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Is he for real?
So for about 9 months now, this guy and I (I'm a girl, obv.) have been almost a thing. We spend a lot of time together and act as a couple. But sometimes, we'll separate for a while. He's asked me to date him twice now. The first time, I had just met him and wanted to get to know him. The second time, we were at a party and he told me to date him. I said, "Ask me again when you're sober". Didn't happen obv. But the past month or so, we've been really acting like a couple. He asked me to the movies and took my hand, kissed me goodnight and told me he'd call me the next day. And he did, which he can't always be depended on to do. This continued for a while. For a few weeks, we were good. Then one night, his ex started screaming at him because he wouldn't date her again. And then she pulled me into it and said, "what are you doing f**king that 17 year old?!" (he just turned 24). Which of course led to him being subjected to a lot of b.s. from a lot of his friends. Now, a week later, we have gotten over this fight, seeing as he totally ignored me because of the incident. We've been spending time together all week, yet I'm getting that feeling that he's going to run off again. Why is this? And I don't feel as if he's playing me because I'm not giving him sex, which he doesn't ask for, but if that were his intention, why would he stick around for three quarters of a year? He doesn't have to ask to see me every day. I don't ask him to call and offer to pick me up from work. Or things like that. I don't know. Help anyone?
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it seem to me that he's confused on what he really wants if its you or her his ex . but how long have him and his ex was together but if he's been dating her for a long period of time he's definetley is going to go back to her so dont get so emotional and invovled wit him
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