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Q: well tell me this, if you called a friend and left a silly voicemail and thurr SUPPOSINGLY best friend called you up and told you off just for calling a friend and asked why you talk to their friend, and now the person you left a voicemail on the cell wolt even TALK TO YOU, now whatta you do??¿??
well.. i dont really understand your question but.. tell them that you really didnt appreciate them calling and telling you off for calling their friend then they called u back aftterr.. IM me and give me more info.. rach 61221.. lots of love!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: do you ever get tired of giving advice?
hopefully not, cuz i need some : /
my friend always says she hates herself..and i just dont know how to react. i tell her not to and you shouldnt hate yourself..and then the other day when she slept over my house i went into my bathroom and she was cutting her self.should i tell someone? i dont want her to get mad @ me
no.. i dont get tired of giving advice.. i love helping people.. well.. you need to talk 2 her and see whats going.. maybe shes not satisfied with the way her life is going.. and you need 2 understand that shes going through a ruff time and you needa be there 4 her..also.. cutting is not good 4 her.. tell her that u really care about her and that she NEEDS to stop.. if you need 2 talk 2 me IM me.. RaCh 61221.. hope i helped! lots of love!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: do u want to go out with me
uhh.. who is this? lol.. wow!

Q: Like omg im a dork and im like your cousin and im from utah! And like eveytime i get on a dang plane i experience turbuleance and I like freak out I justy dont know what to do and like i really wanna come see you! Give me some help!
LoL love yo cuz...COurtney Sue
lmao.. nice courtizzle!! i'll come pick you up.. then u will experience road rage.. see you in april!! i love youuu!!!

Q: ok, my best friend and i are real close, but when she starts hanging out with her other friend she gets all lyk she thinks she is o so cool and its really aggervating cuz she acts lyk im below her or something ! what should i do?
tell her something.. be lyk you know when me-n-you hang out without *name here* we are really close.. but when we are around you just sort of shut me out.. and tell her that you dont like it and you want it 2 stop.. and tell her how your feelingg... let her know tht shes your best friend but you just dont lyk how she treats you when her other friends are around.. hope i helped!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: WhY aRe Yu sO DaRn PrEtTy?
im really not pretty.. but okay.. thankss...

Q: well me and my friends have been gettin in fights and friends thats i though were my best friends are turning on me and bein bitchy but then the friends that arent as close are gettin closer and closer 2 me!! and i dont want 2 lose my best friends though and im scared! please help me!!

love sad and confussed
well.. you need 2 talk 2 them and let them kno you dont want 2 loose any of them.. and just say you know.. we've gone this far.. y are yall just gonna give up on us now.. tell them its not worth it and try and talk them into staying friends.. hope it helps!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: ok i'm a nerd.... i am your friend but you use to bully me .::worst years sniff sniff::. now you've changes and i'm still nerdy but i like calvin.d. hints about me: tan fat tall and going through pubirty (acne, other stuff) lol should i still like him? or is he too short or out of my league for me? love always b***n b**th*** lol
well.. i dunno who you are.. but looks really dont matter.. you can like sum1 10 times taller than yu and it wont matter.. but.. please IM me and tell me who you are.. hope i helped! ~rachel leigh~
rach 61221

Q: ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
well.. i cant really tell you the TRUTH when i dont know him.. but from what i see.. he does still like you.. he prob. doesnt want anyone to know it so he just keeps it in.. maybe you should ask him yourself!! :) hope i helped and i hope he still lyks you!! lots of loveee!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: (14/f) Everyone thinks I make all my boyfriends up because they don't go to our school.. I don't understand why they'd talk such crap about me behind my back or why one of my 'friends' doesn't even believe me.. it makes me feel like they think I'm not pretty or nice enough to get one and so I have to make one up! Someone please help me.. what should I say?
aww.. your just like me!! my ex boyfriend jordan didnt go 2 my school and i heard that my friends thought i made him up.. just tell them.. okay i def. dont make my boyfriends up and if you cant believe me then you just need 2 find out for yourself.. and get him 2 call them.. hope i helped! if u need more help IM me.. isyournamebilly4!! lots of love!!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: WhY aRe YoU sO dArN pReTtY???
im not.. but yeah.. thanks...

