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Okay kinda personal..when making out, there is ALOT of saliva..should you swallow in the middle of making out? or take ah break? idk

x0x-dani (link)
Hey Dani. You can do whatever you want. Usually if it's a good kiss, swallow it, so you don't have to stop. If it's bad, than stop. Either way your gonna end up swallowing it.


ok this boy has been liking me and begging me to go out with him but i have a b/f already and the boy that likes me and wants to go out with me is desspret but what should i do becuase the boy i am dating i still wanna go out with him but i just want the dessprate boy to leave me alone whats should i do ???????? (link)
If the boy that likes you is desspret for a girlfriend, than why would you even think about going out with him? Hello wake up, he doesn't acutally like you, he just wants to be able to say he has a girlfriend. Tell the boy that likes you to leave you alone, and that you arn't interested.


ok well... i have this really good friend...lets say his name is bob.i'm 13 and he's 14 also.we always talk and i flirt with him... a lot! but he just went through a badbreak up with one of my really good friends...i donno if i should tell him i like him... i donno wat my frinds reaction would be if i asked him out and he said yes...
i dont a wanna ruin my relastionsip with my really good friend and bob.wat should i do?
please help me! thanx bunches!! (link)
It's fine to flirt, it's harmless. But give him sometime and your friend sometime, sot hey can get over eachother. She would probelly get bad. Tell Bob, and your freind how you feel. Get the facts and state the truth.


i was wondering if anyone tried the acne stuff proactiv or natures cure, and if so did it work for you, and how long did it take for you to see an improvement.. & also, what type of case of acne should you have b4 using it, and what type did you have?? (link)
I tried the acne stuff, but I don't have it, i just have really oliy skin. My friend on the other hand uses stuff like that, and i havent seen a different in her face. But since summer has started her face is clear. Becuase of the clorenne in the pool.


ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
Tell your guy friend to truth. And tell your friend to stay out of your bissness.


I NEED HELP! SEE I LOVE MY BROTHER BUT HE KEEPS COMING IN MY ROOM WITHOUT PERMITION AND I NED MY OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!I NEED ADVISE!!!

-bubba78

P.S. I'm a girl so all I need is help and help and help and HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hey Bubba! Tell your brother to stay our of your room, and that you are older (im guessing) and you need your privacy. Tell him you can hang out some other time. Or even tell him to knock, i'd lock my door if i were you, but my doors don't have locks. It kinda sucks!


Alright Well I dont want to waste your time but this is kinda complicated! Im 16 and I was going out with a 21 year old. Everything was perfect! He introduced me to ALL his family and friends, he told everyone I was his girlfriend (even to pretty girls he knew) It was totally perfect and I felt so special! He complimented me all the time and told me I was "the one" and had even told me that I was a freak in bed and I was the best he'd ever had! Well after all this he started to act shady. He wouldnt call me or come around for a whole week and when he finally did it would only be for a small amount of time..I also heard from different people that he was flirting with this one SLUT tasha!! Whom already has a boyfriend. Well to cut it short, We broke up and I really dont even know what the deal was..We kinda just agreed to not being together!? Im heartbroken and if you have ANY advice as to why you think he did this or what I should do, It would be greatly appreciated. *Thanks* (link)
Wow. He seemed pretty sweet, if he would complimented you. But that age difference freaks me out. That is statatory rape, if you wanted it or not. Yikes, flirting is harmelss, jelouse a little bit?? Try to forget about him. I'm pretty sure you can find someone sooooo much better than that 21 year old.


my dog has started rolling around the floor growling and makeing strange noises. Is this normal? (link)
Haha yup. your dog probelly wants attention!


damn gurl your only 14? you look like your 16-17. but your so sweet and you look lyke your having so much fun.in every other picture its different people. your popular blond cheer chick. you'd look cute in some cowgurl clothes. lol. peace ill IM you -Jarred.15/m (link)
Hey Jarred! Yes I'm only 14. I just turned 14. Is that good or bad that i look like i'm 16/17? Lol thanks for calling me sweet. Yea i have a lot of fun. I just know a lot of people at my school. Yup! I'm blonde and a cheer baby! Lol. I have a few cow girl things. Thanx a bunch!


I'm in the military, and I work at least 8 hours a day, 5 days a week. Sometimes more. My wife has a job where she works an average of 10-15 hours a week. How much of the house work should I realistically be doing? I know I need to do some of it, but we always argue about it. I'm getting really tired of being insulted and being called "lazy" over this, when shes the one who gets up to 12 hours of sleep on a daily basis. I'm lucky to get 7-8. She says I'm lazy and never do anything, but when I'm not working, shes here and we're spending time together. She gets mad at me for not doing as much as her, but she won't let me do simple things such as the laundy or vacuuming. So how can I help her if she won't let me? (link)
Wow. It seems your relationship is haveing a little problems. Everyone has their lazy, tell your wife how you feel, and tell her to maybe take a day off from cleaning, or walk up early the next morning and have the things she usually does done.


