i decided to try to let go to say to my self i need better i will get better but for some reason i feel like i still need him to say he picks her i need to hear it i feel like if i dont i wont be able to move on iv been avoiding him and its been working he did talk to me yesterday a bit well he tried to i dont know if i should go up to him and ask i dont want to do that but if i have to i will i just want things to go away he acts like it never happened i want to do that but i cant truthfully i dont know he can my friend said i should just wait and if it happens again tell him right there and then that i cant do that with him anymore i dont know what to do i dont want to go up to him i just want to wait to see if it happens again but i feel like if it happens again i wont be able to say no ill tell him and hes just going to say he needs time and were going to end up kissing again =-( i just have no idea what to do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Kitchel17 answered Saturday July 10 2010, 6:09 pm: Wow, its gets more complicated. You need to do what's best for you. If you you need to hear that confirmation then you should, but at some point you're gonna have to cut yourself off. Its hard I know but all of this back and forth and thinking of what if, and maybes isn't helping you. Its keeping you in the same place. You wanna get out, it'll be good for you. So the ball's in your court and the truth is you can keep going on with this and finally learn to let it go. Good luck and tell me and how it all works out!! Oh, you have my support:D [ Kitchel17's advice column | Ask Kitchel17 A Question ]
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