Q: As my title says, my friends tend to be really mean to me. We had a free Spanish period today because there was a substitute, and they ignored me the whole time. They were making plans to go shopping for bathing suits, and go snowboarding with each other, and didn't ask me to join them. One of my friends just randomly tells me to shut up, and she thinks it's just a joke. They tell each other stuff and don't tell me, and then they talk about it right in front me. Basically, they treat me horribly, and I really don't need it from them. What am I supposed to do??
talk 2 them.. and if they dont change.. start hanging out with different people.. and then they will get jealous.. hope i helped! lots of lovee!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: Well, i have this friend, lets call her rachel tuminello, she makes study guides for me, i realy hate her and i want kill her, have any ideas?


HAHAHA

J/K RACHEL!!!!! I DONT WANT TO KILL YOU! *then u wouldent make anymore study guides for me*

-matt
hahahaha matt your so cool... i know you hate me.. and i know you want 2 kill me.. but thts okay... bye

Q: ok, well i have started cutting because of problems i have at home, well now i started to do it for fun, and i dont know why i like to do it, but i do. and its not for attention because know one knows i do it. well anyways, i get urges to do it even when there are no probems at home. i dont know whats wrong with me, i mean i know its wrong and i shouldnt be doing it, but i just love to hurt myself. i need some advice, weather its what i can do to stop, or if you know why i like to do it for fun. plz help
honey.. we all have alot of problems.. but cutting yourself will not help one bit.. it will just make matters worse.. if anyone finds out.. your gonna have 2 explain 2 them whats going on and you might not want 2.. i know your having problems at home.. but theres gonna be WORSE things.. TRUST me.. i know.. hope i helped!! lots of lovee!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: Im 17, and i have a girlfriend. She isent really my type and.. Unfortionatly she is very shy. There is another girl i like very much. She dosent know my girlfriend at all. But i have heard they have had there differences. This other girl i like isent shy and i s very outgoing. I need to know if i should break up with my girlfriend and go out with a more, outgoing girl.
well.. if your not happy you should break up with your current girlfriend.. but wait like a little while 2 go out with the other girl..because then you will be known as a player if u go out wit the other girl like the next day.. hope i helped! lots of love!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: I have this friend that has a cancer but I dont know wut kind and he was doing really well untill the day of my uncles b_day.
We got a call on the phone that said he wasnt doing to well and that they gave him some medicine that they usually give people who are about to die.
I am so worried wut if he dies and we will never be able to see him again.
He is only 17 years old

HELP WANTED.

whatever you do.. DO NOT CRY IN FRONT OF HIM.. that would make him feel worsee.. EVERY chance you have.. pray for him.. god will answer your prayers and send an angel down 2 protect him!! i will also pray for him!!

Q: anyone know any sites i can download free music at if you do please help me thx!
LIMEWIRE.. its soooo fasstt! you can download pictures, videos, music, documents,and programs.. its really cool.. tryy it!

Q: is it just me?...or is it just the way my friend acts?...or are others like this also?..

there is this girl Angie...ive known her for about 4 years already..theres time where were close, like best friends. but lately shes been so annoying!..i get so irritated by her!..juss things she does!..shes so fake! and just doesnt know how to be herself! and she'll be so loud just to get attention!!...

anyone else hate this about someone?!
ahhhh girl... i knoww how you feel!! lol!! just tell her she needs 2 chill out.. and if she doesnt listen.. then you needa point it out when it happens.. lawddd.. i know how it feels 2 have someone aggravatinggg!! haha! hope i helped! lots of love!! ~rachel leigh~

Q: okay im 14 and ive been going out with this guy since November and like i really like him alot but he thinks im really shy but im really not i dont know if he still likes me i never get to talk to him i talk to him on the phone and on aim but i hardly evr get to go anywhere with him i dont know what to do
if you really like him you would talk 2 him.. theres nothing 2 be shy about.. you 2 obviously like each other alot.. he also needs 2 talk 2 you.. and im sure he really likes you if he still talks 2 you.. just trust me.. dont be shy around him.. its okay 2 make a fool out of yourself in front of your boyfriend.. all he will do is laugh.. and so will you.. its pretty funny once you think about it! hope i helped! lots of love! ~rachel leigh~

Q: my friends are liek bring broken apart..2 of my friends r starting to hate each other..and now i am like his best friend cuz he trust me..i also kind of liek him... what do i do?
thats sort of confusing because i dont get how they can bring broken apart.. but i somewhat understand it.. if this is correct.. your 2 friends broke up and they are starting 2 hate each other and now your the guys best friend and you like him.. then you should really think twice about it b/c its your friends EX boyfriend.. maybe wait a little while 2 tell both of them.. because im sure they are both upset about the break up.. hope i helped.. lots of love! ~rachel leigh~ need more help IM me.. isyournamebilly4

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