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well im 12 and i want to have sex i think im ready.. im dating a 19 year old guy and i love him sooo much.. we have done everything except sex and i really think im ready.. but when i turn 13 which is in 2 months im going to a ginocologist and i no they can tell if youve had sex.. but what would i tell my mom?? because she already made me an appointment for June 12th 2005 err i dont know what to do i rate wicked high (link)
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whoah wait your dating a 19 year old.. wow thats against the law =[ soo i wouldnt because you can get you in trouble and him if you get caught and there is a chance even with a condom or birth control that you can get pregnant.. so i wouldnt risk it!! xOx jiLl
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ? (link)
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i wouldnt consider that abuse.. it seems like he thinks of you more as a friend.. because thats what guys do around there friends they act like that.. talk to him about it and be like stop and stuff.. i dont know what else to say i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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well lets see im 14/f and i like this kid and i dont know if he likes me... i mean ive known him forever.. and i dont no how to comfront him and tell him how i feel and that ive felt this forever.. i really need help with this. i mean hes hott and nice and sweet and everything and i think hes the one.. when i talk to him i get butterflies help me please!!!!
i rate 5`s
brittany* (link)
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well thats a hard one.. i mean like if you like him tell him you do.. or flirt with him
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Ok i really want to go to the movies today with my friend today becasuse its a snowday for me and my mom was like no you cant i dont want someone else driving you that far! And then i got really mad cuz shes just an overprotective evil and i told her i hated her(i really do) and now its so annoying cuz she doesnt understand 1 thing.!
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you dont hate your mom... its just for the moment.. i no what you mean even though my mom isnt overprotective my dad is.. i dont live with him cuz my parents are devorsed but he is only like that because i am his one and only daughter and he loves me and doesnt want anything to happen to me.. xOx jiLl
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Ok, yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he asked me what I want to do on Valentines Day. I'm 13 and he's 14. What should I do on V-Day with him and also------what is something that i should get as a gift 4 him????? Thanx---I rate high!!!!!! (link)
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well you could go out to the movies or something like that and you could get him a chain or chocolate.. or maybe a basket with a bear and it holding a hat or a jersey or like a football/soccerball or something i think that would be cute... i hope i helped xOx jiLl
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I have been dating this kid for 2 months now. He is 17 and i am 15. Before i started dating him he was dating this other girl that was 20 years old and they were engaged. Well a few months after i met this kid he broke up with his girlfriend and started dating me. Well you see hes always going out with his friends and most of the time if he goes to his friends house he doesnt come home for 2-3 days. People that he is friends with and people who i am friends with are telling me hes cheating on me and im dumb for not seeing it. Do you think hes cheating on me? What should i do?
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well it all depends.. if hes hanging out with all girls or something then yeah it is cheating.. maybe he only goes away for 2 -3 days because its far away or something dont believe everything you hear.. confront him and ask him if he is.. and if you can tell he is lying then dump him but if he says he isnt then maybe go to where he goes with his friends and just look and see what they are doing.. umm i hope he isnt =[ xOx jiLl
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How do you know when your in love? When i see this guy i get the butterflies and my heart starts racing. I get all excited and hyper. I can never take my mind off him and i get depressed when i don't see him. He's my boyfriend now, but i just wanted to know if i am really in love.
