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is my bf been suspicious or am I insecure?
My bf and I have been together for about 11 months.
Recently he seems very distant, its almost as if he never texts unless I try to initiate conversation with him. Sometimes when I text him he calls me. But we have gone from talking like 5 times a day to one or 2 texts... And that's only on good days.
My mind has seriously been wondering if he is seeing someone else and maybe doesn't want to see me anymore.
I had a 2 discussions with him.
The first I straight out asked him if he was seeing someone else.. To which he replied that he had not even considered it and asked if I was seeing other people and that when he thinks about me with someone else he gets a strange feeling inside.
Twice after that he had implied he is the faithful type... Once we were speaking about his past and his ex who studied 1000miles away and he said he was true to her. And once he said its only me wants to hold n touch him.
The second time I explained how we growing distant and he explained he has been busier at work... And then made a point that week of dragging me to a few meetings. I should add he works 2 jobs.
See the thing is I haven't met anyy of his friends or family and am not sure if he is been serious in the relationship.
I mean ok we live an hour apart and he drives to fetch me and sometimes we only have an hour to spend together.
He once drove 3 hrs to spend half an hour at a picnic with me.
But nothing has changed and we still barely speak... I mean he has plenty of opportunity to mess around on me.
Am I being insecure or does something seem suspicious?
On the age side I'm 29 and he's 40 and its my first long relationship. Its his 3rd. He's never been married but lived with 2 woman for 10yrs and 5yrs
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I honestly think that if you still love him and you know he loves you then don't let it bother you. BUT ! I wouldn't blame you for feeling suspicious. You should ask him why you haven't met any of him family and friends. And you should go see him to give him a surprise. But If you think you can do better and find someone who wants to spend as much time with you than your current boyfriend can then i would move on. He could be holding you back to finding your true love. But listen to your heart, and the answer will come to you.
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