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Yo YO Yo! My name is Julie and im 13/f. I love to listen to music andhelp my ffriends out with there problems! You can e-mail me or IM if you dont want to post a problem, ill help with anything, but i wont say i have the best advice in the world. I love to hang with friends and do stupid stuff, im such a dork =D! In the picture i have im the one in the blue and the other girl is my bestest friend in the world!

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E-mail: o0cheerup0o@yahoo.com
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Last Update: November 19, 2005
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i used to cut but i stopped. i hardly ever did it, like, maby once a month, i dont know. but whenever im really upset, i feel like doing it, but ive tought my self to not cut and read the bible instead. but i feel like i should still talk about it. noone ever found out and i dont want annyone to ever know, but im wondering if theres some type of email or something where it can stay a secret. thanx i rate high

Well I duno about any e-mail or anything. But what i do is get a notebook and color it do what ever you want to do with it. And when your real happy or crying your eyes out, just have feelings you want to share with someone write in there. Like a Journal or a diary, Its helpful and that way you dont have to worry about trusting anyone with your secrets.

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hey my hair's brown, straight, and highlited. i ALWAYS wear it down because i don't know what else to do with it. does anyone know any good hairstyles that would look attractive in front of boys? please help! also, my hair islayered, and it's about 1 and a half inches below my shoulders. a lot of people's hair just fall in to place when they put it up, but mine doesn't for some reason. it just sticks straight out. i don't know why, because it's not frizzy or anything, it's just smooth and soft.
i rate high for good answers!

Try scunching your hair.
Everyone i know that has tried it looks great on them and its simple and easy and doesnt take a long time either!

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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age?

yes, most 15 year olds have had the first kiss. But its okay if you havent, everybody is different. Most guys dont really care and they dont think its a turn off. No it isnt stupid either!!

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my dads in prison for beating up my mom and for possesion of drugs he has asked to see me i really miss him even though his done wrong should i go and see him or not for all the misery his put my family in.

He is your father, and you should go and see him, if you really miss him!

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hey guys i didnt know what to put this under but, i want to get a tan this spring break since im not going anywhere. the thing is m, my mom doesnt want me to go in a tanning bed. what are some ways i can convince her to let me go? thanks anyone that replies!

Tanning beds are good for your skin at all they lead to skin cancer and so on if you use them alot!!
You can get a spray tann but i dont know much about them, just you have to get naked in front of someone or a machine :/
Or you can do it the regular way. What till its a sunny day good warm temp. too. Go out in your bathingsuit and layout put good oil suntan oil on you and tann for howeverlong you think is good!

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Would making eye contact a lot and smiling at each other because we are both shy count as liking each other? It's just a simple question that I need the answer to. Please tell me.

I will rate the first people to give me an answer.

I would say yes, but theres always no. But i think yes ;). I think you should make a move, by talking to him!

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I need some nice vintage holey jeans! Where do you think is a good way to find them or how can i get them this way at home? Thanks a bunch!

Well you can buy them like that at hollister or abercombie but they cost around $50 unless you can find them on sale and AE has them to but im not sure how much they cost, you could check out stores like good-will they might have some

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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them

The best/easyiest way i think is to watch a movie - scary is probally the best, - and sit close together on the couch then things should go on fromt there

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How can you slim down your legs? I have big thighs and I was just wondering if there is a way to slim down ONLY your legs.

Usally when your skinny and you have "big" legs there muscle and you probally dont have"big" legs anyways but to get read of some fat you can do leg exerises like kicks and squats look some up on google and SevenTeen mags have exersices that can work for legs every month try looking it there too and eat right, jogging and running help also!

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What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused

padded bra makes you look like you have more then really have and a cup bra has a wire in it and fits your better and makes you look natural

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My twin and I need help finding something to get our boyfriends for valetines day!! we need HELP!! If you have any Ideas PLease Post Them!! Will Rate HIGH if i like them :) Thanks!

Okay get your b/f choc. kisses, and then put a note w/ them saying that for every kiss thats in the bag, you will give them 2 real kisses or 1. Sweet and special ;)

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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people .

I would 1. cuss her out and when -duh- 2. tell everyone the truth and they will hopefully believe her and 3. if you know any of her serects tell them and spread rumors

or you could be nice and 1. talk to her and tell her it isnt right 2. tell everyone the truth

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I was just shoveling yesterday alot and last night when I was sleeping I noticed my back hurt ALOT. Today even when Im typing I cant bend over because it hurts too much. What can I do to stop it from hurting? Please help!
Jacki

something like that happen to my gym teacher! you need to go to the doctor, ER, hospitial to check it out!

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My friend Brittany keeps on lyeing to me and weve been friends scince preschool and just dont wont here to lye to me any more but i stillwant to be her friend. thanxs

Be like hey "dont be lieing!" in a funny way hopefully she will ge tth picture and tell the truth

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hey anyone know of any good sites that let you up load pictures i need good advice thanks i'll rate high.

www.picturetrail.com, www.webshots.com those are the best i think

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i really like this guy...but i am afraid he wont like me and i am friends with his friends and they say he isnt into girls right now...but it feels likehe keeps flirting with me...what should i do?...should i ask him out?
ps. i rate 5's

Okay if his friends says hes not into girls right now then wait a lil longer. If hes flirting flirt back and when you think hes into you a lil ask him out! hope it works out

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What are some good teen sites... Like sites that has quizes, quotes, surveys, place to meet ppl, games and stuff for teen... please hellp..thanks

buddypic.com is a good way to meet people. If your a girl you could try gurls.com or it might be GUrls.co im not sure if theres a differnce

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Well,where should I start? My parents split up when I was 5 1/2. I have moved about 6 or 7 times.My dad doesn't pay child support.My parents call each other retards,bitch,idiot,bastard,loser,and so much more.Now we live in an one bedroom apartment with my grandmother.we don't have enough money for me to buy a skirt or somethin.My mom pretty much depends on me for money.I don't do that good in school either,and i think it's cuz of all the stress.Now i don't no what I should do. SOMEBODY HELP!!!!!!!
.:.Ashley.:.

Well im really sorry! But for some extar money If your 14 or older you can possibly get a job somewhere? ABout school try to do your best and if you dont know something ask the teacher or a friend. You could possibly move in with a relative or someone close to your famil y for a while to get a lil break from the stress!

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My dog is a doghound, (doxen!) and she's drooling and acting a little...hm...WEE WOO WEE WHOO!!
What do you think is wrong??

Hmmm im not sure. The best thing to do if it doesn stop by tomrrow to take her to the vet to see whats wrong!

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Does anyone know how i can find a distance between one place from another like hackensack NJ to garfield NJ?

map quest is great!

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