Hey im Kelley I love giving advice! I was born in California! I love Cheer Boys especially one in particular and I love Life!
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: October 13, 2005
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We have a school dance this week and i want to sneak my boyfriend in that goes to another school. But i dont know if he wants to go or if i will get into trouble. So should i try to sneak him in and risk going home or not even try?
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well you could try and if you get kicked out just hang with your bf its not like he would get in trouble if he doesnt go to your school. ♥
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okay well i have a major crush.
on this boy jon, and well i need to tell him, but im way too shy. and afraid im going to look stupid !
so yeah can you please help me in a way not to act stupid?
ps hes in my classes and theres nothing to ever talk about. (link)
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ok dont hand him a note because he could use that as blackmail on you and if you seriously just tell him straight up what going on then you wont look like an idiot.maybe ask for sn, email, or anything else and get to know him there and then its way easier to ask online ♥ Kelley
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ive only had two boiyfriends in my life and they have always ended bad..how do i get the right guys to notice me...
im 14 and a female (link)
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same situation is happening right now to me and if you want some tips...
if you like a guy just try talking to him, i thought it would be the scariest thing in the world but there actually really nice.
also ask if they have an sn and get to know them better on aim.
be yourself around guys because if your fake then there not being friends with the real you. dont try to do anything stupid like dumb your self down or dress differently trust me it doesnt work.
i hope i helped! ♥ Kelley
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i need a great theme for our hallway and i am a junior. we really wanna beat the seniors but the seniors have a great idea of doing super mario brothers.... what should we do? any ideas would help! thanks! (link)
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try a disney theme with all the princesses and movies and every character that would be really cool and if not try a hollywood theme that would be cool too or you could try a hawaiian theme. hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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Well I have been dealing with an impulse control disorder called Trichillomania. For those of you who don't know what that is, it's a disorder in which you have impulses to pull out your own hair. Well about a year ago I started pulling out my eyebrows, I have pulled them all out and they have been this way for that amount of time. I keep plucking them out every time a new one grows in. Well now I am in therapy for this and taking anti-depressant medication(Zoloft) which has helped the intensity go away to pull. Now my eyebrows are starting to grow back. It has taken them a week to finally start growing back without me touching them. I was wondering how long do you think it will take for them to be fully grown back in, and is there anything I can do to make them grow faster? Rogaine? I heard it works, but not so sure. (link)
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dont use rogain! it will happen naturally it will probably take three or four weeks for them to grow in fully. but if they dont and only a little bit grows in you can pencil them in with an eyebrow pencil. hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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i like this one guy named tyler. ive never actually really talked to him but i think he is really cute and i really want to get to know him. i have 2 classes with tyler and i dont sit near him in any of them. any ideas on how to talk to him without going too far out of my way?? thanx (link)
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just causlly ask if he has a screen name (if you have aim) and then talk to him there if not ask one of his friends if he does. if your really really nervouse have one of YOUR friends go up to him and be like _______ wants to know if you have a screen name or number. its a great way to get to know him online because its easier then talking in person. ♥ Kelley ♥
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you know the song gold digger by jamie fox and kanye west? well i know this sounds stupid, but what is a gold digger? (link)
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a golddigger is a person who is only interested in hooking up with someone because of their money and not in their perosnality. they usually scam guys or girls into buying everything for them. thats what a gold digger means ♥ Kelley ♥
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I have this problem of disorganization, and handing stuff in late, at school, when I'm like an A+ student, but then sometimes for lateness I get dropped down 5-10 points. I really dont want to get bad grades because of my disorganization, and lack of neatness. My locker is messy, I keep saying that I'll do it tommorow, but never do, and the same with my room. Therefore, I get in trouble with my parents and teachers. A lot of times, while I'm doing homework (especially on the computer) if I'm bored, or not, I always seem to get distracted by something. Even my stories that I write sometimes dont even have any problems in them (not for school though) and I make the characters go off on tangents, like I do a lot of times in real life. Can someone give me some organization tips? All answers will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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labels labels labels if you have a binder and have deviders that are labeled for each class that will help a ton also go to office max, staples, ect... and get a three hole punch that goes in binders so when you get papers in class you dont just shove them in your binder also for your room what i did was i talked to my parents about having weekly chores and getting paid for it, see the catch is your room will be clean, your parents will think your doing great and you get paid in the end. it works awesomly becuase youll always have your room clean becuase if you dont you wont get paid. well i hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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i want alot of honest opinions on these 2 questions.
