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Why am I mean to people I want to be friends with, and nice to people I don


Question Posted Monday August 29 2011, 8:10 pm

I'm so mad at myself, cause idk why I keep doing it. I'm socially inept, seriously. like people I feel like I could get along with it's like I'm just self sabotaging things and I hate it. and I've been doing this for years. like I see myself as a nice person so why do I keep freezing up and not being able to be myself around people I know I can get along with????

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OctoberBeat answered Tuesday August 30 2011, 2:58 am:
Maybe you're scared of getting close to them and then being let down or hurt. Try to take notice when a conversation with a friendly stranger starts to turn and if possible stop it. Figure out what triggers you to start acting mean and work on it.

Good luck.

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