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Heyy! My names Anna! Im 14!! And Im a Freshman!! Im gonna try to give you the best advice possible!! Im Usually the person my friends go to!! Especially when they're talkin to guys and dont know what to say! And also to tell people off. hehe! My friends would say Im good at giving advice and Im a great listener! I usually get back to questions people ask me very quick! So if you need a answer to something hit me up!! Ill get back to you ASAP! x0x!!

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hi i have a friend that is WAyy to prideful of her backround. she like, bases her life on it. il use an example, say if she were spanish, shed make a sn that would be like spanishbaby or cutie spanishgirl and she has nicknames, real nicknames that are words in spanish like guapa or buena chichi chicana etc or some crap like that, and her whole family speaks it n shes always singing songs in it, and talking it to me. shel say something and then il be like what?? and shel say it in english, like "it means im so cool in spanish". and always wearing clothes that represent it, and rarely does she have friends that dont speak it. and her whole room is decorated in it, and she wears jewelry representing it, and shes always like "you cant speak it stupid" or she always like "oh shutup you cant even speak it" if i try to say a word, and shel just go up to random people and be like haha she cant read spanish. im not saying i dont like her i maen its just getting SO annoying, i wouldnt be so annoyed if maybe i spoke it too, but im just getting terribly sick of it. shes always talking it to people behind my back..laughing at me with another person, what do you think i should do?

my friends do the samething.. i just go... " You know where are in America.. SPEAK ENGLISH!" she should stop.. if she doesnt.. then just ask her to stop doing it around you.. x0x

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Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not

Hey!! I think you should go out with him.. It shouldnt matter to your friends that hes younger.. why do they care anyway?! its not like they're dating him!! If you need anythin else just ask!! Good Luck Gurl! x0x

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the guys who like me are normally nice guys but just guys that i don't have feelings for ~ like I don't think of them that way and all...but i never really say yes to anybody so i'm wondering if it's me? will i kno when a person who likes me is somebody i can like back?? i should have a gut instinct towards saying yes instead of no, right??

Ya You Will babe! Cuz if your not feelin the person you shouldnt go out with them cuz their is really no point to if you dont like them that way.. So you are right!! You'll find sum1 you like and who likes ya back!! Dont worry about it babe!! If you need antthin else just ask!! x0x

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Woah... I usually GIVE advice here but now I'm asking for it. Because I don't know what to do. See... I started going out with this guy, Chris, on September 1. And I've known him since the first day of school (which was August 23). And I never really thought about it until I saw a picture of his family yesterday, but he's half Mexican (I'm white). And I don't have a problem with it, but my mom has this thing about interracial relationships. And she asked if he was white and I told her he was (that was before I saw a picture of his family -- he looks like a real dark-skinned white guy). Then my mom decided she wants to meet Chris, and she wants me to invite him to our Labor Day picnic/cookout thing. I don't know what to do... I'd love him to come here but I'm afraid my mom's going to say something about his race or she's going to make me break up with him or something. What should I do?

I say invite him.. But before you do.. I think that you should talk to your mom and tell her that hes half mexican and half white.. and tell her that you like him a lot.. and u want him 2 meet her.. (she'll probably b happy that u want her 2 meet him!) Cuz if you talk to her before you'll avoid problems like her saying sumthing in front of him. And if she says to break up with him just be like mom dont judge him just because hes half mexican.. they'res nothing wrong with being mexican.. hes really a nice guy. Be like if god didnt want interratial relationships.. he would of made one RACE! :0) Good Luck with ur relationship and your mom!! x0x!!

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I like someone older and n one aproves that I like him should I still like Him?

Age Doesnt Really Matter!! The youngest guy I like is 6 yrs older than me... so yah I know how ya feel! lol. but yah i think it doesnt matter if you just like him but if u go out with him and hes over 18 and your not.. i wouldnt go for it.. cuz its illegal!! x0x!! Anythin else just ask me!!

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Does anybody no any good LJ Icon sites(there the pictures in the boxes that move and say stuff)?

HeY! Heres A Few!! :0)

http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=527372

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=IcOnZ_FoR_u_2

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_confused_by_many_x

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_prettyicons

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=myicons_youricons

Anythin Else Just ask!! x0x!!

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Can you have icons on your advice column?

Yeah You can!! You can set it as your picture!! Thats what I do because I dont have a pic!! If you want sum sites w/ icons for advicenators just ask me!! I got a bunch!! x0x

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I am always seeing people wearing Livestrong bracelets. I understand it is for a good cause and I would like to purchase one but where would I go to get one? What store has them?

Hey!! I saw them at Carsons! And they're for $15!! x0x

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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples.

