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I am 13 and latly i have been wanting sex but it is all so confusing!Is 13 to yong to have sex, and when does the bible say it is ok?Is masterbation a sin my friend said in the bible if forbids it, and is it ok if you already have done but you didn't know it was a sin at the time?Some people say that masterbation it totaly natural and other say it is sick and wrong and I don't know what to beleave >

Having sex at 13 is way to young.I'm close to your age and i admit i'm not goodyytwoshoes.When you get married your suppose to have sex its supposed to be special,not because your horny.And the girl below me is right god does say that.Sex is a SPEACIAL "rituale" for the married.You should probuly wait,especially there are aids and stuff and so many teenage pregancys.Dont have sex now youll regret it.
-Alex and kendra.

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Well, I am now dating this guy named Dane. He is one of the only guys I feel comfortable around, and he can make me laugh like no one else. But there is one huge problem...He is my best friend, Rachel's, ex boyfriend, and I am pretty sure she still likes him because she always appears to be upset whenever I talk about him or when I talk to him or smile at him. I don't know what to do, I don't know if I should break up with him or stay with him because the last thing I want to do is hurt anyone's feelings, and it's going to happen either way. Please help me.

If you feel comfortable around Dane then why should you break up with him because of your friend.Isnt that a little selfish on her part.
Rachel should realize that he likes you now,and that you like him alot.
-Alex and kendra

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Alright, well, I've never been kissed ( and I'm 15 ).

So I mean, I've been asked by guys ( which I find funny in some weird way and then just put it off ) because I guess I don't want my first kiss to be that way, and tonight I was asked again, and of course, me being me, I said no. And I'm just afraid that's giving guys vibes that I like, hate them or something which isn't true. I just want my first kiss to be special, but lately I'm just like,"God, do it, get it over with, whatever." But I don't know, I don't even really know what my real question is.


I guess I'm just asking for your opinion on things. Like; what would you do if you were me?

hey no I understand what your meaning by all of this,you want your first kiss to happen but you dont want it to be with just anybody.If you give it a chance then that guy that you want to be kissed by for the 1st time will come.
-Alex

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SO,I had a Halloween Party.
The person I like was there, I don't know him too well, but now I sure do. Whenever I used to see him & talk to him he would always be SUPER nice. Like, & i swear I knew he liked me, everyonee told me he even did. Anyways, at my party, I'd be talking to someone & he'd walk right in the middle of me & say.."move!" & then smile, even though i think he was kidding, it was kinda weird? I felt like he was trying to impress me, when he'd try to like pull my basketball hoop down, like he was strong or something. Then, I was like OH MY GOSH! don't you love my decorations?! & hes like yepp,, & then hed like rip one down & be like.."oh now what?! COME GET IT. SO i'd like start grabbing it & yanoo.. getting all like .. flirty? & such. Then when all of the girls were around his friend, he like started like pouting? It was weird. Then he would take pictures of me & be like, HA this is going on my myspace! & id be like talking, when hed take it & then he'd lay on my bed, & just look at me, because I was showing him my room. It was tottalyyy weird.

What was up with him?
Does he like me or hate me?

haha this is cute.
oviously he likes you,he was flirting

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how do i put a picture as my caption on myspace???

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Does anybody know where minimizing bras are sold in the NYC area? Thanks.

umm victoria secerts is in nyc.they sell almost every kind of bra.

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Hey guys I'm a 14/f,
So Im trying to decide whether I should date this guy. I have a crush on him and he likes me but he also dated my best friend. But the two major things that I'm having doubts about is that
1. my parents are really strict and its better just not to tell them that I'm dating someone. So I would have to sneak or lie.
2. lots of people dont like this guy and they say he is like an asshole. But the thing is that I think the only reason he does this is because he is insecure about himself and he is nice to me and my friends.
So should I date him? thnx so much!

hey
if you like him then it should matter what other people think,and your friend shouldnt really care unless she still likes him.And about your parents i wouldnt sneak and lie just dont tell them everything.
-Alex and kendra

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Hey! Well, I'm 14/f, like 118 lbs, 5'6, and am like a 34 or 36 A. I know that I fit into the clothes at Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Aeropostale, and Hollister, but I'm not sure if I fit into the clothes at abercrombie. So with the given information, can my size fit into clothes at abercrombie kids because I really like their clothes. Thanks! :)

hey yeah i'm 118 pounds and 5'6 and i can fit in abercrombie kids.Its just some of the stuff is a little short on me.But thats about it