1)what do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13? Had another bf when she was 14 then had sex with another guy (cheated on her bf) she barely knows the 2nd time they hung out together?
2)what do you consider a guy that screws a girl he hardly knows the 2nd date, knowing she has a bf?? will rate 5s for honesty!! (link)
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1 the girl is a slut and that was a very very bad desicion on her part. she is also a player
2 the guy has no respect for the girl and for her bf. he is also a player and a pig.
i hope thats enough honesty for you! ♥ Kelley ♥
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As dumb as this may sound, I didn't actually realize how horrible it is, when you eat chicken & hamburgers. I didn't actually understand the concept that for me to eat a hamburger, is for an innocent cow to just die. My friend sent me an e-mail with a video about fur trade in China, and how dogs & cats are skinned and killed everyday just for fur. But, it got me to thinking how horrible that actually is. I really have been thinking about it today, and I think just eating hamburgers & chicken is disgusting especially knowing that an animal died for that. I'm really considering turning into a vegetarian. Do you believe that this is a good enough reason to want to turn vegetarian? Thanks so much. ♥ (link)
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thats why most veggies turn into veggies, thats an awesome reason i mean its really cool that you feel for these animals and stuff but if you decide to go veggie you need to get your protein from other sources. make sure you look into all the stuff that goes into being a vegitarian and also you practiclly are changing your whole eating diet becuase many many things contain meat that you dont even know has meat in it so make sure you check out some sites and get your homework done about being a vegitarian. simply your reason is awesome i saw that same video about the animals in china and it was discusting i never buy fur anymore. go for it~ ♥ Kelley ♥
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What do you do if you want to kiss your girlfriend. But you dont know if you are ready (link)
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you only know when you are ready if you really want to then go with your gut feeling if you feel like omg i cant do this then your not ready make sure you really trust your girlfriend and hey its really cool when a guy is nervous becuase coming from a girl its usually stress mania for us so if you make the first move your girlfriend and you wont be nervous hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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i cut....
it's so addicting and i can't stop. i love everything about cutting but i know i have to stop this...
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why do you love it so much? if you cut then you are slowly killing yourself. talk to your parents and if you cant talk to them talk to a very very trusted adult who can help you becuase cutting is so bad and if you dont your gonna die, simple as that. oh also you can look up internet sites about cutting and see what kind of techniques other peopole used to stop cutting hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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I didn't know where to put this, but anyways.
So, Sometimes, I get this thing on my two front teeth. Its like really fugly white like tips and they look sooooo gross and bad. I was wondering if there is anyway to avoid this or like make it go away.
PLZ N THANKS.
I'll rate/. (link)
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its when you dont brush your teeth and usually if you eat something funny that will happen make sure you brush 3 times and day and that wont happen if it doesnt go away talk to your dentist about it ♥ Kelley ♥
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well every morning i straighten my hair and it looks all pretty and perfect but by the time its homeroom it gets all gross and frizzy! and i hate it
any sugesttions?
ill rate 5's :-) ♥ (link)
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use frizee's it works everytime also you can get that at any salon hope it helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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does doing squats really make your theighs smaller? (link)
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yes if you have fat legs but if you dont have fat legs it makes them more muscular which kinda makes them bigger but its good cause its in muscle ♥ Kelley ♥
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ok thers this boy i like, hes rele nice, and he knows i like him and i sorta asked today of he liked me through a note and here are some things i noticed:
1. he anwered the note quickly, like he knew exactly what he was gonna say
2. when he was leaning in his chair, he said that if he fell he would hold onto me (it sounded so romantic when he said it)
3.when the bell rang, he waited for me in the stairwell
4. when we were walking down the stairs, he was wlaking close to me, even though there was plenty of room
5. in last period, he offered to switch seats with the person next to me and kept touching my hand the whole period, he kept saying it was an accident but i dont think it was.