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well it seems like you are in love.. and thats a great feeling and i think you are in love.. and also you can tell if you can be yourself around him and be able to tell him anything and everything!! soo yes i think you are in love good luck xOx jiLl
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How exactly do you hook up? And what is it? (link)
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well it all depends.. to some people it means like making out and thats like you kiss with tonuge but maybe in your case it means like going out/dating the opposite sex.. but it all depends.. if your dating then you can hook-up/ make out hope i helped xOx jiLl
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I've liked this guy for a while and now he knows it, I haven't told him but he just figures/d it out. So, next week we're going to a party together and everyone who knows us says we should go together and that Josh likes me and he acts like it and says stuff that makes it obvious he does but when I ask him what stage he thinks our relationship is at he was like "Friendship" and I was like "That's it?" and he was like "Friends..getting closer and closer and closer..to the...top..like dating." He says that he does like me but he's not sure about exactly how he feels and all. He's trying to think it all through a whole lot. He doesn't think I know him that much, that I don't know the "whole" him. So, we talk and he said he wants me to come over his house sometime. We've gotten to be very close/good/whatever you wanna call it friends since school started. We're always ALWAYS talking to each other. In and outside of school. Another thing, he likes to talk about my "bubble butt". One day he even played the beginning of "Baby got back" up to "I like big butts and I cannot lie" and he was like "Thats all about you" and I was like "Why?" and he was like "Big butt". So the other day, we were talking about the party and he was like "How freaky and crazy do you get when you dance?" and I was like "Depends on how hyper I am" and he was like "You should eat a lot of sugar before you come" and I was like "And why is that?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed. So then I said, "Are you gonna dance with me?" and he said, "Of course," then he said, "I need a girl with hips" and I laughed. Then he asked me what I was going to wear and I said I didn't know and he said, "You should wear a real tight skirt" and I was like "Why is thaaat?" and he was like "I don't knoooo" and I laughed again.
Me and him are always flirting no matter what, always talking and we talk about anything and everything and he comes up to me a lot at school just to talk to me. Even when we're in a group, we always manage to all behind or go ahead of the group just caught up in talking to each other. One day, we fell behind our group after lunch and we were goofing around in the hall and I pushed him and he pushed me and I pushed him and this boy behind us was like "Hey Josh, quit flirting with your girlfriend and get to class before you're late" and he just smiled slightly and looked from the boy to me, then we kept walking. I don't know, it's like there's some kind of connection between us that everyone else around us sees.
Another thing, I asked him if me and him were locked in a room together(we'd been asking each other hypothetical questions) would he want to make out with me and he said "Whatever you felt okay with" and he asked me "Would you want to?" and I was like "Yeah" and he said he'd want to, too. We also talked about once he got a new bike(not bicycle) that he wanted me to come over and ride with him.
I'm not sure what to do. I really want to hook up with him but I'm just so confused. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks of my situation if you could, thanks so much and I'm sorry this thing was so long. Anyone who actually finished reading it and still wants to reply, you are very patient and I really appreciate it. Thanks. (link)
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omg that is sooooo cute!! he deff likes you and you should ask another hypothetical question and have it say "do you think we will go out any time soon" and see what he says i think that will work you two seem like youd be cute together... good luck xOx jiLl
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Ok, heres the deal...I have liked a certain someone for a year now. We dated before and blah blah but I still like him a LOT and I have been getting the vibe that he likes me too. Well, our school is holding a Sadie Hawkins dance for Vday. And I want to ask him. But everytime I think about it my heart races and I get all nervous and stuff. How should I ask him? Thanks in advance. (link)
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well i think maybe you should write him a note saying how you feel or if you think that will scare him off just stick with the note asking him to the dance thing.. i hope it works..or if you dont wanna do that just have a friend ask him for you hope i helped xOxjiLl
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help! (link)
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aww its okay.. your 13 you will get one soon..just show yourself differently maybe to guys still be yourself, maybe try a new look r flirt with guys at your school.. and you will get one and i think its better not to have many bfs because that means mr.right will come to you faster... thats what i always say xOx jiLl
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I have a boyfriend who is abusive. He doesn't hit me.. but he makes me fear him. He's always telling me that my best friends don't like me and that i'm not as special or great as i think i am. When i ask him why he would say that because it really hurts he says that it's the harsh truth and i need to realize it and stop being such a poser. I'm also bisexual and he tells me that i say that to fit in.. that that isn't really who i am. he thinks he knows me so well but he really doesn't. Normally i wouldn't put up with this kind of stuff, i'd break up with him, but the problem is is that i really really love him. For a year we went out on and off 7 times.. this is the 8th. He's the one who always persued me and the one guy i always knew loved me. he's never treated me like this before and it scares me and i don't know what to do because i miss him.. the guy he was.. the guy who would run away with me.. the guy who loved me.. i don't know what to do and i don't think i'm strong enough to leave him.. please help
