hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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i thank she out haven sex while she haven my baby she liying about where she going i know that for a fact but i dont know what to do we broke up for a while right now this is the longest its happen aboyt two weeks now but iwas here first and she was my first we rally be though alot she thing people should have to go though when there in love (link)
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ok well this is what i would do, id first confront her about it but you also have to think, you might not suppose to be right for eachother and i know its hard to hear because i fell in love once and i couldnt stand hearing it. talk to her about the baby and tell you you know shes going places shes not saying she is.hmm and if shes sneaking around wouldnt you not want to be with her cuze then theres no trust in the relationship and its basicly based on trust and honisty. maybe you should just have time apart for a bit, maybe she needs to have a break and think things over. i cant really help you after that im sorry this happend to you. first loves dont always work out =(
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this guy i kno i thought he hated me but evry1s saying that he doesnt i think i like him but i dunno if he likes me?
HELP
~Dani~
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ask him. start talking to him and if he seems kinda mean then let him talk to you
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how do u get a guyy top leave u alone??? (link)
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umm.... ignore him, be mean, tell him to stop bugging you and leave you alone and go bug someone else
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when i get older im thinking about like adopting 2 kids and having 2 kids, does anyone have any ideas on why this would be a bad idea? i want to adopt because i dont want all my kids to have the same traits as me, but then i wanna have 2 of my own because having a baby that came from you is..good, right? do you think i would favor the kids i created over the ones a adopted?? suggestions, please??! thank you~~~!!!!!! (link)
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ok well it could be a bad idea about the fact youll have like 4 kids in your house. other than that i think your doing a good thing by adopting kids. have a kid from you can be good, its all on your opinion on it. i mean if you dont want to go through the prgnetcy then you dont have to. but if you want to have a kid between you and your husband at the time go for it. i dont think youd favor two over the others. when you have your own youll grow to it, youll have this special bond that no other could have. the adopted youll have another special bond by knowing you took a life in that someone couldnt afford having with them so they put it up for a good home that could go to yours and be cared like it wouldnt be with its mother. i think its good that you want to adopt two kids, its just two more thatll have a good home and not stay in the adopting center or what ever its called
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My friends popular friends don't like me much, so they told her I said I didn't like her. She believed it and now won't talk to me and I was supposed to go to a dance tonight but now am all depressed in my room. Also she's my one and only best friend. What should I do? (link)
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you need to tell her that you never said anything like that, call her, email her, go to her house, talk to her and tell her that youd never do that and ask her if she thinks youd say anything like that ever, you need to get her to listen and tell her that their liying
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I love to masturbate, I can't stop, and I don't know what to do..should I try stopping? Is it okay to be "turned on" all the time? At least twice a day...im 16 (link)
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dude its normal, you cant help it, do what you will it doenst matter its not hurting you or anyone else so i dont see any problem in it
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hey... im 12F and i have this boyfriend whos 12 and he's the shy type.. im not really the shy type for wen it comes to my boyfriend..but if hes shy i get shy.. and like i really want to try to loosen him up..but how ?..he was my first boyfriend in 4th grade.. and now im in 7th grade i want to makeout with him..but i dont know if he'll be ready should i askhim or not...? please help.. i dont want to be stuck like this...he isnt really the cuddle boyfriend but he always makes me smile and laugh and hes soo cute..thanks a bunch...
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well you could ask him, but i loosen but just being around someone and getting comfterble which takes a little bit. im not sure how to make him loosen up just try diff things, be alone somewhere where no one will bother you and watch a movie or something, ask him before that tho, kiss him something like that. if you need more advice on this, if you have aim talk to me my sn is Devil Kitten 107 ill be happy to talk if youd like to. hope i helped, if you dont have aim then ask another question
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ok so i'm 15 and i really like this guy and he liked me too, for a while, then he changed his mind about me, i still like him though and i want to have a relationship with him. How can i get him to like me again? (link)
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heres what id do, id spend as much time with him as you can and be you. dont try to be anything else but you dont act any diff. thats what id do tho i cant garentee itll work but its worth the try.
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ill make it short..i like this guy and he likes me but i have a boyfriend and my bf NEVER talks to me should i dump my boyfriend?
