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About my ex best friend????
Okay, to start off my best friend she use to be a really, really nice person and a great friend I trusted her with everything, but she replaced me as her best friend, and she changed completley and it's really sad, she's hanging out with a girl who is such a bad friend, my ex best friend pierced her nose because her friend got her ear pierced for a bar, she's just not the person I once knew, and my boy friend who I have been dating for a year, he liked her first but she turned him down because my boy friend was to depressive and weird, which is ridicoulous, my boy friend he is an amazing person..kind, friendly and he treats me really good, but recently he wrote a not to my ex friend resolving feelings he once had for her, because he started to hang out with her more, not intending to his feelings came back, he wrote her the note to resolve everything, so he could just be mine. He did this the day after or before our 1st anaversery..:/ She told me before he could and he was so scared of losing me, now after things resolved from that, she seems like she wants to be with him, twice now they have been caught huging and today my ex best friend faked crying so my boy friend would hug her, which makes me feel like she wants him, we fought all the way to his house (my mom takes him home after school) and he almost cried over it, he feels like I really need to start trusting him because his past girl friends broke up with him because they blamed him for cheating when he never did. I don't know what to do, since I love him so much I don't want to break up with him, but my friends who tell me what they did, makes me worry that he still wants to be with her, when he told me many many many times that he just wants ME. :/ I hate being so parinoid, what should I do?
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Look, I totally get that you feel this way, and it's called jealousy! I absolutely understand, I get jealous every time my boyfriend talks to another girl. It's especially hard for you, because he used to have feelings for your ex-friend. But look, SHE'S the one trying to make him like her. SHE'S the one who wants him, not your boyfriend. And yes, he might hug her, and stuff, but he doesn't know what you're ex-friend is up to, boys are stupid like that! He's got you, and he's told you that he only wants you and I mean he wrote your ex-friend a letter resolving his feelings so he could be with you. Honestly if he has never let you down in the past, you should shut up, trust him and love him for god sakes!!! You've got a sweet, caring boyfriend who wants to be with you, so let him!! And about your ex-friend, she obviously doesn't really care about you, so why should you care for her. She found another friend that she thinks is better than you. She doesn't deserve you, and if she's willing to cast you aside, she's not the kind of true friend you want :)
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