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oo hunn get him some help.. i think he needs it.. i think hes trying to tell you to get him help!! try that or talk to someone about it like a school theripest.. or if your outta school your mom or just some you know like a best friend//but i would deff get him help..also if that doesnt work id tell him how you feel... or i no you cant do this but i think you should break up.. i no it will be hard but if you dont want to be abused like that then leave him i.m me at jilliix3 if you needa talk or anything good luck xOx jiLl
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okay i been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months..and i love him so much but i have a big big big jealous problem..like he use to go wit this girl tori a month before he got wit me which really was jus his booty call..but like he talks about her sometimes and he knows how my ass is i get really mad and i say shit lik go fuck her den and shit even tho i know he's not going too and he cant cause she lives in atlanta.. but like even when he talks to girls at school as friends i keep it to myself but i get jealous and i know its not cool cause i dont wanna be like that cause i mean i have so many guy friends and i cant say shit to him bout it and i dont want to..And i also trust him alot and i dont think he's going to cheat on me..or break up wit me for another girl and i know it also has to do wit him bein a guy..but i jus want some advice on how i could not get so angry or upset when he says something.. ive tried to get him to like not say it to me or around me but that dont help.. so if you have advice please give..i rate high..thanks *ThugGirl041790* (link)
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well you should talk to him about it... maybe he only does it cuz he see`s you talking to your guy friends... maybe thats it.. talk to him and see what he says. good luck xOx jiLl
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ok, i have a cold sore on the outside of my mouth, like right in the corner, and it seems to be getting bigger and it hurts even if i laugh and it bleeds, if you can help me i would greatly appreciate that, and i have already tried this abreva stuff and it doesent work for me. (link)
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well maybe you should ask your mom or dad.. or go to CVS and ask what they think would work.. umm i dont know my cold sore medicines but i think you should ask your parents or who ever you live with xOx jiLl
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well one mornin i woke up and my boyfriend was standing over me smiling! I asked him how he got here and my mom said that he could come to say hey to me. I knew that i wanted to break up with him but i don't know how to. He is always interrupting me and 1 time he was trying to have fun w/ me. How can i break up w/ him w/out him hatin me! B4 i knew him well he would make fun of me. Should i still go out w/ him? I really don't want him to make fun of me! Thanx!!! (link)
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hmm this is hard!! well you should tell him to lay off a bit and see what happens.. or if you just want to dump him you should say "i dont want to go out anymore because us going out might ruin our friendship" but you said something about that he used to make fun of you??? well then that makes it harder..i wouldnt have gone out with him if he made fun of me in the 1st place.. tell him how you feel and say like that you want to see other people because you want to be with him any longer.. hmm i dont really know id stick with telling him that you need a break or tell him to lay off a bit and give you some space for a while.. hope i helped xOx jiLl
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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help? (link)
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why cant you trust anyone?? you should find someone that you deffenetly can trust.. like maybe someone that you totally dont know.. and talk to them! i know people say like dont talk to people about your problems that you dont know well.. but they can care the most and if they dont no you they can help you.. its kind of like this advice thing!! or call one of those advice line things and talk to someone on that.. i.m me if u need anything jilliix3
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Me and my family have been spliting apart this past couple months, my mom left my dad and found someone else. Im not sure how to accept this because it seems like she left my dad to be with him.but here lately my dads been tryin to but all the pressure of his on me and trying to make me feel bad about it and it works i dont know what to do about it though. (link)
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okay.. talk to your dad and tell him not to make you feel bad because you didnt do anything.. and ask your mom maybe if she only left your dad for that guy.. and talk to her about your dad.. my life was kind of like that except my mom didnt find someone right away.. but if u need to.. i.m me and we can talk jilliix3
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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
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you can not be prgnant unles you had sex.. its impossable.. ((and why would he wear a condom if u were giving him a handjob that makes no sense)) oo well but you are not pregnant xOx jiLl
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Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..
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if your parents really love you they wont get mad or anything if you tell them!! if my kid told me he was bisexual i wouldnt care theres nothing wrong with it.. and find someone that is busexual and if you really like him go for it.. xOx jiLl
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i know it's still possible to get pregnant when you have your period, but say someone has sex during her period, preferably near the END (and still wears a condom) will that lessen her chance of conceiving? or is there a certain day where you are highly likely to get pregnant? (link)
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that is the only time you cant get pregnant is when you have your period. i dont know if there is a day but you cant get pregnant if you have your period
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