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yeah! if he doesnt talk to you then hes not even trying to keep you, hes not making any effort and its not right. id dump him, but id wait a bit for the other guy dont go out with him on the same day you dump the other. hope i helped you
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i dont usually wear make up but when i do it's always messed up! how can i put it on better and what should i use? (link)
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it takes time and practice, beautiy takes time, just practice
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OK here deal Me and Bestest best friend both like the same guy((im pretty much over him this is all about my bestest best friend)) BUT he doesnt like ethier one of us like that you kno he likes a lil slutty 6th grader((we are in 7th grade))now my bestest best friend lets call Katie so Katie has a real serious relationship with her current b/f((he got her a real diamond bracelet for chirstmas)) but she likes this guy alot more i really dont kno why but he juss has that chram i mean he is real sweet and stuff i juss dont kno what to do i mean bcuz im worried that Katie might ruin her relationship with her current b/f ((we are real open about this subject so i could talk to her about it)) (link)
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i dont know. tell her that she needs to value what she has with her bf now someother guy, its not right for one and two her bf now seems really sweet and nice. if you need to get that guy she likes with the slutty 6th grade whore, get her over him and get her to spend as much time with her bf as you can or something like that
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me and mi boy frend were at the movies when he started 2 put his arm around me.he moved alittle closer and was about 2 kiss me. i went i have 2 go get some popcorn and a soda.i went home right away.i dont think im ready for that kind of relationship.do i tell him.im soooooooo confused please help. (link)
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yes tell him that your not ready for any of that and that your relationship needs to go slower and go by slow steps or something like that. just tell him "im not ready for this is a relationship yet" or something along those lines
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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please. (link)
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i would just say it. just say something like i like you more than a friend and i hope that doesnt bother you. just ask him if hes happy with his girlfriend. thats what i would do
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I hate school so much and i am trying to get in a new school but i think my principles hate me or something they are so mean to me and i cant stand it! Well I need someones help what would you do if you were in this situation?
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id try to go to another school. if they really hate you then theyd want you out if you can get out. id get away from it all
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omg i dont have that much of bad acne but like its get worst and incressing the party i go to tonight i am just wearing like make up and stuff but when the make ups off whats the best way t o treat it???
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my mom sells marykay make up. i use this acne cream she has and it works like alot. itll suprises you. my friend had a allergic reaction to other stuff and i gave her what i have and its working for her, its the best shes gotten before, and i also have this velocity face wash and that works good too, look it up
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I'm 13 and wondering... (link)
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to pleasure oneself
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HOw can I fix that (link)
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wtf????? youve lost me! what do you wanna fix about it? why do you wanna fix it?
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I was seperated from all my best friends this year. My close friend, my bestest friend, and I are still realy close. But the other friend I met last year is sinking really far into depression. She is always eating and complaining. I have made alot of new friends but she clings to us. Now she is hanging out with all the scary depressed, weird people and won't even say hi to us. She only talks to complain and we always end our conversation with her saying that her uncle was right when he commited suicide... I have talked with my other friends about it but whatever we try she screams at us for. Help? (link)
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is she taking happy pills? maybe she needs some and maybe you could suggest a counsler. tell your school that your worried about her and her saying stuff about suicide, theyll talk to her about it and some people are just like that and dont change. hope i help
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today me and my boyfriend were surpose to hangout...well his parents came home early from work so i was going to go to his house...but then he called me and he said he was going to go buy a game with his older brother real quick and hell be right back and hell call me when he got back...he left @ 2 30 today.....its now 4:20!! i called at 4 but his mom answered and said he still wasnt here...im giving him till 5 to call me....when he calls me later when he does get home and its past 5...what do i say? how do i handle this? its pretty rude what he did.... (link)
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tell him well took you long enough or something, ask him what he did that took how many hours to get, somethign like that, id say somethign along those lines but thats just me, you dont have to say anyting like that if you dont want to
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well i have a boyfriend i care for and weve been together for 9-10 months now and well we dident kiss until about our 4 month together and well now hes kinda starting to want more, see my boyfriend is usto doing stuff and well honstly i havent ever done anything! he tells me its fine but i know he really wants it and i dont want him to cheat on me or brake up with me because of it! hes actually my first kiss and everything... im scared to do more because i dont think ide be good at it lol as gay as that sounds... should i just try it... any advise? (link)
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do what your heart tells you. if you want to do what he wants with him then do it. no one is perfect, youll ge the hang of it. follow what your heart tells you to do. hope i helped
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