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why cant I "cum"?
Well I'm still a virgin but I masterbate a lot. Ill orgasm and right when I'm about to "finish" the feeling goes away but I never cum at all. Its dry down there .. =/ what's wrong with me? TMI? I'm a female btw
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I don't know how old you are so it's kind of difficult to help you out here not kowing your age.But some people can't come during masturbation along or during sex alone it's kinda either one or the other and you may find that during sex you can cum. You say you masturbate a lot and you cant cum and you think your abnormal that could be the problem. That your not relaxing yourself enough down there or maybe not giving yourself enough stimulation. Sometimes you coming depends on what part of the vagina it is that your actually stimulating. Sometimes you just need to find new inventives ways to allow you to reach climax and maybe then you can cum too because your feeling really aroused and you have no expectations and your completely and utterly relaxed. that's they key to most sexual pleasures, relaxation. Maybe try using a shower head? On a high setting to get you there, or even a vibrator and stimulate your g spot. Bcus for a fair few women stimulationg the g spot allows them to cum. You could try clearing all the pubic hair down below as it makes the skin available for more sensation.
If you're taking care of yourself start by fingering downwards over your hood. When you're feeling good rub little circles over you clitoris and hood in whatever speed and size feels best. Again when you're comfortable, pull your hood back towards you and massage your clitoris directly. If your finger(s) are dry then you will want to lick them. Continue gathering speed as you go. And remember to relax.
The G-Spot. This is found very easily. Insert your fingers inside and press up towards the "top". You should feel a "ribbed" spot. Small ribs or hills will be present. And if you've found it you'll be sure to know. Use 1 or 2 fingers and make a "come here" movement. Pull your fingers nearly out dragging them along the g-spot at whatever pressure you find most pleasurable. Repeat repeat repeat. Hope this helps, inbox me if you need more help xx
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