does it seem like he like me? i have a really strong feeling he does but i need it to be confirmed. will rate! nellie (link)
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read those 5 things you just said again to yourself you dont need 10000 advice columnists to tell you that he likes you ;) you know its ture so just make your move girl! ♥ Kelley ♥
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Ok well there's this guy at my skool who acts like a total retard...like all the time..he's mature looking but he acts immature. Well he likes me...and he's always going out of his way to get in my face and act retarded...literally..im not just usin retarded as a way to say actin like an idiot! Like I never even noticed him until he started appraochin me and,,at first I was like ewww...but now im so0o confused..it's like i cant wait till I get out of my class to "run into" him in the hallway....idk if I like him or what..like it's so wierd...i think about if he were to ask me out..nd my first reaction would be no..but then why do i think about him and want to see him??? I'm really confused and I'll rate 5's if you even try to answer my question! thx! (link)
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your probably like him inside but usually you act like, "omg hes such a retard" because at first instinct you wouldnt want people to be like eww shes likes him! you get what im saying?? well anyway if you actually talk to him and be like your imatturatly level isnt there yet and if you matured a ton more then a ton of more people would like you" sort of thing.. well i hope i helped if you have any more ?'s feel free to drop me one in my box ♥ Kelley ♥
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Ok, so I have a friend, Trevor. He's everything that anyone would want in a guy.. Curly blonde hair, big blue eyes, a 6 pack, smart as poindexter, nice, funny, and he plays any sport under the sun: Tennis, Basketball, Football, Badminton, Cross Country, and Surfing. I used to have a crush on him a couple months ago, and he had a crush on me, too, but at the time he had a girlfriend. Then about a month later it seemed as though our feelings for eachother totally went away. Then one day we were talking on the internet, and he recently found out that I asked out a person from our tennis team, Marshall. He asked me, "Are you going out with Marshall?" and I go, "No, but I asked him out" and he totally freaked out about it and seemed mad at me because I did it..
But my question for you is: Does he still like me? Does he still have feelings for me? When we talk to eachother its normal - we're friends. But when I have a crush on someone, its a whole different story.
Thanks to anyone who read this long entry. :)
Please help me..
W0RLDWiDE SiGNALS (link)
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well he probably just gets jelous because if he had a crush on you he probably wont let you know and jelousy is sort of his way of letting you know. ask him straight up if he still likes you if so then thats cool cause if you still like him! if not then just ask him why he gets mad when you tell him that your going out with someone. it will all unfold in the end. hope i helped (if not its because its like 12 at night and im really tired lol) ♥ Kelley ♥
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I need an easy-to-make snack because Im very hungry and its only 2:30 and I eat dinner at 7! But, Im sort of trying to eat healthy. I had salad for lunch so i dont want that. But I was thinking possibly cheese and crackers? Please tell me some healthy choices that would fill me up! (link)
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well i would say to have some celery and dipped in peanut butter and believe it or not popcorn is actually a really healthy snack also pretzals are a good snack to eat. hope i helped if you have any other questions drop one in my box ♥ Kelley ♥
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Ok I like this boy that I'm like best friends with. Well today online I was gonna tell him that I like him. I was in a chat with him and 2 other friends. I was aksing who i should like. Well then my cpu broke. i didnt see the rest of the chat. Well it ended up him telling one of my friends that he likes her and I was just about to tell him that I liked him right before my cpu broke. Now he likes my friend and I'm really sad. How can I get him to like me?
I need Advice fast!
I rate 5s for most people (link)
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most definatly your friend is lying i think she just said that so that she could have him all to herself so just fight for your guy tell him that you like him who knows he could like you back? i hope i helped ♥ Kelley ♥
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