the couch. Our other friends fell asleep, I was massaging little parts his back and head, and he started slowly tickling my legs that he had been resting on. well..... it got a little further with him rubbing inside my legs tickling me and he… starting rubbing my clit. it was feeling really good until he tried fingering me. It just did not feel right and I told him not to do that. And he understood and stopped. I don’t want to hear that he was taking advantage of me because I could have stopped him sooner, and if he was he could have kept going. Now…I am a virgin and he does now that. We are both celibate ( we don’t have sex with anyone, for those of you who don’t know) and respect each other. It is just the way we are. Now is it normal that I don’t like it when he is trying to penetrate me with his finger? It just doesn’t feel good. Makes me queasy. I don’t like that I don’t like it because I want it to feel good. Also do you think this well effect our friendship? Also I have been trying to come up with some icebreakers how I can talk to him about this, Anything anyone can help me with would be great (link)
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It is not bad of you to feel that way! He obviously likes you all you guys need to do now is start dating. If sex is that important to you I don't blame you for thinking that because you probably feel like you guys should have the title of gf and bf before that can happen because you are worried it will hurt your relationship. I have been with my fiance for 2 and a half years and we were friends first and I have to tell you that is always the best relationship. You already know each other and hopefully being together will make your friendship grow even more. If you do start dating and decide that you actually don't like him that way, stop it before it gets to far and ruins the friendship.
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i'm doing a project on the first amendment. it has to be 3D and relate to my amendment.
my amendment consists of
freedom of speech
freedom of religion
freedom to petition
freedom of press, etc.
(there is one more i cant think of right now)
i have no idea what 3D object to do and how to go about doing my project, help!! (link)
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I agree with Linda. Another idea could be a diorama of Martin Luther King jr's speech. i think that would be a little difficult but really cool and would make a great impact.
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so jen and i have been friends since like 1st grade, not best friends just friends. then in middle school 6th and 7th grade we didnt really talk but we were still okay friends. 8th grade we had a few classes together and we became good friends. we sat together with morgan kelley and gina and the "lunch crew" had fun. we were all good friends except for jen and gina, jen didnt like gina for stupid reasons and eventually once high school came kelley kinda dropped out from my social life and now recently gina did. morgan doesnt like me but she is best friends with jen. well my best friend is abbie and abbie and i have only been best friends since 6th grade(were freshman now) we did everything together and everyone knew we were besties. all of us abbie,jen,morgan,and kelley were friends. (actually in 7th grade abbie and i didnt talk for a long time and abbie and morgan became besties) (morgan and kelley are besties andhave been for like ever) so kelley aand morgan are out of my life and i dont care. now i have abbie and jen. abbie and jen liked eachother but like i said about jen, shes very speaks her mind and very honest. and something about jen abbie doesnt like. i understand but shes still my best friend. i want a group of friends, so i know there is always somone to talk to and something to do. i dont wanna leave abbie or jen though because like jen really cant be serious and always makes me laugh but we think she has some form of bipolar disorder seriously. she can change from happy and kidding around to like total bitch telling me off in like 2 seconds. but im used to it but abbie on the other hand, i dont find as naturally funny as jen, abbie i feel tries to be funny and its not but shes an awesome friend most of the time. i just want them to be besties along with me so we could all hang out and have fun. if that cant happen, i would probably go to abbie and her friends and maybe we could be a little group. okay my point is how can i get my friends into one big group (even if they have nothing against eachother, how could i get them from the point of just knowing eachother to being besties and hangin out) ( cause i have single friends from different well not cliques but like groups of people (not like one from emo and one from athletic players then a geeky one) we are all basically of the same popularity just not friends(we have a graduating class of 600 so its hard to be friends with everyone and get to know everyone (link)
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I had this problem with my two best friends and honestly I don't think you can make that happen. My friends weren't exactly "friends" either because one of my friends was jealous of the time I was spending with the other. I left it alone I hung out with both of them separately and then they just started to become friends too. I think that you are putting too much emphasis on friends. Just your friends aren't all in one group doesn't mean you can't be friends with them. You don't need your own clique...just go with the flow. Maybe someday they will become friends.
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So this kid found out that i thought he was hot about a few months back. we never really talked in person but he asked me to hangout, but we never really did and stopped talking within like 2 weeks. (and he had a new girlfriend like the next day). Now, for about a little over a month, hes been talking to me again. and like aims me ALL the time and still wants to hangout and shit. i see him in school and smile and say hey whats up and stuff, but we dont really have time for conversations.
At first i thought he only wanted to like hookup, and i told him i was cool by that, but just tell me what he really wanted so i dont start liking him and get hurt. but it turned out he wants to date me.
However, he still trys to talk to sooo many other girls. so i dont know if hes only talking to me to get some because he cant find it anywhere else, even though he's trying so hard to talk to all these other girls?
im sooo confused. he seems really nice. i asked him why he wanted to date me if we could just hookup instead, and he said because "we have alot in common, get along great, and because hes really attracted to me". he said he "wants to do right by me" haha what does that mean?!
i have no clue how to take this, like, why is he still trying to talk to so many other girls then?
then i thought he might just be using me, because he thinks like im in the "in-crowd" and he has like no friends, soo i have no idea. what do you guys think? should we end up hanging out? or no? thanks! (link)
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Ok, it seems you already like him so hooking up just to hook up is the wrong thing to do. If he wants to date you tell him it's either now or never! He has to prove to you that he wants you and only you so he has to stop persueing other girls. Unless you don't care about that stuff but it seems like you do.
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