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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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how can i find out how big my boobs are [ possibly a way i coudl find out at home?]

Hey Lol umm well i would say if it is about a hand fun its a b cup. And a little bigger than your hand a c cup. If its smaller then a a. Haha but the easyist way is to go to victorias secret, they can find out what size you are. - Hope i helped some what.

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Hey people..I am just starting this advice thing, and is anyone there that can help me with mii backround and stuff..? Or do any of you have sites that I can go to for backrounds? Help please! Just I/m on mii aim screen name, paradiei3abii3x, or respond here..thanks!

Hey Heres a good site for back rounds.

http://www.backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

-When you get there just click menu and go to back rounds. Hope I hellped! If you have ne more questions just ask!! -Jenny

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Lately ive felt really bad about myself im not sure why... like i feel bad about the whole guy/relationship thing and my looks and my friends and i just dont know anymore... help me!

p.s. im 13 and live in a pretty small town in PA...

signed, low self confidence

Hey I have the same problem as you, and I'm sorry I cant help you. I myself dont know how to deal with it. I'm jw if you live by me, because I live in PA too. Good luck - Write me back if you want. -Luv Jenny

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Where do you get your layouts from?

Hey lol, all I really did was go to column settings, and where it says Approved Public styles I clicked "Your space" Then were it talks about column colors I chose a back round image. It will say "Page background image (URL):" And you incert one there. I hope that helped! -Jenny


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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy

Hey your friend probably has bipolar. Talk to an adult about your friend and try and get her help. Good luck. -Luv Jenny

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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help!

Hey the best thing to do would be to tell somone. Since she doesnt want to tell anyone just let her know that what happened was not her fault and that was not right. Those things happen to a lot of pretty people and she shouldnt feel ashamed about it. Try and convince her to tell somone. Once somone knows about it she will feel a lot better! Beleive me, I've beeen throught it. If you need anymore help feel free to ask. Good luck! -Love Jenny

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Theres this group of really kool hot guys that r obsessed with me. They say all this stuff and they started doing it it front of my mom. like one time i was on the deck with my friend and my mom was in the backyard and there like hey sexy, they grap me in certain places, and they keep looking me up and down! SO UNCOMFORTABLE!!! they do in right in front of my oms face!! i dont want to lose the attention from them but i cant have them doing that in front of my mom! HELP thanx srry so long

ErIcA!

Hey you should tell these guys not to do things infront of your mom. Let them know you dont like it and that you would rather them do it when they are not around her. Good luck. -Jenny xox

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i no she has a personal trainer and that helps alot lol but i no she does crunches n stuff... does anyone KNOW exactly wut she does?!? plzz help!!

Hey I was watching a TV show and she said she does around 200 crunches a day. I'm not quite sure the number of them, but it was over 100 and less than 200. But all I know is crunches does it! - Hope i could help- Jenny

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What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............

Hey your sister is very under weight. She should at least be around 125. I think you need to tell your parents. Good luck!! If there is anything else I can do let me know. -Jenny xoxo

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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink!

Hey you can be there for your friend an confort him, let him know how much you and your friends care for him. Since you have already done that I think that the best thing to do is to tell an adult. It is really hard to make somone who wants to commit suicide stop if they are really serious. I know you dont want him to see somone for help, but if he wants to die he really needs some help!! He can also talk to people who are going through the same thing. I hope I helped. If you ever need anything I'm here. I've wanted to kill myself and was going to and If theres anything I can do just let me know. Good luck. -Love Jenny

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ok i have known this girl for about 10 years and lately she been rapidly loosing weight and not eating anything whenever she does she runs to the bathroom, and one time i followed her into the bathroom and i heard her throwing up when i confronted ehr about it she just denied it and said it wasnt her throwing up but i followed her in there and i know it was her she was the only one in there besides me and im really scared for her i dont want her to die from this and i love her and she means the world to me how could i possibly get her to realizxze that she needs sum help?

Hey It is very hard to get somone with an eating disorder to relize they are under weight. I think the best the to do would be to tell an adult. Good luck hun! -Jenny

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My friend is a suicidal massicist. She cuts her wrists. She was molested when she was younger. She also does drugs and gets drunk a lot and likes it. Her mom is suicidal and her dad is a pot head. She went to a therapist before but stopped because he was annoying and cost too much. I think her life is taking a large turn down into a huge pile of shit, but I don't know how to help her. She is insecure, clingy but outspoken and is willing to fight anyone who makes fun of her, and that is admirable. She is also bisexual which has caused other probs. Can I do anything?

Hey you really can only be there for her and try to make her feel better when she is sad. Confort her and let her know that you care about her. You can also try and get her to go see somone about her problems. Good luck! -Jenny

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I used to always want to be 'cool', 'hot' 'ghetto'
junk like that. Now I am a 12 yr old punk girl, and I changed in less than a month. I started having home problems, and I started listening to rock. I cut my ankles, and make little pictures on my ankles with a knife. I tell myself it's just play, but somtimes I dont know. Really and truly sometimes I scare myself, I like being strange and literly insane. Is that a problem...

Hey I think that is a problem. You should talk to somone about that. Like an adult or theripst. Try and get some help by seeing a psycotrist. Good luck. -Jenny

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What can help nerves or being parinoid ??p.s im only 14 and i do have parinoid problems..

Hey you can go to a theripist and talk to them about it, and try to get help that way. Or you could also try and get some pills for paranoia or anxiety. I take them and they work! -Jenny

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wuts the best way 2 get rid of a pimple rell fast

Pop it! Then put some acne medicine on it! It always works. -Jenny

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