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Is this relationship alright??
I recently met this guy 2 weeks ago, I barely know him and he recently had a bad previous relationship. He sometimes talks about his ex, and he says that he doesnt want her to get hurt and all that stuff and about her bf. Then he told me that I should learn how to kiss and be a grown women and im only 16 and he's 23..I know!
but then again, he says that I'm really important to him and that he really likes me. and I'm falling in love with him really badly
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well by telling you that you should learn how to kiss and be a grown woman he just wants you to be more like his ex girlfriend so i'm guessing that he's still pretty hung up on her, you really should confront him about this tell him that you like him a lot and if he wants things to work out between you two he needs to forget about his ex i'm sure that he'll understand considering his 23 and quite mature to differentiate between right and wrong
best of luck hun!
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Hello,
My first question (if I were a friend) would be why are you going out with a 23 year old guy! But, I am not here to judge you, I'm here to offer you a piece of advice :) In my opinion, he should NOT be telling you that you're a grown woman, because you aren't. And being a grown woman does not consist of kissing expertly. This guy is clearly trying to mold you into the girl he wants, since you're young and have yet to discover who you want to be. Plus, it's ONLY been two weeks! He is a stranger, already trying to change you, and that's a big no-no.
As far as talking about his ex, this means she most likely had a big impact on him. Whether it be good or bad, he needs time to get over it, and stabilize his life. Honestly speaking, do not get involved with this guy. Not to mention (I believe) he can get arrested for this. I myself went through this phase, except he was a pathological liar. He molded me into what he wanted me to be (I was 14 he was 18) and in the end, he cheated on me and humiliated me. I didn't know any better, and now I do. If someone could have given me this advice that I'm giving you now, and actually KEPT me away from him, I would probably be a much better person. Please, stay away from this guy. Stick to your friends in HS, you'll have plenty of time to go to college or work and meet new people. If you even said 'im only 16', that means your brain knows this situation isn't right. I hope I've helped. Good luck
:) Uniq
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