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Hey! I'm here to help you. You can ask me anything you want and I'll try to answer it as soon as I can. Remember, everything you ask me if 100% confidential!! So don't feel shy about asking or anything. xoxo
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hi, i am having some problems with my friends, so i told them how i felt and they just blew up at me, what else is there for me to do?
Well let's see. How did you approach them with what you said? Did you say all "you! you! you!" or were you like "I felt..." Nobody wants to be proven wrong, so if you place blame upon them, they will immediately try to defend themselves in some way. If you did by chance approach them like that, apologize and then begin by saying "I just feel..." I'm not exactly sure what your problems are or anything, but I hope I somehow helped! Good luck oxox
Hey buddy! Im bored right now so i thouhgt i would write in here. I love you tons!
Hey.. um, who is this? haha I love you too!
help help help...we will rate u... we no someone who is thinking about killing/cuting/or running away! She is the type of person who would really go out and do it. but whenever we try to call her she hangs up and now she wont answer her phone and she isnt on AIM anymore...we dont know what to do or think...all we think about it what the worst sanerio is!!!
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I think you need to tell her parents or some adult who can tell her parents for you. Go to her house and talk to her. Be nice and be her friend. You obviously care enough about her and you sound really concerned. Let her know that. Tell her you love her and stuff like that. Try not to let her be alone if you can. Good luck! xox
I have this freind and I have known her for about 2 years now. She is getting to be very braty and braggy. She is sooo spoiled and gets everything she wants. And like just the other day she was like complaining about the number of presents she got. I am so sick of putting up with her. But we have like a group of people ( about 7 ) and we do everything together. I dont know what to do, becuaes it is impossible to avoid her! Please help, I rate!
Unfortunately, there is always gonna be one of those kinds of people. Well, you have a couple options. You can talk to her and tell her how your feeling. Don't be all snotty like "we all know you're spoiled rotten so don't shove it in our faces!" Be more calm and nice about it. You could also talk to your other friends and see how their viewing the whole situation. Do they see her as you are? Or do they not notice? If they all agree, maybe you could all talk to her together. If they don't, maybe it's not as bad as you're making it seem. Try putting up with it for a little bit longer, dont talk about her behind her back, and try to ignore it. If your friends dont have your back, I wouldn't say anything too dramatic because she could turn them all against you and then you'd be out. Good luck xoxo
What are kickbacks and lunges? and what part of your body do they help? thankz! i will rate if u like!
kk well i don't know about kickbacks, but I do know about lunges. It's where you take one leg and bend it kinda like you're sitting in a chair and the other leg is stretched back behind you as far as it goes. In other words.. it's like when you're walking, the foot forward you just bend down and keep the back leg straight. Usually you do this to warm up for things such as track and you walk across the whole gym or something. And here's a tip***** DO THEM REALLY REALLY WELL BECAUSE I PULLED A HIP FLEXER LAST YEAR IN TRACK BECAUSE I DIDN'T DO MY LUNGES VERY WELL!!!! And that is extremely painful! It hurts to walk or run or anything. So yeah, I hope I helped. xoxo Love ya
so here's how it goes... i have this friend, who wansn't really my friend for that long, but now she is taking over the "group" i hang out with. personally, i dont like ehr that much and some friends dont either.. but it still seems like she it taking over. she thinks she's so cool.. its driving me crazy...she acts like she has a boyfriend who's older more mature and we all no she doesn't have one. and its not just like she's taking over she likes to seperate some of us.. like she invits some but not ohters. and seems like she especially competing with me for friends..... bye the way i'm female in 7th grade..PLEASE HELP
If none of your friends like her why dont you stop hanging out with her? But just try your best to stick it up and don't talk crap about her. That will just make things worse. Maybe you should start having people over and invite all your friends over. That way it isn't up to her to split everyone up. I'm sorry I couldn't help more. I always have that same problem and I never really know what to do. xoxo
I like this guy Brian, and he likes me back. He doesn't want to ask me out though because he thinks asking people out is dumb because then they never really do anything. I can see where he is coming from but I mean com'on! Well my friend was talking to him and she was agreeing with him on everything about hot you never go out and you stop talking, and I mean i guess it's kinda true. But I really want him to ask me out! So it's kind of like she is working against me. Then after she said I should be thankful for her even sending me the conversation, which was totally useless because all it did was make me upset. What should I say to her to make her realize how I'm feeling? By the way I'm in 7th grade.
Geez, that sounds just like how our relationships are!! haha, well if you know he likes you, stop waiting for him, just ask him yourself! As for your friend, just try talking to her and tell her how you feel. Don't get all up in her face though, you want to be calm. Don't yell at her because maybe there is a piece of the story that you're missing.
My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal?
Yeah I think it's perfectly normal. But I don't think you should say anything to your friend about still having feelings about him. It would just make things worse. Try the best that you can to move on and go on liking other guys. It will work out okay.
Ok I'm going into high school next year, after 10 years at my other school, and i knw its gonna be different but what if the people don't like me there and since i'm not the smartest person what if the people make fun of me a lot(i mean my friends at my last school just dissed me but that was a joke) i mean i'm in all really dumb classes for dumb people and all of them are in smart classes for smart people, and what if i can't get my locker open or what if i get picked on a lot.... please help, confused
I'm sure you'll do fine there. And I highly doubt you're in all "dumb classes for dumb people." A lot of freshman classes are already required so you'll be with plently of people you're age. To help make friends, you can join some extra-curriculars. Maybe try taking up a club or two and meet people there. You could also do sports and I'm sure you'll meet some really cool people through that. As for the locker part, I suggest not even having a lock on your locker. That way you don't have to worry about forgetting your code or how to use it or something. Good luck and I hope everything works out okay!!!
