Question Posted Wednesday November 21 2012, 6:49 am
F/15
I have this best friend, that's a boy... We're so close, but lately we've fallen for each other, we've told each other, we've expressed those “I love you” which is obviously a bit more deeper than “I like you” or whatever. Anyway, over the past month we were both making the effort and everything were going so well. Now, he doesn't even make the effort with me, even in texting! I honestly think he can't be bothered with me anymore, I keep pestering him, getting upset, crying because I'm scared to lose him and he knows this, I feel as though as I need him, I can't stop crying about all this because I know I'm going to lose him, I know I am. I can actually see it coming, I've never felt like this about anyone before and this feeling is horrible, my heart feels like it's in my stomach. Please help me win his effort back :/ I want him to want me as much as he wanted me before.
Thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cherryhelp answered Thursday November 22 2012, 2:21 pm: awwww its sooo sweet you think you need him ! ...maybe he dont try tht much because of various guessing reasons ...1.he can be dealing with problems or other things..2. he might not feel the way he did because it might not feel the same as how it use to with you ..maybe you already done this but if you haven't, just sit down with him, tell him how much you really love him and how much he means to you..try holding his hand and looking him in the eyes and just bring up all the good times also the first time you guys met and try asking him questions, like if he really love you cause if he do love you he will wanna try to make things work out between you guys..also try making things interesting.. [ cherryhelp's advice column | Ask cherryhelp A Question ]
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