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Ok so I am 16 and I am in love with a 15 year old!!! is that wrong? I mean he really likes me as well as I like him and I cant stop thinking about him, is it wrong for a 16 year old to date a 15 year old that is about to turn 16 in 5 months???

No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

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My best friend and i never told lies to each other when we were younger but now were both 14 things seem like they changed she's constantly lying to my face and i can't figure out if she's telling the truth or not anymore.What should i do i mean we're both going to different high schools next year and i still want us to be friends...???
-signed
no more lies

Hmm * Talk to her about it. That's all you can do. Just tell her it hurts when she lies and sometimes if you look her deep in the eyes you can tell what's the truth and what's not * Good Luck. I wish i could help more =(

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Right now in my life, I cant trust anyone and it feels as if there are so many conspiracies going on behind my back. Like everyone in the world is against me and its just sooo frustrating. I just dont know what to do. Can anyone help?

Yes I can. This could be be jus` a phase. Or you could be suffering from paranoia. Either way, I think you should talk to someone about it! Like someone you can talk to.. Good Luck!

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I think I am loosing my best friend. She has been hanging out alot with someone else, and when she isnt she always has excuses. she isnt the same person, i know she has to change, but i mean- she is obsessed with her weight and eating. Im not really worried about that though, i just miss her. what should i do? just forget about her?

No, do not forget about her. She is your best friend. And if you truly love her, then you would not give up on her that easily would you? Well, hmm* Try talking to her. See what she has to say about it. Find a day when she is not busy & spend a day out together. Then jus` talk about what has been on your mind. Maybe she has been busy or something. I have heard this from my high school friends a lot, they say sometimes people jus` drift apart. Rather it be slowly or rapidly. Maybe it jus` happens. But still, try talking to her. =) I hope I helped!
-Melody

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i know it is long, but i need the help!


i have this friend that i really like that has been my best friend since second grade! his name is Dylan. he is kinda chuby. but that doesn't matter to me! i really think i am starting to develop a thing for him. the only prob is that i live in Kansas, and he lives where i used to live, Arizona. i am in 6 grade now. and he was the first friend i ever made when i moved to AZ. i really really lik him! i got a phone call from him last night and i haven't seen him or talked to him for like 9 months. and out of the blu he jjust called me. i really miss him ! what should i do? plez help if you haven't alresdy fell asleep!

*haha -I didn`t fall asleep. No, ok:.
1.) 6th grade - Im only in 8th but still. You don`t need to worry about this. YOu have a lot to live for and a lot goin for you cept boys.
2.) other guys will step in so no worries
3.) Long distance: never work

So yea.. Jus` be cool. I am sure you can do better anyhow*

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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space.

I do it.. or did it to. I still do. But it helps now that my friends have told an adult. IT`s best in the long run. Your friend may be mad now, but in the long run she will thank you!*
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Buh Bye

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Ok....i am a sex queen...i mean i am the best of the best i screw all the time and guys love it...but i have aids std's and maybe other things wrong with me should i tell the guys b/4 i screw them

Ur sexy friend u did last night

I hate you-
I hope you die of aids-
lol* jus kiddin! Nah- keep on screwin em`
hahaha. They will never know* WEll, they will know eventually- I love you hunnii*
Melody-

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k..my friend is out of town right now and i like her boyfriend..the other day we madeout in his truck when he drove me home..and we've been hanging out a lot since she left for thanksgiving..i feel really guilty but i just cant get him off of my mind..i like him way too much..and i dunno what to do!..i swear im gunna end up going crazy..what should i do??

Oh my gawh...* i thinkk u shuldnt date him. he's ur bestfriends BOYFRIEND!!!**

bad idea
i wuldn't do it

gooD lUCk!

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what if uike a girl who dosn't like u?

