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I'm a nineteen year old girl whos dreams are to help the world. But for now, I'll start on Advicenators :)

I can't say I can relate to every question that comes my way (probably most though!), but I guarantee I'll understand. And sometimes that's all you need...a little understanding :)

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I'm confused on how to apply eyeshadow properly. can someone give me tips or some useful websites?

http://www.expertvillage.com/video/503_how-to-apply-eyeshadow.htm

hope this helps! :)

On the bottle of one of my eye cleaning solutions, the expire date says 03/2008, which is just march 2008. Would you say it's due at the beginning of march or the END of march?

Welllll. What I'd do to be on the safe side is wait till the MIDDLE of March. haha

if you get your degree in nutrion and health what kind of jobs can you get?

You can work at hospitals with kids with diabetes and stuff. Teach them how to eat healthy. Stuff like that.

I always always get bored while cleaning what can i do to not get so bored???

Listen to musiccc! :)

I have a best friend who tends to forget that we've made plans. We make them, we let each other know when we're going to call each other, but she'll forget and hang out with someone ele. It's starting to make me mad, becauese I'm sitting around waiting for het to call back when I could be out w/other ppl. SHoiuld I be mad, or is this something that I should just calmly talk to her about?

Talking always solves the problem. Getting mad about it won't. Just calmly talk to her about this and let her know that it bothers you when you two have plans and she forgets. If the problem consist, I would definitely think about dropping her as a friend because TRUE friends don't forget about each other like that.

THere is a guy in a class that I like, but I'm afraid to ask him to hang out because we don't know each other too well. He may be shy, or just uninterested...I can't really tell yet. I'm confident with myself, but I'm afraid of making a fool of myslef (guys don't usually hit on my so it's hard to know what the "signals" are). What should I do?!?

Asking him out when you two don't know each other would definitely be wayyyy to froward and that would probably freak him out. Just try rounding up a conversation with him and work with things from there :)

So i like this kid; and its pretty obvious he likes me too and we talk practically everyday.

But latley hes been calling me and saying hes "bored"
I'd be like" Oh hey" and he would be like " hey . yeah i just got bored..."

-_- am i his entertainment?

boy... dont i feel speciall...

idk what does that sound like?

He just WANT'S you to think thats why he's calling. But really he was thinking about you (the fact that your the one he called proves that) and he's probably hoping that by calling you two will hang out or something.

there is this guy i have been hanging out with/talking to. and he's very nice. he tells me im pretty and that he wants to hang out alot. he seems like he's ACTUALLY interested. and i want him to be, but he's like super femimine and all that stuff. so i dont know if he's interested in me, THAT way. i dont want to straight up ask if he's possibly gay, or just like really feminine and have him not be .. i dont kno how you tell. can i guy have a super feminine voice + stuff and not be gayy..

Yeahh they can be that way. It's called metrosexual. Butttt think about it. Why would you want a guy that seems gay in the first place?

I have troubl cleaning my room and I will just lay on my bed and watch TV I dont know if there is a fun way to clean because I hate cleaning please help!!!!!!!!!!!

Turn off the tv first of all.
Put on a radio and listen to some music.
That always helps me :)

Long story short: I fall for a guy. The guy ends up using me for physical stuff. I pretend I've completely gotten over guy. I'm a lier.
Guy once told me the hottest woman alive is this actor who once was one that 70's show. All I know about her is that she has red hair, and she's not DONNA. Does anyone have a clue? Or is there a complete list of all the guest stars they've had on the show somewhere? Cause I actually would waste whole weekend checking out all their pictures to see what he considered beuatiful. Although, technically, "I'm over him and don't care". Yeah.... right.

woahhh stop right there. I totally get the fact that you like a guy a lot and wish you could have him back, but think about this first. Whyyy in the world would you want to go to such extremes as to change your whole appearance just to get that boy to like you? Especially if he used you for physical purposes only! The guy isn't worth your time. Don't go changing your self for someone who doesn't care about the real YOU. I'm going to hope your better than that.

Alright so I have this fear of having a needle enter my body. It's not the pain that scares me it's just that someone is sticking a sharp object into me. I can't help that I'm scared of it. Before I get it done all I do is cry. My parents always tell me quit being a baby and suck it up. They don't understand. This really is something that bothers me. Also they have to hold me down to actually get the needle in me. I hate it soooooo much. I pray before I have to get anything done that god will help me and get me better. So what I am asking you is to give me some pointers to get overs this. Please I need serious help.

Hiii :) Well, I'm diabetic. Not sure if you know what that is or not. So I'll tell you anyway haha. It's when the pancreas, an organ in your body that gives you insulin, stops working. Sooo I have no insulin going through my body and I have to have it in order to live. Well, since the organ thats suppose to supply me with my insulin doesn't, I have to give it to my self. Anddd I do that by taking shots after every thing I eat. I was afraid of needles before I got diabetes. Now it's a piece of cake. Buttt I'll admit once in a while I don't want to take the shot, so I think about something else like boysss haha and BAM I do it :) SO maybe that could help you...I know the circumstances are a little different, but if you just think about that special boy or something and truly don't think about the shot, then maybe you'll get over your fear. Just remember to breath in and out! :) And there are plenty of people in this world who have this problem, so don't feel alone. Just try to be one of the people who can over come this fear.