Hey i'm 14, 5ft 1in and 124 lbs is that like way bad I mean am I super Fat, i've always thought i was going to grow into my body but it hasn't worked yet. should I become bolemic, or anirexic or what because i've tried diets before and those don't work for me and i'm in like 4 sports right now so what should I do???
I think you should like you are doing great (with the sports and everything). Definitely NOT become anerexic or bulimic in any way. According to www.am-i-fat.com, it says you are the perfect weight. (I put in your height and weight to see what it would say). If you don't believe me, try for yourself. If you're really unhappy with your weight, you can always try to eat healthlier and cut back on the snacks, but it sounds to me like you're doing just fine.
what do i do?
-Scott Nash :)
Hmm, Scott, well I'm gonna need more info on that before I can help you. What are you crazy about? Give more details and ask again later.. sorry i couldn't help more
hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0
OMG! Please don't hurt yourself! OF course people wouldn't notice!! That's over 15 pounds!! 115 is not a bad weight at all and if you really wanna lose weight, there are much healthier ways to do it. Eat healthy and exercise.
I find myself really attracted to gay guys. They are very cute and a lot of them are so sweet! And they're funny and fun to be around! Is this abnormal? Since they are feminine, does this make me not straight? Can someone please help me??!!?!
Hmm... that's an awkward question, but I would say it's kind of weird (from my perspective). I don't really know if that makes you gay (do you like women??). I would try to stick to the straight guys because I don't think you'll be gettin a gay guy. Sorry!
ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16
Oh geez. Um, well I would probably not get into a relationship with Ben seeing as he seems to have a lot on his hands. And about this 22 year old.. I think that is too old. That's just my opinion and it's ultimitely up to you, but I don't think that a 16 and a 22 year old would mix very well.
Im 5'4 and I weigh 115 lbs. Im going to be in 11th grade this year so im 16 yrs old. I cant help to think im fat. Im not trying to be annoying but its so true. I stress my self about it EVERYDAY! My friends tell me "im so skinny, I have a tiny waist and big boobs " thats them talking. I want to believe them I just cant I look in the mirror and see disgust, Hatful FAT! I want to just accept my body. How can I feel better about myself? Please Ill take any advise. Its just been giong on for so long and Im tierd of worring day in and day out! I have other things to worry about like helping my mom with her boyfriend But thats a whole other story.
115 pounds?? Are you crazy?? That's not fat at all. You sound totally skinny. I wouldn't do anything. If you're really insecure, try exercising or pick up a new sport. But don't do anything that could hurt your body cause that isn't overweight.. trust me.
my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
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5 Pounds? That's nothing. I mean, it's summer and everyone probably ate alot (on vacation and stuff). I'm sure he won't even notice. And you said he wants to go out with you anyones, so it must not be much of an issue. If he says anything about it, he's just a jerk.
Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!!
Well sisters are obviously going to fight. I'm sure you'll be fine by tomorrow morning or something. I wouldn't worry too much because things like this happen all the time.
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In like two weeks im going to be a freshman in high school.. what can i do to stay organized.. ive never open a locker lock before and i was in the same school for 9 years before this.. can u help me and give me some tips on how to stay organized??
Get shelves for your locker, organize your books so they are in the order of your classes, get an assignment notebook and write down everything, don't throw trash or old papers in your locker, throw them away or keep them in a folder. Hope that helps!
i want a relationship .. but i dont know i wanna meet someone from a different place not from my home town unless their new .. they are all fake and i want someone who likes me for me .. not because i have a "fat ass" or because im skinny or what not .. but for my personality .. is that highly impossible or am i looking in the wrong places? ive stopped looking and ive heard it appears when you least expect it .. but guess what IT DOESNT WORK .. PLEASE HELP!
I believe it is quite possible for a guy to like you for your personality. But who knows? Maybe someone likes you and you don't even know it! You do have to be patient though. Your chance will come and you'll be happy you waited.
OK well i have the biggest crush on this boi and he's my bestfriend i talk to him about everything and we have known each other 4 like 2 years now.he was going with this girl 4 like 10 months and she broke up with him and wont even talk to him or anything.and he's alwayz telling me how she broke his heart and how he's trying to get over her and so on.but ya i really like him and he knows it to but i guess he's trying to avoid the subject and he like telles me everything and after i told him he acts the same and tells me about others gurl and i guess i act like i dont care but i do cause im not gonna be sitting there acting like it does bother me well ya but what sucks the most i go with his bestfriend and he likes me alot but when im with him i wish i was with (lets call him john) john so ya it sucks very much and i dont think he likes me but he said he just wants to be friends and he doesnt want to lose my friendship.so i dont know what to do about my feelings.
I don't think it's fair to the guy you're with if you continue the relationship. I most certainly wouldn't want anyone to do something like that to me. So break it off with him and just wait for *John.* He knows your feelings and he'll act upon them when he feels he's ready. Maybe it won't ever work, but at least you told him how you felt. Just give him time as well, since he just got out of a relationship. He may not want to rush into anything.