Hey!! Well You can just say that your moms calling you, you need to go take a shower, someone called for you parents, people are coming so you have to help your mom, tell her that you cant stay on much longer your parents are angry! In the beginning of the convo just be like Hey.. in like 10 minutes i have to get off. if she asks y just be like idk my parents are making me!! If you dont want to lie. Just be like well ill talk to you later! I gotta go!! Those will all work!! Good Luck! x0x

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i have 3 brothers and my dad...(my mom too but she isnt the prob.) well anyway..they ALWAYS piss on the seat..sometimes its a lot and i HATE that! im always the one to have to spray disinfectant and wipe it off. One time i was dumb enough not to look before i sat down..and i sat in piss! how sick is that..o man. i tried telling them how mad i am about that..i even tried leaving the seat up so they have more space to aim..but its not working. Should i try all this again only more seriously this time? Please help..i just wanna be able to feel that my own bathroom is clean..im so grossed out!

any help is great thank u so much!!!!!!

Hey.. Almost the same thing happens 2 me.. but instead of on the toliet.. its on the floor. so i step in it.. lol.. but NOT anymore.. lol!! What i did was make a big scene!! my whole family was around and i said.. You know what .. I dont appreciate you pissin on the floor all the time.. THE DOG DOESNT EVEN DO THAT!! Then they got all embarrased and stopped. or atleast cleaned it up!! That will probably work.. if you dont have a dog.. b like what are you a dog?! lol. You can also do the same to them.. but put it on the floor or sumthin and the toilet.. just in case. lol!! you can just put water.. or sumthing.. they'll get grossed out either way they'll think its pee! hehe!! Good Luck!! Any other ?'s just ask me!! x0x

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Last question today i swear ..
Well whenever my best friend is around her boyfriend she id relly mean to me and starts like changing what do i do?

Hey Babe! The best thing to do is tell her how you feel.. so maybe she'll understand and stop bein mean!! Another thing you can choose to do is.. not be around her when shes around her bf.. Also if u have a bf.. you can do the same to her.. she'll get that she doesnt wanna be treated like that so she wont do it!! Good Luck!! Anythin else just ask!! x0x!

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Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp

Okay! Wow! This is really familiar.. My "best friend" goes to another skewl... and its hard to hang out cuz she has her things and so do i... But when we do hang out its like BFFL!! When i dont c her. its like yah! Nat your my best friend gurl!!.. Its annoyin.. I know.. you must feel like you should be there.. well thats how i felt atleast.. Well you can just ask her..straight up and be like how come on not 0n ur profile! but since i kno most people dont i want to do that.. do the same to her in your profile for a while.. then put her back in when she notices.. if she doesnt just b like brb updating my shout outs or sumthin.. she's bound to look!! Good Luck!! iF you need anythin else just ask me!! x0x!!

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

Yah its perfectly fine!! I mean its ok when the guy is older why wouldnt it be for the gurl 2 be older! People probably will try to bring you guys down but thats because they're totally immature. My friend last skewl yr dated this 7th grader.. and people gave her shit for it.. Now the same people who made fun of her want him.. So yah.. People will get over the fact that hes younger and realize wat a kewl guy he is! Good Luck Gurl!! x0x

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dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion

I think that you should wear a cute pair of jeans! With a light pink shirt!! (if you have one!!) if you dont.. just a white one.. Then do your hair all pretty and add a necklace, bracelets, rings,etc. to make ur outfit look better!! x0x!!

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heyy does anybody know any good sites with quotes. Not just lovepoetry.com but quote sites that teenagers have made? Thanks!!!

Hey go to http://www.geocities.com/quotedirectory0x/ !!! They have a bunch of sites!! Anythin Else just ask!! x0x

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my friends are super skinny and i feel left out cause all the guys are like in love with them and they dont pay atteintion to me at all :( do you think i need to lose weight or just ignore them like ive been doing forever im 5'4" 135 lbs :(
and im 14 yrs old please help any advice is good advice

Nope! i dont think ur fat at all! my friend is 130 lbs and shes about ur height.. and shes not fat at all!! so i highly doubt you are! But if you want to lose weight just run on a tredmill or actually go runnin, do sit ups, crunches, etc. And eat right!! If you need anythin else babe just ask!! x0x!

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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?

ya it is cuz people r all different n start dating at different times!! my friend is 14 almost 15 and hasnt had one either!! dont worry you'll get one sooner or later!! x0x

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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me

Age doesnt matter!! But since its illegal.. it wouldnt be the right thing to do!! Just look for guys closer to your age!! Anythin Else Just ask!! x0x!!

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is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him?

no!! its actually veri sweet!! x0x

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School has been going for about a week and things aren't exactly going very fast!
I am usually pretty populiar but now no 1 wants anything to do with me!
I dunno what to do cause i have like 5 friends out of 600!
What can i do to make it easier on me to make friends????

Hey Just always have a smile on your face!! Talk to people and be interested in what they like! Make them laugh!! x0x

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