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i have a boyfriend and in 8th grade i "stole" him from my friend in a like sexual way and so we like cybered i guess and now i'm in highschool and we got to actually know eachtoher and he's such a great guy and so nice and on my 4th time seeing him he felt me up....is that too fast..? imean i told him im not ready for sex but i kinda am i just dont want to do it b/c all my friends are like dont have sex w/ him sooo what do you think? (link)
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Your boyfriend is going way to fast! My advice to you would be to stop him before its to late. If he doesn't understand that your not ready than abviously he isn't the right guy for you and you don't want to make that mistake..do you?.. But if you really think your ready and that he's the right guy then I guess that's your decision. Just ry to pick the right one please so you won't regret it later! I hope I helped! Good luck!
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We've been dating for nearly a year, 8 consecuative months, but basically dating for a year. I'm 16/f, and he's 15/m.
If you don't include the past month, everything was absolutely ideal. We'd stay up for hours on the phone, and we'd just talk about the stupidest stuff. For a while it was a long distance relationship, and it was fine. We'd see eachother on the weekends.
Two weekends ago he decided that he was so stressed out that he would cut off all communications. Ofcourse it was the weekend my grandfather died, so I was hoping that my own boyfriend would have been there for me.
We're talking again.. but..
He's making the most horrible choices for himself. When we first met, he was a horrible stoner and a chain smoker. He quit those 'for me' because I was 'the only one who has ever cared' and up until a month ago, he's picking up these old habits. He's skipping school and making less efforts to see me.
It's breaking my heart. I've been so stressed when it comes to school ect, that I don't need his diva crap, you know? When I say diva crap, I mean, the second he has to do something that doesn't sppeal to him, he just won't do it.
I guess I'm asking, where do I draw the line? Like, should I break up with him? How can I talk to him about this so he understands my concerns?
I have so much on my plate, I don't know how much longer I can keep it together. Help me? (link)
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I totally understand what your saying! I hate it when guys do that. One minute they like you the next you don't really feel that connection anymore. I think you should talk to him and tell him what u just wrote to me. Don't take this crap from no one after you talk to him and he doesn't get better you abviously have to leave him. he's showing that he doesn't care about you and that's the least thing you need from anyone. But before you end it think about it and don't make a mistake you probably might regret it. Hope I halped good luck!
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i just started a new school as you known that tough but i started liking this guy he sweet cute and he different when it comes to girls he doesnt know what to do he like me and i like hima and he want to treat me right but he doesnt know how so he treat me like one of his guy friend and it werid so we deciede to take a break and know he cant stop thinking about and i want to know what should i do but all his family doesnt know about the break up wat should i do !!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I hope this helps but I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and give him advice of how you want to be treated. If you get closer the relationship gets better. Don't end something so nice just because you can't communicate try your best! Good luck!
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haha well i need help well my x boyfriend and i broke up in may.. well we went out for only a week.. and i found out that it was just a bet.. and then after that he went to a-school and he came back and now he's in my history class.. and he writes me notes now and i write him notes.. and im not sure if he likes me and im not sure if he's going to homecoming he said he didn't want to but yeah (link)
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Um here's a question you have to ask yourself... he played me once he liked me just because of a bet what makes me think he isn't going to do it again?... you deserve someone way better than him he took you for a bet! I bet you can find someone better than him that really likes you and that's not playing with you. Is that the kind of guy you deserve?...no! And as for homecoming even if he asks you I think you should say no well who am I to tell you what to say right? Its your decision... you decide what's best for you
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my sister is a bitch...she's 10 and i'm 14 my parents always pick her side and like her better they say they don't but they do...all of them are being bitchy...my sister makes stupid and unneeded remarks..like if i do something she says you better and it makes me mad because she does it all the time and she even hits me and scratches me...and goes and tells i started it then my parents get mad at me be cause they think i started it and i hit her....and then i show the scratches and hits she does to me they don't say anything...it bothers the crap out of me..i can't stand it...wat can i do to make my sister stop!! (link)
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The same thing actually happened to me. I'm actually the oldest child and my parents alwasy like 2 baby my sister and I hate it also. What I did to stop it was tht I found something bad that she did and told her if she wouldn't stop ill tell on her. It actually wasn't the perfect thing to do. So I won't tell u to do that but ill tell you to talk to your sister find out what's her problem also talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. The best thing to do is to IGNORE her what she wants is for you to get mad and she's avoisly doing that so just ignore her shell eventually stop.
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