The best thing i could tell you .. would be to move on.. But if you are truly in love with this girl then I would say work to get her!! ANd dont give up.. If she is available then Ask her out sometime.. See how it goes. Let her get to know the real you. If it doesn`t work then it wasnt meant to be. But go0d luck!*
Melody-

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i get so jealous when i see someone that's really pretty- it makes me feel as if i'm ugly...what should i do?

no 1 is perfect! every1 has skeletons in their closet or what ever ya know. Just think of the postive things and qualities in urself and think of urself as beautifil. Just remember their is always sum1 prettier and uglier if u know wat im sayin good luck..rate me!
*MElody

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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

sounds to me like sum1 likes u! lol* but u really cant be sure. If that was the last time u'll ever see it then dont worry about it. But, if u do then just confront him. If he is a jerk and has a jerky answer then just ignore him. Just ask him straight up. I hoped i helped.
\mL/
Melody
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself

well do wat u think u should do. I think that might help. But if u ask me id go for it if u think he likes u. Im sure u have ur own reasons for stuff and ud know best. But id say GO FOR IT!*mELoDY

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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*

LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü

well it's actually really hard. Trust me! lOl*
id say to just ask that guy or, well 1 day look really bad to see if he still seems to notice u! lOl* But yea, a lot of guyz r very intimidated by gurls and they do act like lil punks. But id say that wen u meet the rite guy then u should know how and why he feels a certain way 4 u.
*Melody

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I have this one friend that i just met and he's thinking about commiting suicide how do I change his mind? We all care about him and he just won't listen to us! We have told hm that we care about him and would hate to see this happen to him but he just wont listen to us! What do I do? Keep in mind that no matter what were not going to send him to see a shrink!

ok, i cant tell you what to do. But i think that u do need to send him to a phsycologist. Maybe its the best answer for this question. U seem to love him greatly and worry about him so i wouldnt exclude any of my options. IF that doesnt work, then id say the best thing to do would be to talk to your parents or his. OR u could talk to him about it and listen to what he has to say. U never know what could happen. just listen to what he has to say. ANd if that doesnt work then remember u always have other options. IF u need ne more help with this or any other problem just tell me! =)
*GOOD LuCK*GOd_BLEsS*
~Melody~

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like i have 2165468 kids what do i do like i dont like know

well make em smart and send em to an out of state college and get urself fixed!! lol*
*Melody

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h0wdii mel0dy, hehe i'm guessin` y0u already kn0w wh0 this is...
Well me & my husband have been t0gether f0r a while n0w., and he seems t0 never wanna be ar0und me anym0re.. everytime i ask him 0ut f0r dinner, he changes plans, & even s0me 0f my friends have caught him 0ut with 0ther girls, but i can't talk t0 him ab0ut it because he has a tendacy t0 hit.. hard.. im really scared.. what sh0uld i d0?!

Ok, do as the dixie chicks on there song Good Bye Earl. Since i know u cant go to the police. Lol* hope i helped and dont worry ill help ya!=)
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*MElody

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Me & a guy have been friends for like ages, and just this year he seems to take a notice to me, flirt around? and everytime he sees me, he stares?? he recently had a g/f but broke up with her, and i havent talked to him since then, but when i do talk to him, he is just soo sweet & nice... but i dont know if he is leading me on? or does he like me?? i need help... :(

ok you sound like a friend of mine. If u have bn friends for ages then thats great. And if he doesnt have a girlfriend thats great to. If he seems to have taken notice to you, then i say go 4 it. I mean, the worst that could happen would be him saying no. But i'd wait a while b-cuz he did just break up with his girlfriend. But make ur move carefully cuz u dont want to ruin a great friendship. Friendship is more important then a relationship Good Luck!
*MElody

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i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP!

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one of my friends is tryin to loose weight, im gettin kinda worried about her shes already skinny but she thinks shes fat and needs to loose weight couls she be anerixic?i've kinda hinted to her about it bein dangerous but i dont think she's gotten my point she only eats when shes made to and im afaraid she'll get upset if i actuallycome out and ask her(the only things she will drink is coffee and waterand she only eats carrotts .


-worried sick

well u need to point out to your friend that there is nuthin wrong with tryin to lose weight. But tell her she doesnt need to. If she still doesnt listen, then maybe u should tell her about a healthy eating diet. Not starvation. Point out to her that she can exersise and eat healthy. That if she starves herself then she will die! If you are to afraid to talk to her about it. Talk to a parent, guardian, or sum1 older that you can trust. I know its tuff to have a friend that might have anerxia. BUt just stay strong for her sake. IF you need more help, get on the internet and find sum ways that u think can help her. God Bless HEr and good luck 2 u!
*MElody

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whos better simple plan or good charolate
*luv both*

Hmm...well its purrty much up to u....i kinda like g.c betta...but its however u like! so dont ask me! lol* keep em cumin!
*MElody

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