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he went away and it feels kinda different... what can i do its stressing me
Well im not going to make this so long, basically i met this guy first week of july and such and we clicked on perfectly we started seeing each other till now but its not official yet, i went away on holiday for 2 months and we continued to stay in contact which was perfect... So i came back and he went abroad for almost a month and he got back just yesterday we've only spoken today and such but it feels so different like hes been blunt and stuff (were both from the same country) and i know he loves when hes back home its like his happiness i can tell.. however his ex girlfriend is there too which makes me so paranoid i cant explain it, but i do trust him i have this gut instinct that makes me think he saw her there i dont know why because even though he just texted me today he was acting really cold to be honest.. he kept calling me by my full name lol i dont know why he never does that, like we have been taking things slow but its like im getting my hopes up so much its kinda making me sad and i dont want to rush anything cause bare in mind its only been 3 months since we met, and he didnt take his phone abroad because mine wasnt working so he thought there wouldnt be a point if he couldnt communicate with me. I thought he would say he missed me or something hes acc very closed about his emotions he never really opens up..i know every guy is different but i just wish when were not together he showed more of an interest.. we dont talk as much during the day because were both so busy he works and i study but when were together its a completely different story. I think i overthink things too much but then i have other guys who treat me the way i wish he did, bare in mind he does make me happy im only saying this because since he arrived even tho its only been a day i feel like hes acting really weird with me and i dont know what to think or feel.. i feel like i have been getting my hopes up so much ahhh im so confused really its so hard to explain
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