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Doubting feelings
K so a few months ago, there was this thing between me and a guy at school. He lead me on and and I initiated some as well, and he also made further plans if we could go in a date and stuff. But when it came closer to the date, a few days before it he cancelled and bailed on me and said that he just couldn't go through with it at the moment cause he still had feelings for this girl that he never went out with. So of course I felt hurt and disappointed , but eventually I moved on and find give a crap about him. But then today, he came up to me after weeks of talking to each other and asked if we could talk. He said that he did a lot of thinking and that he wanted to give us a try again and said that he was really sorry of what happened.
So he asked if we could go on a date, and of course me not wanting to say no and disappoint him I said yes... It was a spur of the moment kind of thing . So now here after a few hours of thinking I just don't have a good feeling about it.. Like now I just keep doubting that I may not have that same strong feelings for him as before ... Help !
P.s that girl and him never went out and he supposedly told me that that girl now has a boyfriend and that he and her are now on good terms and are friends
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I think that you should be truthful with him. If you don't feel that strong connection to him, then tell him. Otherwise you're just leading him on.
If you want to go on a date with him, then go. But if you are unsure and you think that it might be too soon, the you should let him know. Maybe start off with going out to breakfast or getting coffee. You don't have to rush into these things. If you want a relationship with this guy then take your time and TAKE THINGS SLOW.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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