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soo lastnight there was a party. and it was awesomee.i had so much fun.everyone was dancing/grindingg..and i was partying with my bf.we didn't make out or anything b/c theere were some parents tthere.but w/e. ANYWAYSS my x boyfriends mother[ who im friends with..b/c my x and i are still friends] she called my parents and told them there was dirty dancing going on! my dad came at like 10. [when everything was dying down] but im soo embaressed. that mother told my parents i was one of themm.and i think my parents are like dissapointed in me.is there anyway i cann earn their trust backk???
Hey, well i honestly would not be apologizing for grinding. Grinding is a form of dance, therefore you are expressing yourself. Tell your parents to think about there old school dances or occasions that they danced at. They danced in way that are old fashioned now, but at that time, they were considered the "in" dances. Explain to them that its just like that. If there old style types of dancing were in now, you would be doing those.
I'm running out of patience. I don't understand why I worked so hard in order to get no where. And this goes for everything. I always try to do my best at something i'm passionate about. I work hard and I aim high. But look where it's gotten me.. Nowhere. I mean, seriously, do i just have to be a soul-less person to get anywhere in this life?
Or maybe I should be like some people and just sit around and have everything fall into my lap... I've never been that lucky. I've always had hope. If I lost anything this year it would be that... The one thing that has helped me get by.
I could try to be like everyone else and just not give two f*cks about the people around me. Maybe I should walk all over them and use them and abuse them, until I get my way. This is how the world works isn't it?
It seems like my whole life i've been getting screwed over. I try my best to comeout of eveything with the positive attitude, knowing i'd never like to be like them... But look how far it's gotten me.
The best years of my life. What a waste. All complaints. I hate who I am. I hate who i'm becoming.
I don't know what to do anymore.
Any advice?
Hey, dont give up just yet. Yes, life is tough and sometimes you get no where soon. Keep holding on. Good things come to those who wait. You need to hang in there, even if all hope is lost. Eventually, it will be your time to shine. =]
so my best guy friend i went out with for like a week a month ago. but we broke up, and now i REALLY like him. like its crazy. and my semi is tomorrow and i really want to kiss him. (dont worry im not a slut). so how do i do this? and i am REALLY not the kinda girl to just take his hand and go into the bathroom or w/e. like i wouldnt even me like "you wanna go get somethin to eat out in the hall" ( we have snacks at our semis) pleasee help
14/f
thank soooo much %%
Hey, well you have to make the first move. Dont run up to him and stick your tongue down his throat. Talk to him first and see how things are going to go with the conversation and everything. Then if all things go well, kiss him. I would just talk about how you miss going out and the relationship. Be cute and sweet about it. Good luck =].
What are some good ideas for things to do after prom??????? I live in Toronto
I would get a hotel room, but it's too expensive for me and my boyfriend
Any ideas would be great. It will be just the two of us that night.
THANKS!!!!!!!
Hey, do a night on the town. Go out to dinner just the two of you. Maybe do a little shopping. You said just the two of you, but you could also host an after party. If you couldnt, tell one of your friends too. =]
Hi,
My sisters 13th birthday is coming up, and i really have no idea what to get her. She likes shopping, those weird sayings like, "Brown eyed girl meets Blue eyed boy" and stuff like that. We have a pool but I dont think that she would want a raft..... e already have 2. I REALLY dont know!!! Please help!
THANKS :) :) :) :)
Hey, everyone loves a mall giftcard. =]
im 14/f. my best friend lives next door and we've known each other since we were 2. both of our families are pretty strict, but her parents are super conservative. like, shes not allowed to date until she's 17, she can't wear 2-piece bathing suits, and she can only wear plain white underwear, nothing "pretty" and definitely no bikinis. well, lately she's started nagging at me for everything i do and its really getting annoying. like i have these sweat pants from victorias secret... theyre just plain grey with a dog on them, it doesnt even say victorias secret, but my friend is like "omg i cant believe youre wearing something from that store!!" and i cant go to the pool when shes there because she'll give me looks and say "you shouldnt be wearing a 2-piece!" and if i have a problem with my boyfriend, i cant talk to her about it cuz she'll just say "you shouldnt even HAVE a boyfriend!" im so tired of her judging me. im definitely NOT a slut AT ALL... i dont dress like one or act like one... but when im around her she makes me feel like one. i havent told her how i feel cuz i doubt it would change anything... she thinks shes right and she also thinks shes trying to "help" me. so would it even do any good to say anything, or should i just ignore it and try not to let it bug me? (i could try, but it really gets on my nerves!!!)
Hey, well shes only judging you and putting you down because she would love to have all those things. She would die for victorias secret sweatpants, a two piece bathing suit, and a boyfriend. Shes jealous of you. Yoi need to talk to her about it. Your suppose to be best friends. Things might not change, but its worth the shot. Good luck =].
