Ok so im 14/f and ive liked this guy who I will call sam since july 2012 so like 11 months pretty much. Weve had a really complicated past but we have become great friends and now we kinda flirt like alot and stuff. Hes 13 but I treat him as if hes the same age as me. Tomorrow we have planned and arranged to hangout for a bit. Im kinda super nervous because we havent hungout since october but even in october nothing happened (we only hugged and held hands) and we were with 2 other people. So he has told me that hes gunna kiss/ makeout with me and he wants to. I want to aswell but im so nervous that I might spaz and pull away. Im so nervous that ive been feeling sick and crying. I really like him and I dont wanna fuck anything up. Hes my best guy friend and weve never hungout alone. Im so scared. Ive kissed and madeout with other guys but ive never felt this way. What can I do to calm down and what is your input on this?
chalese answered Saturday June 8 2013, 3:31 pm: ok ive felt this way before as well but if you really like this guy dont just think about a kiss see if he want to be in a relationship with you because most of the time at this age they just want to kiss you and call it that so be carefull... with the nervous part its ok hes most likely as nervous as you are so just flow with it dont go to fast and make sure he wants the same as you ok... wish the best [ chalese's advice column | Ask chalese A Question ]
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