Okay well in the first semester this really cute guy walked ito my spanish class, and well i was talking to my bestfriend and well i could totally notice him checking me out, im trying not to be concieded and all but after that day he came more and more. it was really fun to go to that class after that :) but when it came to christmas break we stopped talking........no talking. then i saw him in the hallway the other day and i was OMG OMG flipping out and well i laugh when i flip out so i was laughing liek hardcore. but then i saw he had a myspace so i sent him a request he added me and then messaged me and i was laughing bc i was flipping out. well he has a girlfriend now, and well i dont know if i should keep on talkign to him. and well i like him alot but the thing is he might tryout for cheerleading but the thing is in cheerleadering is that you cant date inside the squad. HELP ME PLS should i keep talkign to him if he has a girl anddd ohhh yeah she is a DANCER!!! DANCERS DONT GET ALONG WITH CHEERLEADERS!!!!! and well i told him i would help him with his cheerleading should i????????

Not sure if this is what you want to hear, but if he has a girlfriend, I would definitely give up on the guy. Theres definitely a lot of guys out there. Besides, you can't date within the squad, so why bother setting yourself up for heart break, right? All the sings are pointing to "IT WON'T WORK OUT"

18/f. There's a kid that really likes me, and I like him too. We have alot in common and get along really well, and we can talk for hours on AIM. But whenever we talk in person, it's like really awkward. There are always awkward silences and it's just weird because we just like talk about the weather and stuff. I think it's just because we're nervous around each other, but now he wants to ask me out and I feel like I shouldn't say yes because you should be comfortable around your boyfriend, right? But he's really nice and not a jerk at all. I don't know. How can I make things less awkward?

TELEPHONE! :)
It's not on AIM, yet not in person either.
It's perfect. Talk to him on there and see how things get.

man i got this girl that i been with for 3 yrs and she the only person i want to be with. recently we broke up for four months and i guess in that four months she like someone else. she called me and told me she still loves me and that she wants to be with me. i still love this girl but i remember everything she put me through in the 3 yrs and i know what i put her through. i could find a millon reasons why she should not be togather but i dont care becuase i love her and i know she is the right girl for me. i just dont want to put her through problems. we are both still young and we have our lives ahead of us. what should i do please help. should i call and try and make us one again or should i let her go and hope love will pull her back in.

aww this is sweet! Seriously. I think it's sweet because well number one your a guy and your sad about the break up. Number two, because instead of saying "She put me through so much crap" you said you know you put her though crap too. It sounds to me like you guys definitely have something there. If you care about her and love her, you'd call her and try to make things work. Whats the worst that can happen? You find out that you two aren't meant to be. And theres nothing wrong with that. Just TRY to make it work. If you don't, you'll spend a great deal of your life thinkin what if. Whats meant to be will always find its way :)

okay so our school is doing the play High School Musical. And I play Taylor but I have no idea what i'm supposed to wear! Someone please help .

The school is suppose to supply you with the clothes your suppose to wear. Talk to the director of the play.

I think I might be a lesbian but Im not sure. I like some girls like not as a marridge thing but i have been noticing things about girls that i didnt notice before, like how big their breasts are. I still like guys in like marridge terms, but my relidgion doesnt allow lesbians and i dont know what to do are there any websites for girls like me? Im not really sure that i AM one, i dont know! Please help

Just because things like "woah she has big boobs" goes through your head doesn't mean your a lesbian. Unless your thinking things like "woah I wish I could grab her boobs" haha then I really wouldn't even second question your orientation.

okay so this is really embarrassing.. but im a 15/female and im looking to buy a swimsuit and in the past i always got like shorts for my bottom part.. and well now i look for bathing suits and none of them come like that anymore. And well I was wondering if your suppose to shave or trim or whatever down there.. so it doesn't show cause i have no idea what to do... help please :]

Yeah you can definitely "twim/shave" down there! lol I would recommend using shaving gel and a good new razer though.

my uggs are basically ruined. i've only had them for a year. the cleaner doesnt work at all.

before thankgiving weekend i was outside with my math class and the grass was wet and the front tips of my uggs got wet. and at the end of the day they were just wet they were stained. and then i used the cleaner onn them and they became two different colors and i got them back to normal but eer since that weekend my uggs have been really stressful and now they're all mutlicolored does anyone know how i can get them back to normal, any trick to the trade? without using any cleaner

they're the chesnut colored uggs and they the medium height ones

I would take them to the actually cleaners cleaners. You know, the people who professionally wash formal dresses and stuff. They might be able to fix them for you, for a low cost of course. But it would probably be cheaper than buying a brand new uggs.

how d you get wrinkles out of paper? because i have to turn in an art project and it looks so crinkled up and everything and she will take off points and i need as many points as possible! thanks so much! :]

No, it won't catch on fire haha Just have an adult who knows how to iron do it. It's been done before! lol

Well, I personally would iron it. You know, how you get wrinkles out of clothes...haha But that is honestly what I would do. If you decide to take my advice, and you've never used an iron before, ask your mom/dad/guardian for help! Don't do it alone because you can hurt yourself if you don't do it correctly.

We just started volleyball and I already have these huge bruises all over my arms and there's like these little red dots everywhere on them.

It doesn't hurt but it just looks really painful and gross. I just want to know, can bruises scar? Like if my arms are liek this constantly, it'll look like that forever? (Like how they say if you got acne and don't do anything, it'll scar)

Nahh your bruises will go away and heal eventually. They won't scar.

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