My guyfriend, ronny has literally A ZILLION nicknames for me, haha. [we're just friends] Well I want one for him but i can't really think of anything for his name. Any ideas && or suggestions?
Hey, well here is a list of a few.
-Ron.
-Ronald.
-Ronald McDonald.
-Ronnie.
-Ron Ron.
-Anything personal, like an inside joke.
so i just went to this place to get my eyebrows done and she like totally did it horrible. im not going to ask for my money back or anything but i am definitely never going back there.
they do not match my face shape and she even waxed the top hairs! i don't know what do to now, i look so ridiculous, im about to cry.. well maybe it's not so bad (i'm not quite sure, but I don't like it) so idk. this sucks and i dont know what to do.. is it going to grow back in horribly? how long will it take? gah..
Hey, well theres really nothing that you can do about it now. Unless you want to go to a different eyebrow place and get them touched up a little and see what they can do. When you get your eyebrows done at a place that you dont know, thats the chance you take. They could be perfect or totally screwed up. Another thing that you can do is tweeze them yourself. You know what you want and maybe you can do it yourself, so they will be up to your standards. How long they take to grow back is up to your body. Its usually anywhere between 2-4 weeks. Good luck =].
ok im a 16/f and this girl who goes to my school won't stop bothering me on myspace. and i've decided that the best way for this to stop is to call her house and talk to her parents but the problem is i can't find her number. i tried looking in the phonebook and way too many people have the same last name as her and i don't want to call every single person. so what should i do?
Hey, well im sure that other people know her and maybe know some of her information. Ask around. =]
OK, there is this guy, he is really cool, he is also 15, but sort of oblivious. We went out for exactly a month, but broke up because we only saw each other on the weekend, and he wasnt sure if he liked me like that...because we only really acted as friends (we were each other's first boyfriend/girlfreind). So it was hard...but anyway we are still friends, and I am over his house literally every weekend. Me, him, and our two other friends ALWAYS hang out, just the four of us, and these days it seems like he is treating me like im invisible, and the other times, flirting with me. The point is, I want him back, and I know it is possible, I just need advice on things I can do, I already have his attention, but I want him to really like me, so we dont have confusion again on whether he likes me or not like before. I dont think he has lost all feelings for me yet, but i want to give him a good reason to want me back again. I want to be able to flirt with him (but not too much to freak him out), I want to show him how good a girlfriend I can be (without being to obvious), I just want him back. We are going out on his birthday (the four of us) and I was thinking of doing something bold...like giving him his first kiss or somethin...I just want him back, but i want him to want me back too. PLEASE HELP!!!!
Hey, well you cant force somebody to like you and if you try to, it usually backfires in everyones face. I think its a great idea to give him his first kiss on his birthday. That will be an extra little birthday present for him. It will also show him that you still have feelings for him. Be aware that he could get freaked out by it and thats the chance that you have to take. I would take it tho. It will let you know where you stand with him and your relationship with him. Hopefully he reacts good and the night is magical. I wish you the best =].
my friends are all older than me and they all graduated. we have always been a grade apart but now their all gone moving to go to all different high schools out of state making new friends. and im still in grade school im in 8th grade and their all...gone. were already loosing contacts. im left with nobody i cant take it. i cry myself to sleep everynight because of it. their gone forever. most are moving states. i lost everyone. what do i do?
and one guy I LOVE HIM and hes far gone. were great friends but i dont even know now. what could i do!?!?
Hey, well from what i can tell, you dont like change or like to accept change. Its harsh reality, you need to as much as it hurts. You need to socialize yourself more and stay friendly. Think about when you made friends with the people that left, what did you do? How did you make those friends? Its like starting from stratch. Use those tips to help. Join sports or clubs. Go to school talent shows or dances. All your friends dont have to go to your school, but its good to have a circle of friends that do attend your school. As for the friends that left, if you guys care about each other a lot, youll make sure that you stay in contact. Let them know that you wish to stay in contact with them and that you would love it if they put effort into staying in contact. Let them know that they will be greatly missed. Good luck =].
Well, I've been making freewebs sites for a while & got myself a subdomain a while ago. Now I really want to buy my own domain. The cost is no big deal, I can easily pay it myself. However, it has to go through their credit card & then I would pay them cash in return. So they need to know. How should I ask them? They're kind of weird about those things & might see it as stupid & might not like me having my own website. What are some things I can say to convince them to let me do it? I was just going to tell them i wanted my own space to do whatever with, it's cheap, & I've been reading about them & experimenting with free sites, etc. Any ideas?
