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Opening Up
I need a good answer. I have looked around constantly and found no good answers. My girlfriend wants me to open up to her and I am completely fine with it. I want, am ready to and thought that I was but for some reason she doesn't think I am. Can you help me?
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Why doesn't she think you are?
"Opening up" isn't something that happens over night and it isn't something you just do, you know? There's a moment, and you know when you are ready to express how you feel.
Don't spend your time trying to convince her - it's selfish for her to put any pressure on you. She should try to be understanding.
If she's impatient, it's her loss. Do it on your own terms, and ignore any pressure she might put under you. Stand you're ground.
If you want to express how you feel about her - and you aren't good with words. Explain that - but also express your feelings in another way - writing a letter. It's something she can keep and read over and over if she ever questions you.
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