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what do i do about this one guy?
so I met this one guy I'm kinda seeing right now online.
we have been talking for maybe about a month now? and we have hung out a couple times. and we reallly hit off. I saw him this wholeee weekend and I even told my parents about him. that's how much I like him. he even saw a chick flick with me (: he's so sweet and I just love everything about him. but when we were talking one day he's like I'm not gonna put up with you hooking up with other guys if you do. and I'm like I wouldn't do that but you can't either and he's like I can do whatever I want ( he is very cocky and he jokes around allll the time ) and I'm like then I can too and he never said anything (that I can recall) and yesterday I just got in this really bad mood thinking about it. I recall like him and I don’t want to get hurt again. He told me that he wants to see me acouple more times before we get serious and he told me that I need to really start thinking what I want to do with my life. And because of him I know what I wanna do now. And he told me he's looking for a long term relationship and so am I. I really want him to be mine but ever since yesterday I've really been thinking. I'm scared that I'm just like another girl to him and another pussy. Even though we haven't gone that far. We just kiss and makeout but still.
So I made a fake account on the site we met on. And I like winked him or whatever and he's like hey (: what's up. And I'm like ohm nothing getting ready to party you? And he's like nothing just got off work gonna go to sleep and then wake up and do it again. My name is pat by the way (: and I'm like I'm riley. Do you have a girl or anything? He never responded and I'm scared he's gonna say no. yeah I know were not dating but for him to say that I can't do anything then obviously I mean something, right? I know I'm over reacting but I'm scared.
I told him I'm scared that he's gonna leave me and he said that if anything he would leave me for someone worse because I'm too good for him. He told me to stop worrying and that we would have a talk after he got off work yesterday. Wellll he called me twice and we didn’t talk about it but I think he's cause I was sleeping so he just said goodnight babe and sweet dreams.
I don’t know what to do. I know I'm stupid. But I have a right to be scared. If he flirts with “me” ( even though its really that fake person ) then I don't know what to do.
What do you think about all this?
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honestly if he wants to flirt with other girls give him a taste of his own medicine and see how he reacts honestly you seem like your way to good for him theres a million guys out there. i dont wanna put you down but he seems like a player sweetheart. and im not trying to be mean in anyway but you seem way way way to good for him. theres a million people out there. you deserve someone who treats you good. every girl does.The way he is acting is not repectable or trustworthy at all. and the main two things you need in a realationship is respect and trust. so i say give him a taste of his own medicine and see if he acts better and if not then go out there and find someone who will treat you like the queen you are :)
i hope i helped =]
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