Ok so this is kinda long so I'm apologizing ahead. I dated this guy a few years ago and I randomly broke up with him and probably hurt his feelings but anyway he went to a different school than me. We've hung out since and have always acted like friends. I enven slept in the same bed with him with our mutual best friend. So the problem comes in 3 months ago when I moved to his school. I hadn't realized that I still liked him until then, and I would see him all the time at school. He was always flirty and talk about hanging out but it would always fall through. I knew he was in a serious relationship so I tried not to flirt back. The past month or so, they had been on and off. I went to prom and while I was there he called over all of my friends individually to say hi to his date(his ex gf) and did not even try to say hi to me. The whole entire night though I'd find him staring at me. I brushed it off and decided to extract him from my life since I liked him too much and didn't want any temptations. 2 weeks ago I finally deleted his number from my phone and defriended him on fb. The day after I did that I ended up having to text him and going to his graduation. I kept seeing him EVERYWHERE. Then 3 days ago I went to a party he showed up at. My friend had talked to him and told him I was going to be there.She told him not to try anything with me and he said "I don't care. She hates me anyways." The whole time I was there he was trying to talk to me and be around me and at one point I think he tried to kiss me. He also mentioned very loudly that his ex and him had been over for a while to my friend...Now i'm just completely confused and don't know what to do! Help!
Drewb13 answered Sunday June 10 2012, 12:46 pm: I think if you want to go out with him, you guys should slowly build your relationship up. Both of you need to find out where you guys stand. Ask yourselves if you still want to be friends or if you want to get back together.
Hope this helped.
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