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sex at 13 and I think I am pregnant


Question Posted Friday August 26 2011, 10:39 pm

Hi, i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17.Me and my boyfriend had sex. It was my first time, but I think i'm pregnant.My boyfriend did some sex moves from a porno magazine and it hurt so much that I was almost crying.I'm to scared to tell my parents that I had sex and that I might be pregnant, they would kill me.What do I do I cant even sleep?Please help me.

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TuscanSun answered Monday September 5 2011, 2:20 pm:
You need to take a pregnancy test.

There are some clinics that will give free pregnancy tests without parental notification. You could look that up. Planned Parenthood is one of them.

You should also know that what you're doing is illegal. You're not of age to legally consent to sex. Your boyfriend could be charged with Statutory rape if you continue to have sex. It's illegal. Seriously.

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mary200022 answered Saturday August 27 2011, 9:15 am:
Take a pregnancy test and see if you are pregnant.
Sex for the first time does hert because of 'poppin the cherry', its when the dick goes in the vagina for the first time and it ripes a thin layer of skin and your bleed and feel pain....tell a close friend how your are feeling and get comfort and support from him/her.
If it turns out your are pregnant than you must tell your parent/family, if you dont tell them at the start they will find out because of how big your stomach is getting and the morning sickness and all the mood swings. they probably will be very angry in the beginning but will help you through it since they are your family .
Dont take this personally but in my opinion you should of never had sex in the first place since you are only 13 and are not ready yet, you probably thought you were ready but u most likely weren't, you will probably regret having sex at such a young age when you grow up. And i dont think you should have a boyfriend who is 17 when you are only 13....there is a 4 years gape in that relationship but it really isnt any of my business who you are dating.
Good Luck :)

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Ashkoni answered Saturday August 27 2011, 12:58 am:
i dont think you should have a boyfriend that is 17 when your only 13 thats straight up wrong, especially to have sex at 13.I think you should tell your closest parent. if not, go get one of those accurate pregnancy testers from the store

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