Hey, well you didnt mention what kind of website that your planning on running. If you tell me what kind of website, I could possibly help you out.
ok i like this guy [n] and he is really mean but i dont know why i like him, idk if its because hes playing hard to get or what, he knows that i like him and hes a year younger than me. he told his friend that im a "monster" and a "stalker" which im nott. he thinks that im a monster because he says that im ugly. but now his best friend [t] is in love with me, he calls me gorgeous, and beautiful and the only girl he needds in his life. now, if t is best firends with n do you think that t's liking of me, would rub off on n? jw any other suggestions would be helpful
Hey, no just because "T" likes you doesnt mean that "N" is going to start to like you. It seems to me like "N" being rude to you and that you need to just stop and give up. If he secretly likes you, he`ll come back to you. If you dont have any feelings for "T", dont lead him on. Thats a common mistake that girls make when there upset from another boy. Good luck =].
this is kind of awkward but how can you tell if you're guy is "hard" or not? Like it should be pretty obvious but just so i dont try anything while he's soft.
thanks.
Hey, well when his penis is hard, you will definately feel it.
if i put spf 15 sunscreen on could i still get tan? i want to get darker but i just dont want to burn. so if i want to get tan would it be better to use it or not?
Hey, of course you can get tan with any kind of SPF on. SPF is actually recommened while trying to get a tan. You need to get a safe tan. By wearing SPF you can do that =].
Ok I go to a private school, lets call it H and recently I made some big mistakes and since H is such a small scholl practically my whole grade knows this. And there are a couple of people there that still hang out with me and seem to like me, but even though those people are great friends and I love them as friends, I really care about this one group of friends, lets call them D, and thats where my whole mistake started, I cussed at them online because I was in a really bad mood that day and some things have happened, anyway it was a stupid thing to do I know that and I'll never do it again but like I said I really care about my D friends, and I want them to realize it was all a horrible mistake and I still ove them. Right now D hates me and is spreading rumors about me I think but you can't expect to cuss someone out online and get away with it can you? anyway I want to know how I can make it up to them and explain things in the best way.
(Don't say tell them that you just had a bad day and you still love them because even though this is true I already told them this and apologized alot of times.)
Thanks in advance! :) sorry it's long
Hey, well it already seems like you spilled your heart out to "D" and apologized many times. Most friends would just forgive you at a point when you keep repeating an apology. Are you sure that it was just that? Is that all you did? If so, "D" is making a bigger deal out of the situation than necessary. If there willing to let something as little as thing ruin your friendship, they dont understand the real meaning of friendship nor care.
wednesday i leaving to go camping for about four days. showers will most likely NOT be a daily thing, which is gross. although i hate it, i really need to wear make up, at least for most of the time. since there is no running water (but i CAN get bottles of water to use if need be), and the shower situation, does anyone know of some good facial wipes that will remove my make up and cleanse my skin that i can use at the end of each day or whenever? also, any tips for camping in this situation will be helpful, too.
Hey, well at CVS they have a lot of good makeup removing wipes. Try any of those. Also this seems weird but baby wipes. Buy them to wipe your area down below to keep it clean =].
okay well the thing is i recently dropped my cell phone into the pool, and its dead, so my parents yeah they were mad at me but they said i could get a new one. i saved up my money and gave them all i had, to pay for my new phone, and i really wanted the sidekick 3 or sidekick iD. but no.. i got my phone yesterday and it is the crappiest thing ever. i absolutley hate it! it has nothing on it, like no camera or video or whatsoever. i think it's unfair because if i'm paying for the phone, shouldn't i be able to pick my own phone? how do i convince my parents to get me a better phone?
and does anyone know the difference between the sidekick 3 & the sidekick iD?
Hey, well i dont know the difference between the sidekicks, but im here to offer my little piece of advice about picking your own phone. Well since you just got the phone yesterday, it would be very immature and childish to return it the next day (even if it totally wasnt what you wanted). It would also come off to your parents as you being irresponsible. Keep it for a while, then talk to them about getting a new phone. Tell them what you were expecting to get with your money and then compare it to what you got. Good luck. =]
There are a few things making me super nervous about meeting my crush this summer (at camp) and I need y'all to tell me if I'm screwed or if there's hope for me.
Alright, first thing.. kissing. I read somewhere that the first kiss means everything, if the first kiss isn't great most people will not prusue a relationship with that person. Will that's just great! Does that mean that even if I make myself super pretty, super funny, super smart - but I'm a bad kisser - I'm doomed? That's it! Everything I've worked for.. gone. The guy Ive dreamed about for 4 years now.. will not be mine, just cause I can't kiss? That blows!
I decided to write my second question in a different "question" because it belongs to a different category I think, but it will be under the label "voice = attraction" if you want to take a shot at it! Thank you!
Hey, well thats not true. There is no wrong way to kiss, as long as your not slobbery. Dont worry about it. Kisses are suppose to come naturally and you usually get all worked up and nervous over nothing. Good luck =].
my hips stick out like crazy.
they are really boney & i hate them.
im gonna be giving my bf a lapdance soon
and im supposed to wear a thong but i
look really bad in them with my hips.
anything i can do?
Hey, well if hes your boyfriend, he should love you no matter what. Some guys find hips that stick out attractive. Who knows -- maybe he does too. He`ll definately appreicate the lap dance and i doubt that he will be looking at your hip bones. =]