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Dating you friend?
I wouldnt call us bestfriends since we don't tell each othe everythng and don't talk all the time like bestfriends do by we calls each ther bffs. He said he will always be my bff. Thing is I'm too proud to admit I like him. Everyone thinks we are dating or have dated before. When we first met we were very close to dating but I screw up BIG time. I feel like if I tell him how I feel I will get rejected and I don't think I can Handle that. I saw him flirting with this girl but I guess she didn't pay attention to him. Right now I fell like I'm loosing him as a friend and potential boyfriend. We both dated other people but it seems like EVERY time we talk there is a spark in us. We don't even see each other anymore except in between classes. Then there is the possibility that if we do date ad then break up I will lose the amazing friends that he is:/ is this a Lose lose situation?
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You should tell him how you feel. If he declines you then it may be awkward at first but if it's a great friendship it'll overcome that. If he says he feels the same, then great! Taking a friendship to a relationship always has that chance of ending and then where do you stand? If it just ends because it didn't work out and you still have a strong friendship then it can overcome that out come as well. You don't know what the future holds for and you'll never know until you take that chance if you really feel you like him more than a friend. The longer you wait the longer you'll have these worries.
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