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I need HELP!
im 15 and i like this guy alot he asked me to be his girlfrien and i said yes but my mom wont allow me to have a boyfriend how can i get her to trust me on this and approve?
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Talk to your mom about her concerns. Why doesn't she want you to have a boyfriend? Listen to what she says carefully and respectfully. Show her how grown up you are. Prove to her how responsible you are in other areas of your life. For example, be home before curfew and do all your homework. Explain that this is something you really want and are ready for. Invite him over to meet your mom so she knows who this person is.
And finally accept your moms limitations. If she decided he can come over but you aren't allowed in your bedroom for example, accept and respect it.
She's only looking out for you. Make sure she knows you know that. And just be mature about it. Listen to her and she'll listen to you.
But if she still says no, don't stomp around the house in a mood. Say that you're hurt and disappointed but you respect her decision. Then leave it for a couple days. If she doesn't change her mind with that - tell her you've listened to her concerns but you really want this, so you're going to go for it. And you hope she'll understand.
Best of luck xxx
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