Question Posted Wednesday December 5 2012, 5:30 am
Hello my name is David I'm 17 and I am confused on what to do with my girlfriend who is also 17.
We've been together for about Half a year we are Still virgins.
We usually just cuddle and make out with eachother when we're alone and when there's nothing to do.
So a 3 days ago me and my girlfriend where wrestling around on the couch because she thought it would he pretty funny to steal my game controller away from me when she was done talking to her friend, next thing you know things got a little heated and then I realized, WHAT the hell am I gonna do? multiple things are rushing through my mind, what if I'm not a good lover? What if I can't last that long? I DONT HAVE A CONDOM! So I panicked and said that I needed to use the bathroom.
I walked her home after I panicked, I told her I loved her and I was sorry.
Now what do I do? For the past 3 days we've almost did it.
I really want our first time to be special, loving and romantic.
I know it seems stupid for me to think this, but I really want our first time to be special but the problem is How do I make it special? I never really planned anything like this and to be honest, I'm clueless on what to do.
mayzellerose answered Saturday December 8 2012, 7:35 am: Letting it happen naturally instead of planning it is the most romantic part of losing your virginity. Yes, you'll need to buy condoms in advance, but other than that, let yourself get heated again and just relax. The first time will always be a little awkward, but the tone of the relationship is what makes it worth it. You two love each other, so your lovemaking will automatically be a sweet moment. [ mayzellerose's advice column | Ask mayzellerose A Question ]
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