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He was drunk, and he forced me into something... Now I am Freaking out!


Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2011, 8:08 am

new years day was the last day of ma period and I got together with this guy I was dating for a while and he was drunk, and he forced me into something but I got out of his VERY tight hold before he makes me loose my virginity and slapped him and all.....But I noticed that he came on my area even though I cleaned it real quick !!

I am two weeks late for my period! So 3 days later I was with this guy, I was pissed and drunk (I dont drink, so it was this one night thing) and he put his thing in really hard like three times and I think I lost my virginity but I did not bleed whatsoever, but freaking out because he was giving himself a handjob before he put it and I WAS drunk... I am taking a pregnancy test tomorrow but could I be pregnant but the test wouldn't be accurate?! Plus, I feel come in my underwear literally every 5 minutes, I have been changing my underwear more than 4 times a day, what is happening to me?!


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Uniqueme answered Friday February 11 2011, 12:31 am:
Okay well first things first, the guy you are dating forced you in sexually. Which is rape. You should talk to someone about it.
Though you cleaned it, the sperm undoubtedly made it's way in because just my laying with a naked guy and he ejaculates can get you pregnant.
You did lose your virginity, and your hymen doesn't necessarily pop the first few times you have sex. All depends on how tight or how stretched out it has gotten from other past activities. Such as putting in a tampon or horse back riding can stretch it out too.
You can take a test but I advise you to go to a doctor. You can look them up in a phonebook or online. If you are a teenager you can go to somewhere such as planned parenthood (all depends on where you live) and they won't contact your parents if you tell them not to because they could get sued. That would be more accurate.
What you are feeling in your underwear is not cum, you just are paranoid. It really is just your cycle. If what you are feeling is sort of slimy, and white or yellow, then it is your cycle finishing off.
Just be calm and handle it with a doctor's office. You could even go to your normal doctor, and they wouldn't be able to tell your parents or any body without your permission.

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