BABYCHEER792!! help! i cheated on my boyfreind with some ugly ass dude (been going out 5 months) that i barly know. my boyfreind dumped me of course without letting me talk or anything. that hook up ment nothing to or him. but i miss my boyfriend so much it hurts. i cant belivei did somethign liek that do my freinds think im a slut? i want my bf back but will he let me talk? is he going to hate me for life? what do i do? the dude i hooked up with might like me what the hell do i do!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? (link)
Hey. O gurly I know EXACLY how you feel. I cheated on my boyfriend (2 months) with some guy named Daniel, and i barely knew him. Yea my boyfreind dumped me to without even talking, but I wasn't the one that made the move, he did. I didn't want to kiss him but i did, plus it is that time of month, and my hormones are UP UP UP. Seriously that makeout between me and daniel ment nothing to me or him. I guess he was just trying to see if he liked me. I wouldn't even caling it making out, cuz i didn't even feel his toung, but what'ever. I miss my boyfreind to, preobelly just as much as you do. Your friends could think of you as a slut, but i doupt that, everyone hooks up now a days. I want to talk to my boyfriend to, in person, that way he knows how serious I am about wanting to get back together with him. Be serious about wanting to talk to him, if you cry it's okay. This past week, i sware it's like every little stupid thing reminds me. The worse part is, I have to see his picture. It's on my nightstand in a frame, me and him. It's really cute to. I miss him. Give it a big cry, does it really matter if he sees you cry? It doesn't not at all, then maybe he could acutally see that your hookup between the other guy ment nothing at all, and how sorry and sad you are. I cant even tell someone about what happened without breaking into tears. Your ex boyfriend shouldn't hate you for life, that's kinda stupiid. Just keep it cool, don't go flirting around, and prove to him that you need him. Eh, tell that dude that you don't like him, and he made your happy relationship end. Because to be honest, i think that dude that you hooked up with is just trying to say he made out with some pretty girl. :-(


i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help (link)
Thats cute. Why ask him out, first you shoudl try to see if he likes you. Or even get a friend to casually start a convo with him, n just name some gurls that you go to school with, then tell your friend to inclued you name somwhere in the middle of it.


there's this friend i have and she always lies to me, but then if i catch her in the middle of a lie, and am like well before you said this, shes like NO I DIDN'T. shes one of my best friends and shes fun to be around when shes not lying, but it gets really annoying...what should i do? (link)
She isn't your bestfriend is she ALWAYS lies to you, or even for that matter, not a friend at all. Freinds are suppose to have trust and truthfull relationships. If she keeps lieing tell her to stop, because in the end she cuold hurt herself or even hurt someone else. Talk to her about her lies.


How do you know when it's love at first site? (link)
There is no love in first site. The movies you see are just lies. You can be attracted to someone the first sight. But you should really get to know that person befor eyou even try to go out with them.


i am trying to get my guy friend to notice me, i always hang around him and hold his hand. i try to let him know that i am into him as more than just a friend, but it feels like everytime i try to get close to him he pushes me away. i have kissed him before and he acts like he wants me, but then it seems like he doesnt. i am confused on how to get him to want me as more than just the friend that i have always been to him.. if anyone could give me some advice on what to do that would be great! hopefully, a guy and a girl could answer this just so i get both sides of it. thx. (link)
Well if your hang around you guyfriend, he does already notice you. Instead of giving him hints that you like him, tell him stright up about it. Trust, and the truth always works. He could just be using you for that kinda stuff. Be careful and watch out for youself.


i started goin out with this guy- and it was only 2 days.. and on the 3rd day i broke up with him for somebody else.. but he had told me he loved me n' all this stuff and when i broke up with him i told him he seemed too attached.. do you think he seemed to attached already or he was just saying that? (link)
I don't think he really liked you. Maybe he was trying to use you, or get something out of you. That kinda scares me knowing a guy if he says he loves you on the second day. I mean i don't even get an "I love you" after 2 months.


is it ok to date online (link)
Personally to me, I'm against it. I hear all these things about girls getting raped, and end up dead. But it's your choice, do what your heart feels.


what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do (link)
Tell her that you two arn't going out. And tell her to talk to him about following you around between different class periods.


how do u tell when people are flirting (link)
They are always around you, trying to make you smile, and just touching you, tickling. Flirting is awesome!


I am a 13 year old boy, and a friend of mine is really beginning to annoy me. She (Yes, I have a friend who is a girl. No problems there.) keeps on mooning over other guys in front of me, telling me how much she thinks that they're hot, or how good looking they are, or how totally awesome their hair is, etc. CONSTANTLY. I don't think that there has ever been a moment where she's not talking about some other guy.

Sometimes, I suddenly get this weird jealousy feeling, but I don't feel jealous, I just want her to stop talking about other guys, and have us just be friends again.

Now someone out there, help me. I don't know what exactly I should do about this situation. (link)
Yikes, your friend thats a girl is just like me, i always talk about guys to my guy friend, witch likes me, and he even said he was jelouse. But that's because he trusts me. Maybe you could be jelouse. Maybe she likes you, and wants you to get interested in her. Ask her in a joking matter, what do you think about me, then let a few days pass, and ask her in a serious way. Plus it's okay to be jelouse, i haven't experienced jelously over someone, but maybe i will.




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