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My love life is a mess!
My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. I was feeling unsure about the relationship, and honestly (even though he cared about me) he wasn't showing his love for me at all. I felt like I was doing everything possible for him to be happy, and he never did the same to me. So we broke up.
In the following weeks, guys have started to become interested in me. Some are weird, some are funny, but there is really only one guy I am interested in. We went out for ice cream a couple nights ago, then dinner a day or so ago, and already have plans for another night out. I dont really know how serious he is about me or if we are just friends, but regardless, he always takes the time to give me such nice compliments and notes just to show he cares.
Well, its been about 3 weeks since I officially ended my first relationship and I am confused. I still love him and care about him so much. The thought of him being with someone else bugs me, but at the same time, I am not ready to commit. He was my first boyfriend, and we started dating 3 years ago. Now that I am getting older though, I want to KNOW I have found the right guy for me. I care about him, but I want to be IN LOVE. It's hard to move on with this new guy though, because I still care so deeply for guy #1.
Is this normal for break ups? What would you recommend? Does it make me slutty to have feelings for multiple guys? I am such a jumble!
Sorry this post was so long! Thx for the help :)
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It is normal. It happens in many relationships. In order to find the "right guy", you need to date around. Breaking up after a long term relationship, and later dating someone new, does not make you slutty, and neither does having feelings for multiple guys, just as long as you keep faithful. A woman is typically never labeled a "slut" until she has cheated and what not. Or slept with too many men.
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