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Hey. Well, I was wondering if Hollister was still selling tote bags in their stores because they dont have them on their website. Also, does Abercrombie & Fitch still sell those blue totes bags that say A&F on the side in stores because they don't have them on their website either. Thanks &

hellooo,hollister is there red,pink,blue,and white.And then A&f has new ones.
- Alex

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okay so me and my friends have this other, 'friend' andn we want to drop he like a hot potatoe. but its hard becasue she is like obsessed with us and she wont leave us alone. shes very stubborn and bitchy and we tried telling her but she denys it and continues to do it. she tries to hang out with us every weekend and we kinda just ignore. whats the right way of dropping her????
hurry

Hmm, this may sound wrong but treat her differently.
Treat her how she treats you and she wont want to be with you guys anymore.
Or show no intrest in her what so ever.
If the person is bringing you down and not making you happy, then deffinetly do it asap.
If she wants to hangout with you guys, just be like" well, we cant"
or something like that.
Make her not wanna be your friend and problem solved!
Also, avoid her if possible.
If you have anymore questions, ask!

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Well i like this new boy. and 1 of his friends told me he likes me. but i'm still not 100% sur. it seems lik he does but how do i really tell? and how do i talk to him without sounding lik a complete idiot? alex help!

You can't really tell if someone likes you unless there making it extreamly ovious.
If hes mature enough to handle it,just ask him if he likes you.If he says no and your still wondering just tell him how you feel.It might be akward at first but its nott the end of the world.Like Kendra and i always sayy you never know until you try something.
hope ive helped
annymore advice needed just ask.
- Alex

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theres this girl that is new this year and i like her i just dont know how to tell her n i think she likes another guy so i need help

Helloo, if she likes another guy theres nothing you can do,ha try winning her with your charm.
-Alex ( :

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Dear alex and kendra, you advice is really great so hopefully you can help me out with this.

Okay,

so i just recently met this kid, he is a grade above me.i think hes a really cool person, hes easy to talk too and i like him. i dont really know if he likes me but we have been talking lot lately.

but the only thing is my past with older guys hasnt always gone to well.

i don't know what to do..

hello.
okay most guys are the same,but maybe theres one out there that is different maybe you should take a chance and talk to him about it you never know tuntil you say something.you like him so why not?
hope we have helped

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what are u being for halloween?

Well, im being Dorothy from Wizard of Oz lol.

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i think im fat i am 5'7'' and i weight 137 pounds what kind of diet can i do

south beach
cutting back on junk.
your pretty tall it doesnt really sound like
you need to diet

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okayyy so i just asked a question and u answered but what do u mean by being aggressive?

just tell him that you wanna be more than friends with benfits.
see what he says
if anymore questions just ask
- Alex

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how could i make my boobs look WAY bigger when wearing a bikini?

Buyyy a padedd bikini top.
- Alex

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There is this guy I have a huge crush on, and Im almost 100% positive that he feels that same way too. Only, he has a girlfriend.

They have been going out for 2 months and he barely gives her any attention. I rarely ever see them talking, and we all hang out. But I get the biggest vibe that he has a crush on me too. What should I do?

Wait around? Or should I say something?

i think you should goo for it,you never know until you make a move.you never know he could like you back even know he has a girlfriend

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okayy so ii lyk dis boii n we always be talking so it seems like we already be going out we bof lyk each other but i dont kno what to do i told hym how much i lyk him n how i feel but i dont know what else to do please help!

askk him how he feels
and be agreesivee.

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okay so im turning 14 in like 2 months and i really have feelings for this boy he's 16 and in highschool and i barely see him now but i really like him and whenever we talk we always talk about how much we like each other but i dont kno cause he said he has to think and i really like him like a lot but i dont know what to say to him about this situation! PLEASE HELP!!!

AH!
You like him, he likes you!
What a match.
If you have feelings for him,tell him exactly how you feel and dont lack any feelings.
Guys always want to know the exact truth of what you think and nothing but the truth and they want to know as much as they possibly can,but if you dont think its right then tell him that and maybe he'll wait until you decide.
It all takes time!

Good luck!


--Kendra

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