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My messed up love life and never ending wait..
All right so my story starts like this.
So I have been liking (and now, close enough to loving) a guy right from 2010 when I first met him. We ended up in two different places. He started becoming close to me, but he had a girlfriend in 2010. I liked him, anyway. We becaame close friends. And it only grew stronger. To be true, he was attracted to me even while he was in a relationship. I told him I like him. We used to text almost everyday. We even sexted and flirted, sometimes. And his relationship started faltering. (because his girl was also in a different place, long distance problems) It ended, finally this year, and he was heartbroken. He started getting over her. I went to his place to meet him, by this time, because he was single, I was free of guilt and we made out, many times. Also, he cares about me a lot and considers me to be one of the closest. We fought a lot, but ended up resolving issues everytime. Our sexting, flirting, caring continued. He told me he really likes me but since he has just gone through a bad long distnace, he cant do another one, and he doesnt want to hurt me. He thinks his ex has been a bitch. Yesterday I asked him what is the most beautiful thing in his life, and he asked me the same thing.I said 'it's you' and he was shocked. He said 'I am a bad guy, I hurt you, why do u like me etc' I got mad over him. He apologized to me and said because he feels guilty about me having given given given and he thinks he has not been able to give me what I deserve ( a relationship) but he loves it that I am there and that 'I am dam important to him'
So basically I like this guy and I have waited for him too long. I have given him unconditional care, love, support. He is a beautiful person. I find his presence very soothing. I feel very safe in his arms. He has been truly supportive.
I have been balancing out my emotions and friendship with him. It has been painful, and even embarrassing. he does not want me to go.
Should I wait more? But what I dont get is till when? Till when should I keep myself hanging? What if he never wants a relationship?
There is this other guy who likes me, a loooooot. But i told him I cant do justice to him because I alreayd like someone else. That is not very relevant, actually.
The main question that troubles me is that till when should I wait for my love to come and say 'I want to date you and I dont want you to date anyone'
Sigh. I dont know.
Maybe you have something to say.
Thanks in advance.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Im really sorry to tell you this, but he is MINDF**CKING you girl, honestly just do not wait any longer. You should never ever have to wait such a long time for someone to make their mind up whether they want you or not? Long distance never works, you may think that it will and you will do this and that to make sure it works but it WONT. It never does. Move on.
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