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Q: my computer broke so i have to use my dads computer.. i want to download music but i cant download any programs like limewire.. so i have to download music from a site. does anyone know any sites that let me download music for free and doesnt cause viruses? thanks
myspace.com
purevolume.com
lastfm.com

Q: Like ive never made out with anyone, but i have a feeling or something i might soon at the movies.
Can someone explain to me how to

.. how to start
what to do
and how to end


like im not sure
and please dont just tell me to follow the other persons lead.
thank you
xoxox
kissingbooth.com : )

Q: How do you let go of someone that you absolutely love, but they don't want you anymore?
Time heals all wounds.

Q: does anybody know of greattt layout pages?
please dont say something like createblog. for myspace
http://myspace.com/backtalkk

Q: does anyone know of a website that hosts?
something where i can put up the layouts i make, such as joycrusher.com
xanga.com is good for posting layouts.

Q: is it conceited if you say "im hella nice" or "im so nice"?
No.

Q: Clothing pretty good quality?


i know the style is somewhat like forever21's and delias, sort of.

But is the quality better? because.. i was not satisfied with forever21s.
They're basically all of the same quality. Wet Seal jeans & skirts are usually very well made. Delia's has the best out of all 3, though.

Q: what do ladies think semen taste like and if you are experenced in the field do you spit or swallow?
"Spit it out. Thats nasty. O_o It tastes gross and you could get sick from it."

That girl really doesn't know what she's talking about. Of course you COULD get sick, but you CAN sick from almost anything. The taste isn't that great, but it's not awful either. It's sorta just... blah. As to something semen tastes like, I still haven't discovered a good comparison. As for spitting vs. swallowing I do a combination of the two. It's really up to personal prefrence.

Q: okay i have no idea what to get my girlfriend. i want to ask her what she wants but i hear that's not good to just ask her. i need to just get her something she will like. what should i get her?
How about making dinner? Set up your dinning room all special & fix her favorite meal. That would be really cute. Along with a couple roses, of course. Guys underestimate how much girls truly love flowers. It's a safe bet. A teddy bear would be sweet, but possibly a little too expected. Same with chocolate. But then again, there's a reason they're called the "classic" gift. How about a shirt from her favorite store? A cd or movie she's really into? A photo album full with pictures of the two of you? The possibilites are endless. Good luck & Happy Valentines day.

Q: are girls supposed to buy guy anything for valintines day?
It all depends on the relationship, so it's completely up to you. I personally think the girl should get a gift for her guy, if he's buying her something aswell. It's fair.

Q: What does putting Vasoline/Petroleum Jelly on your teeth do to them? Does it make them shiny or white or what?

Also -- isn't it bad for you to put it on your teeth? If so, why, and if not why?


Thanks!!
Vasoline used on teeth is usually worn during beauty pagents, etc. Contestants wear it to remember to keep smiling, when they close their mouths they can taste the petroleum jelly.. soo they keep their teeth showing. It can be dangerous if swallowed, but nothing too major.

Q: What would happen if you devoured like 3 bottles of pills?
stomach ache, over dose, death, the possibilites are endless.

Q: Valentines Day

not knowing what to get the 17 yr old boyfriend.

not good.

anyone have any ideas at all?

14/f by the way
This is what I said to similar advice seekers...

"Try making him something! It would be really cute, trust me. I'm making my boy a heart shapped pillow with red & white fabric. How about a photo album with pictures of the two of you? A nice tshirt from his favorite store or a bottle of colone would be nice too. Perhaps his favorite movie or cd from his favorite band, if he doesn't already own it. Concert tickets? Sporting even tickets? You could always make him dinner at your house and set it up all pretty. I did that for my boyfriend & I's 5 month anniversary, and it went over really well. For a card you could take construction paper and clip out different things that symbolize the both of you. Like inside jokes or things he's into, etc. Glue the pictures on the paper & make a collage. Whatever you do, I'm sure he'll like. Good luck & have fun. :)"

Q: I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.
In regards to archetecture & scuplting... I really have no clue =/ sorry. But photography is a different story. Go on a roadtrip with a couple friends, go crazy taking pictures. Take pictures of everything! Make a picture montage type-thing of your trip. Some of your friends could model for you, too. I've done this before & it was really fun. All the pics came out great aswell. Sorry if this wasn't exactlay what you're looking for. Good luck!

Q: is it first or second base?
2nd. First is kissing/making out/etc. : )

Q: does anyone know where i can get a part-time job? i'm 15 yrs old, i live in new york. Or, does anyone have any ideas where 15 year olds could work, like in a library or something? thanks
Chickfila, McDonalds, Zaxbys, all icecream stores (ie: baskin robins, brusters), grocery stores, etc.

Those are the job possibilites I know of for sure, that hire 15 yr olds. But it doesn't hurt to ask... so next time you're going by a place you'd like to work, stop in and & ask for an application.

Q: Do any of you have realyl good strategies to keeping calm? I get mad a lot and when I get ultimately mad I can't take it anymore and just burst out crying!
The best advice I can give you is; take deep breaths! That is so important. If it's a certain someone making you upset, leave the area he/or she is in and go into a room by yourself. Calm down in there and don't go out until you are under control. Screaming or hitting a pillow could work too, but that will also make a pretty big scene & we don't want that. Try and relax. Good luck!

Q: hey! i have really curly hair. like locks of curls and they are natural. i need a hair stylr for winter formal. i don't want to straighten my hair though so does anyone have any ideas?
http://www.womensbeautylife.com/albums/Updo-Hairstyles/bride_redbrown_simple.jpg

http://www.hair-styles-fashion.com/hairstyles/files/images/63_3.jpg

http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/pictures/jessica.jpg

Go to yahoo or google & type in "Prom Hair Styles" or anything along those lines. The posibilites are endless.

Q: 14/m

ok so my girlfriend and i have been going out for a couple months and i don't know what to get her for valentine's day. i don't have much cash so it can't be too expensive.

also, don't suggest burning a cd. i did that for her for christmas, and i don't want to look repetitive.

thanks
How about making dinner? Set up your dinning room all special & fix her favorite meal. That would be really cute. Along with a couple roses, of course. Guys underestimate how much girls truly love flowers. It's a safe bet. A teddy bear would be sweet, but possibly a little too expected. Same with chocolate. But then again, there's a reason they're called the "classic" gift. How about a shirt from her favorite store? A cd or movie she's really into? A photo album full with pictures of the two of you? The possibilites are endless. Good luck & Happy Valentines day.

Q: 15/f

Hi, I have the Biore Nose and Face strips to remove blackheads. Is it okay if I cut one of the face ones in half and use it on two separate areas? They are a little big for the areas I need help with.

Thanks! =)
Yes, that's fine.

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