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She's blindesighted! Choosing him over her friends?
20f.
So my best friend gets really weird about guys, like she meets them and gets really attached and puts them before her friends which is ridiculous. Like she met this guy through facebook, well there moms know each other but they've never met. He came to her house with his friend and I was there, they were there for literally a minute because it was so awkward. And now she is always texting him and saying how she always wants to hang out with him even though he is leaving for college in like two weeks. She even said I regret asking Katie (her other friend) to go to the Twins baseball game, because I want to go with Charlie ..the guy shes been "talking" to. I told her thats not right because she doesn't even know him. She doesn't listen. And it's all she talks about, everything we talk about relates back to him it's like give it a break seriously. I think she tries to make me jealous but i'm not at all ..i'm just annoyed. And I know this guy only wants to hook up with her and she's only made out with a guy, never done anything else. She just doesn't understand when I tell her. I don't know what to do anymore..
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I know how seriously annoying this can be because my best friend was exactly the same when she got a boyfriend, he was the only one she cared about and she would ditch her friends to spend time with him.
Get all of your friends to start telling her, dont sort of gang up on her just tell her that you feel that she is getting too attatched to Charlie and sort of pushing her friends away.
I know its hard to get through to her but I think shes smitten with him.
Just tell her that if she continues the way she is then she is going to lose friends if she keeps putting a boy before her friends, thats not how friendships should be.
Really sorry I cant help more but just try to be patient with her, Im sure she will get over him but if she doesnt then theres nothing wrong with abit of tough love xx
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