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He "regrets" it now..
Remember me? the girl you gave your AOL to? i am so sorry i didnt contact or update you earlier, but alot has been going on.. he came back to me, and he says he wants me back now, and hes still going on vacation but says he isnt gonna drink at all, and that he knows he fucked up bad, and he loves me so much and wants me back, and every single day he gets online for me, and writes me , and calls me baby and says hes so sorry, but im not feeling his apology, so i told him no.. but he isnt taking that for an answer, but at the same time, it doesnt seeum like hes making SO much of an effort.. like a few im sorrys, but it doesnt so sincere if you get me? his friends say he regrets it real bad but doesnt wanna come off as desperate.. he keeps talking to me all the time, to be honest i love him so much, and i would love to be with him again.. but only if i saw that he was making an effort to be with again,he is sort of, but not as much that i can feel it.. im being COMPLETELY honest here, im not sugar coating anything causei t wont get me anywhere, i just need your advice on what to do, understand my position, when he writes me, and calls me baby and all that, and says he wants to be with me again i get all weak.. and i cant just ignore him, but i need your help on what to do, i dont wanna give into him either because he fucked up so badly.. any advice? :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well if you love him and you want to give him another shot than tell him that he needs to make more effort and he has to prove to you that he has changed... And that you are not promising anything, but if he proves he has changed (and this will take time notjust over night) then you will be with him.
If you dont think he is being sincere about all of this then maybe try being friends and growing into a relationship. But dont let him "sweet talk" you into going back right away and def dont let him bully you into it.... Go back if and when you are ready... If you need anymore help you can email me (remember all you have to do is send an email I cant add aol is different) or come back here and I will be glad to help :)
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